Is it rude to tell someone they look fat?

[Anonymous]

My neighbor who is always passing on our house whenever she see me watering plants she will always tell me how fat looking am I, and my face is fat. Like I feel its not nice if she only knew I have a disease that makes me heavy by the way Im nir fat at all my body is the same as Selena Gomez gained weight. But Im tryin still to lose weight I dont eat lunch now and breakfast cuz Im conscious of gaining weight

[Screenwriter]

Yep. It's incredibly rude. What's her problem. You should tell her to mind her business. How invasive. She's not a personal friend who's concerned about you or a parent. Tell her to keep quiet! REALLY.

[Flower7]

Yes, of course that’s rude. Especially since she’s doing it without being asked for her opinion.

[Anonymous]

It doesn't have to bother you. You're letting it do that. Is it rude? Yea, but you're letting it slip deep inside of you.

When you're asleep does it bother you? Are you sad?
No, it doesn't bother you when you're asleep.
That's because your conscious mind is shut off in sleep.
You can no longer hold your insecurities.
But this you can do awake too. Just don't hold the thoughts that lead to your feeling that way
Switch your thinking before the ideas slip deep within you.

Something you are unaware of in consciousness cannot hurt you.
Forgive your neighbor so that you can forgive yourself.
Forgive meaning let go of in consciousness.

[inhua]

depends if you're actually fat or not

generally no, it's not rude because fat men get berated all the time for being fat and rightfully so. on the other hand people tend to use political correctness for fat women which is a double standard

[KingslayerC]

Yeah it's rude. Instead of skipping meals, have you considered just tracking calories and comparing it against your estimated daily calorie intake? You can make small adjustments until you are losing weight or at your goal weight.

If you want to do some reading, take a look at what intermittent fasting (what you are unintentionally doing) does to your insulin and growth hormone levels.

[SawerBrown]

By not eating breakfast snd lunch you're putting your metabolism into starvation mode and making bit easier to gain weight you have to eat to lose weight.

[Asker]

I eat dinner like I eat once a meal.

[SawerBrown]

You need to eat more often butblessceach time

[Asker]

youtube.com/shorts/vE8FVZbs444?feature=share3 its only little

[Nikki1989]

It is very rude and insulting.

[brandon1122]

That's body shaming