I'm 24 and I can't wait to have sex?

[Anonymous]

I had blowjobs in the past, but never any girl have thought I'm good enough to go all the way with me. I had been overweight all my life and this had make me insecure. I try not to show it, I can cover it for a while, but it comes out eventually when I run out of things to say. Plus I rarely meet girls. I'm still fat, not obese, I'm tall, 6'3 actually, and that helps, I have a job and I have a nice car, but I still live with my family. I recently joined the gym, but is going to take so long for me to lose the weight that I'm getting more frustrated everyday that pass by.

[TwistedLogic]

Don't be frustrated dude ! It's just a matter of time, if they don't like you the way you are, then they can burn themselves. It's really good that you joined the gym, though "it's better for your health". And think about it this way, they're not the right ones for you, I don't think anyone would be interested in dating a girl who cares about the outside look more than the personality, in my opinion the outside look is just a veneer and we should never pay attention to it. Anyway, we are beautiful the way God made us and I'm quite sure that you'll find a girl and pretty soon. Best of luck buddy =].

[Littletad]

Just be patient. Continue to workout and do what's good for yourself. For dating, try putting yourself more out there. Making new friends and new activities. For instance, at the gym, try meeting some new people there.

[Bella81]

I don't think be overweight is an issue at all, my ex-bf was a little overweight, not obese, and we had awesome sex all the times, I allways thought he was very handsome, he was as tall as you are, and as much as he complain about his weight, I couldn't change anything about him, he very attractive. I don't yhink you need muscle to have good sex, it's all about your performance :)

[Asker]

Is not sexual performance my issue, I don't know how you got there, and I'm not just a little overweight, I'm very overweight, just not obese.

[Bella81]

Little overweight, very overweight doesn't make any difference, if you say that sex performance is not the issue, where all this insecure is coming from?

[Asker]

The very overweight looks basically