Boyfriend keeps asking me to do squats?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend is sweet, and always makes compliments. I don't have flat stomach (but still thin), big boobs, or anything like that. He always told me he loves me the way I am. Lately though, he has kept mentioning squats a lot. Since he said it kinda jokingly, I took it as a little joke. Now he said ''You should totally do squats''. He never really had a problem with my butt, and he is a butt guy. I kinda ignored it, and sometime later he asked me if I'm doing squats. So he was being serious. I'm not really a workout girl, and I still stay in a good shape. And he isn't doing any workout either, it's not like I'm telling him you should do push-ups or whatever. I honestly don't know how to react to this?

[singlebee]

Well that means you needed to work your booty out... You booty might not be that good looking to him... Or round in shape...
I am a butt guy too and i would hate it if my girlfriend had a not so good booty... he jokingly told you to workout cause it can make you feel bad... But i know he is serious about it... so go and workout...

[EarthToKepler]

Don't react yet.. Give him a taste in his own medicine... Ask him is he lifting weights ir he should 'totally get into lifting weights'

If he starts an argument.. You're gonna win because he mentioned the squats first.

Goodluck

[Asker]

He most likely will start and argument , and if I mention squats, he will go all innocent. Because he always needs to win in an argument .

[EarthToKepler]

Yeah but if he does start an argument you can just say 'you said the thing about the squats, now you know how I feel when you mentioned that I should do squats'

[lumos]

He wants your butt to get bigger, or more in shape. Or whatever. I hate working out myself, so if my hypothetical boyfriend kept annoying me about squats and squatting, I'd tell him something like "dude, if you're so damn obsessed with squats, do them yourself, because I'm not going to." lol

[JustMichèle]

Ate you happy with how your butt looks? Just say how you feel about it.. I think you feel pretty offended so just be honest towards him but you light give it a try :) it's really easy to do it and you see results pretty fast

[Asker]

Honestly I'm pretty fine with my butt.

[Dani78]

He's a jerk. If he loves you he wouldn't be pestering you to do stupid things. I would tell him get lost. He's making you feel bad not good about yourself like he should.

[AmandaLynn1930]

maybe he just wants you to have a little more junk in the trunk or thicker legs? maybe more toned legs, since you don't work out... try doing them and see what he says..

[opugh93]

You should point out that he isn't working out himself and see what he says to that.

[MrAtticusLebowski]

now there's two possibilities here. He's trying to hint at the fact that he'd like your ass a bit firmer lol. OR... the other likely reason? I think women overlook that exercise, it works the areas most women want to tighten up. All in one exercise.

[Mmcmenamin86]

In short, if you find yourself in a position
of your partner wanting you to have a different
appearance you might have some deeper
issues going on. (This got you wondering
how your relationship is doing? ) "These guys suffer from narcissistic personalities and need constant external validation to prove to the world they're
special."

[Anonymous]

It wasn't even a bad remark, you said it yourself "he is a butt guy". Most butt guys love girls who can squat because your butt gains a new level of toning.

Are guys just not supposed to say anything about the female body?

[Opinion Owner]

Also it makes your legs look better.

[Asker]

I've already talked him a lot about butts. He always said how he loves mine, and is the best. Then out of nowhere (and my butt is still the same) he asks that. Sure, I can do squats, but if he has been kind of lying about the way he likes my butt, it's annoying. If I have to do squats why doesn't he need to get rid of his belly?

[Opinion Owner]

I can my bf's butt and still see room for improvement. Don't take it so personally.
He told you about a workout then it's your turn to mention his belly if you see room for improvement.

Being in a relationship isn't about settling for each other, it's also about being the best you. So just go workout together. He can work on his stomach and you do your squats. Just have fun with it, no need for hurt feelings.

[Consultant]

Everyoneshould be doing squats regardless of what the boyfriend says or regardless of their relationship status

[Anonymous]

You could just try doing them. It is a great exercise. I suggest starting with just the bar and doing 5 sets of 5 reps. Each workout add another 2.5 kgs (5 lbs) and take it from there.

[AestheticsFtw]

he is telling you have a flat ass, isn't that obvious?

[Ihav2fart]

He likes a nice formed firm booty and thighs

[Asker]

My legs are actually amazing, even though I don't exactly do anything to them. As much as I know what he's fapping for, I know he's into shaped butts and girls with six-packs but does he honestly expect me to be like that. (I would never even wanna get six-pack)

[Ihav2fart]

Well, he's gonna have to live with what he's given then.

[Asker]

Which is exactly what I've told him. You either love me the way I am or not, and he's always been fine with it. Until now?

[Ihav2fart]

Maybe he's finally gotten the cajones to speak about it.

[Ninamariebj]

Seriously feel like we are in the exact same position! I was always told what amazing legs I had never had a problem with my ass or legs. Always had a tummy even tho I'm a slim girl as well. But now my ass is all I have been thinking about

[Anonymous]

Just say yes, can't you tell?

[sizedoesnotmatter]

flat ass detected this is so obvious

[Anonymous]

go on gym date where the two of ye can get sexier