Is it normal to be depressed over the fact that you are twenty and never had a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

It bothers me so much :(

Yes it is normal to obsess over it

No

[CincinnatiRedsfan]

Yes, it's completely normal for anyone at this age (or older) to become depressed over the fact (and obsess) to have never had a girlfriend.

I've still never had a girlfriend, although I quit becoming depressed about it when I hit 19/20 years old. I started saying "oh well, that's life." I mainly want sex anyway and I figured a girlfriend would be an easy way to have access to sex.

I'm sorry about your situation. I know it's tough to see other people out there in relationships. All I can say is to keep trying!

[matheus_mb]

Not depressed, I'd say it's normal to be upset. Don't worry yet though, it's more common than you think, I see questions of people with your age and older saying the same thing here every day. There's still plenty of time for you to find a boyfriend.

[Asker]

Does it have to do with luck?

[matheus_mb]

Yes, many times it's bad luck. Currently I'm having bad luck, for example :(

[Asker]

But how is it considered luck? What are you dealing with?

[matheus_mb]

When everything goes wrong for no apparent reason, I'd say it's luck. I'm just trying to find a girlfriend after years single with no success. Some situations that are happening are just bad luck.

[Asker]

that is a somewhat valid point that you made.

[Anonymous]

you aren't missing out on anything! truuuuuuust me learn through your friends what u shouldn't date and when the boys become men be ready cos you're going to find a good one, but for now have fun live and educate yourself nothing is better than falling back on your own success. plus it will make a man thrist for a lady like you.

[Meow-Girl]

I'm going to be thirty soon and have never had a boyfriend. Unfortunately i pushed many great guys away. Don't end up like me... talk to guys... just don't let your heart out too easily. Can yo imagine the depressed state i'm in... stay alone, good career, big but empty apartment, few friends. Put yourself out there hun, Ok:)

[Anonymous]

Try not to worry about it too much. It's not too uncommon. My best friend (I guess you could call her) is kind of in the same boat except she's almost 19, not 20.

I know it's really hard for her, so I'm sorry you feel this way. I think the worst part is probably the loneliness. If you can find some really close friends to spend as much time with as possible, that might help a lot.

Also there are whole websites that are supposed to be for local dating. Depending on where you live, you might meet someone that way... but maybe you don't want to find someone online? In that case, you could just try the cold approach, where you just walk up to someone and start talking to someone. (You could practice on people you don't find attractive first. lol.)

Armed with knowledge and a fist full of bravery, you can pick up a decent guy, I think... the tricky part is always gunna be the bravery. :P

[fun-weird-guy]

ost high school relationships do not last after high school is over. you are not the only one ho was not in a relationship in high school. you are only 20 and if you keep obsessing over not having a boyfriend it will make you miserable and after so long people will start to not want to be around you.

[jaeHyunkim]

It's normal, because many people do obsess over it.

But it's not something you should take so heavily on yourself.

Just do you. You'll find people if you put yourself out there.

[9mfeo]

Normal? No. Common? Yes.

Your relationship status or there lack of should not define you.

[SunDevil11]

I am 20 never had a boyfriend and only had one girlfriend so do not worry about it too much!

[RasAlGhul]

i vote A because im on the same situation with girls its feelbad

[Anonymous]

Yes it's normal. I'm depressed about how I have no friends at the age of 26.

[Anonymous]

I am going through the same thing concerning women.

[Asker]

How old are you?

[Opinion Owner]

I am 21

[HereForTheDay]

20 is very very young

[Asker]

Is it really? So you are saying that I shouldn't worry about it?

[HereForTheDay]

Yes, I am saying that you should enjoy your life and that you will run into loads of men that adore you in the coming years.

[Asker]

Let's hope lol

[HereForTheDay]

no... it is true. You will meet so so many people between 23 and 30... it will amaze you.

[Anonymous]

I'm 30 and I've never had a boyfriend either.

[PiuBelloAmante]

im single!!! lol!

[Strider90]

Its not normal.