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My breakfeast consist of : 3/5 eggs (Depends on apetite) + salad , the small things like nutella/jam. Lunch is mostly like 200g of chicken or just like standard sandwiches , random vegies or meat. Lunch is like a lot , ... And daily like brunch n snacks inbetween... And i eat around 1/2 loafs a bread per day... And i weight 70 Kg which is skinny havong in mind i'm around 195... And people sometimes makw the bs comments like :"You eat anythin?" , "You could apply for the job of a toothpick" etc. But honestly... Fat shaming can be worse... If i gain weight i just get "bigger" and the shaming stops. When obese people work hard and lose weight , the excess skin and like stretch marks etc is still material for society to shame them... So... Hats down and respect to thosr who put up with that.
Because it's okay to be skinny and it's not okay to be fat lmao. They hate themselves and us making fun of them makes it worse so apparently it's not okay. It's okay to shame skinny people cuz we can handle it because we're happy to be skinny.
I don’t understand the hypocrisy either. My guess is that there is significantly more overweight people out there (of course I’m not including those who are overweight due to medical conditions/medications) who are looking to normalize their sizes rather than put forth any effort to lose weight. I am naturally a size 2 and within a healthy BMI for my 5’4 height but I have been told by some people who are overweight to obese that I need to eat a sandwich since “only dogs like bones.” I don’t let any of it get to me, but many people out there of all sizes have body dysmorphia and eating disorders when hearing and internalizing these kind of negative comments.
Underweight is bad but being overweight is worser
Being underweight is something you can fix quicker and they do no have diseases an obese person usually has. They are usually pre diabetic etc etc. I think being obese is bad and no one should have any reason to be there. Being underweight is bad too they don't have any reason to be there but in health perspective they are safe! That's the difference.
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There's nothing "wrong" with it. People who say there's something wrong with it clearly view the word fat as a derogatory term, when in fact it's just another adjective.
There's nothing wrong with being fat or skinny, but people of any size need to be aware of the fact that what they do or don't eat has an affect on their health. It's a conscious choice to be fat or skinny and each have their own negative health affects, but being offended when someone refers to you as fat is 1. Ignoring the fact that there probably is something wrong with the lifestyle you lead and 2. Ignoring that (aside from some very rare medical conditions) it was your choice to become overweight and if you aren't comfortable with people describing you accurately then you shouldn't have overindulged.
There are some other factors that affect weight; women naturally have a higher amount of fat for use in child bearing; a stronger metabolism is going to process food more efficiently meaning there will be less excess. Different jobs, such as an office worker or park ranger, are going to exert different types/amounts of energy and therefore require different diets. Whichever factors there are in your life, people need to account for their own body. If you want to overindulge and be overweight, go for it, but be ready to accept the consequences.
On a side note, there are many mental conditions that can affect weight gain or loss, depression and anxiety being amoung the more common. If you recognize symptoms of these in yourself, get tested. Even if you were overreacting, it's better to confirm whether you're wrong or right ASAP, and get the necessary treatment you need.
It’s not ok. No one should be shamed for how they look. If someone wants to change their weight, then by all means they should try. However, as long as you are comfortable in your body, it shouldn’t matter if you are average or skinny or overweight. Most of the time the websites that tell you your right weight aren’t even correct. I’m a small person and I looked at a website to see if I was average weight. It said I could be 80 lbs and be average. I can guarantee that if I was 80 lbs, it would be very unhealthy.
It's "okay" to skinny shame because skinny people are precieved as the ones who are the aggressors and part of the problem. It's just like how people find it much more acceptable to be racist against white peoe than minorities. People are being indoctrinated over and over again that fat is good and skinny is bad. Of course people are going to feel that they can shame skinny people with that mentality in the social environment.
Skinny girls are seen as the ones who called all the fat girls fat. So they are considered the oppressors.
I've been both overweight and underweight, and from my personal experience overweight people have it much worse socially. Yes, skinny people might get the "eat a burger" comment out of concern from family or friends, but no stranger would tell them that. However, overweight people ARE shamed and told off to put down the fork by strangers. And on top of that they will be bullied much more because "it's right to bully them because I find them ugly" argument.
Shaming of any kind is bad, but I haven't really seen people shaming skinny people, only fat ones.
Maybe people get more alarmed about someone's health if they see them super bony and anorexic. So they try to make it so the people will try to eat more and have a healthy weight. I'd say generally its fat people who don't like the fat shaming, it's probably more common to see a fatty than a skinny. Least for me it is. So they flip out about it. They are probably jealous of those skinnier thaj themselves as well. So those who are "skinny" get shamed. When in reality those people have a healthy body than fats do.
I personally don't think either is okay. As someone who has experienced both, fat shaming is way worse. I know its awful and unacceptable to be skinny shamed, but at the end of the day skinny people will always be seen as accepted and the standard of beauty. Shaming someone when they already know they're fat and unattractive to the majority doesn't help anything. When someone is skinny shamed, they're still accepted and attractive to the majority. I don't condone skinny shaming or body shaming in general, but I consider fat shaming way worse. I'd rather be skinny shamed than fat shamed.
It’s because fat people are more insecure and they kind of experience more hatred. Neither is really ok and the only time it’s ok to talk to someone about their weight is when you think they are putting themselves at risk... like by starving themselves... or like when you know people in your family are prone to heart attacks and diabetes and a family memeber isn’t taking care of themselves.
I dont know why, i guess its because before, everyone saw super skinny as hot and then they realized the health consequences. Being too big or too small both has health consequences and people should be told if they are. I honestly dont know why skinny shaming is accepted but fat shaming isn't
Both are bad. I don't skinny shame and I don't fat shame. I once met a girl who was very thin and I encouraged her to eat more - not because I was jealous but because I was worried she was anorexic or mentally ill. I also have friends who weigh around 260 - 300 pounds and I tell them about the diets I am on - not because I don't respect fat people but because I want them to be as happy as possible and I believe they will be happier if they lose some weight.
Both should be wrong. But people also get offended if you actually worry about them. Neither overweight nor underweight is healthy.
99% of "hardgainers" are people with a really low appetite compared to their activity level by the way. Eating a lot is highly subjective.
Mostly guys want he nd her partner look like as stars.. guys àlso have dream his partner should be like as best star , athletic. And in prorper shape or figure..@nd here its for also complusery for medically fitt... both even not girls even both r should be look like in best shape..
Most people do not think it will hurt yor feelings because you are skinny and thats not a bad thing to be. People are so visual they want you to look good for them to look at... everyone want people to be perfect and strive for perfection but are never going to reach it all the way. So just ignore people thats say that because it not okay to skinny or fat shame.
I've said both, well obviously not in front of their face.
Altho I will say that if a guy or girl that was chubby before clearly lost some weight I would compliment on it.
However for people that have gained weight I would keep my mouth shut. Well unless they're close friend then they deserve to know the truth.
It's totally ok to fat shame let's just be honest with ourselves. It's ok in the exact same way it's ok to shame smokers or drug users with media to try and prevent future tragedies. And yes being obese for no reason other than laziness and poor diet is a tragedy.
It’s wrong for both but women through many generations (long ago before dinosaurs were created) in society was told skinny is the only answer. Only in the 21 century was it a trend to get thick thighs, butt, and lips and keep the flat stomach. Skinny shame is not a problem unless it’s a disorder.
No kind of body shaming is acceptable. People just assume that when we're skinny it's because we are starving ourselves to look like a model or something, it doesn't cross their tiny brains that it's genetic or even worse a deseases.
The story of my life, I'm underweight and a lot of people body shame us, some of us have body disorders just as some fat people. Well I guess they are trying to uplift themselves while putting down someone else.
Because it isn't. Why give a single fk about what SJW says. They can lie to themselves in their fictional world while I stomp on their feelings. Shame me? As if I give a fk about it in the first place.
In my opinion if they love themselves and want to wear a bikini then that's amazing cause they can care less with what people say and that is just nice... And if some plus sized models are making it how is that a problem? To be proud of your body and showing it off the way skinny models do is wrong?
Because fatties be jelly and skinny people are beautiful. It's kind of like when people shit on whites, i don't care, I've got thick skin, it's not going to ruin my day that they feel insecure about themselves.
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