Does it matter if a guy is overweight?

[jayrex]

overweight, fat, slightly fat, got man boobs, etc... Or do you prefer him to look after himself? Exercise etc...

I have lost a lot of weight, mostly because of what my brother said. Now I have an obsession to loose all the fat on me. But at the same time, I now exercise a lot. So I'm looking after myself.

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For the record, I have no idea how this ended up in sexuality?

[Leeggg]

I lost a heap of weight back in high school when I had all the time in the world for exercise. I thought I looked heaps better and was still trying to lose more and more. After high school though I got into the real world and didn't have enough time to go to the gym 7 days a week, so I put back on weight. After putting on like 7 or 8 kg I kept getting heaps more compliments from women and all my girl friends said that I'd started to look sick when I was lighter. So yeah, don't overdo it... but that's easier said than done, because your own image of yourself is probably not quite how others see you.

[t6484]

I prefer someone who looks after themselves. This doesn't have any connection with their physical appearance. There could be a drop dead gorgeous guy with defined muscles but who doesn't look after themself at all, this would be a turn off for me. As long as you look after yourself, it doesn't matter what you look like. Your physical appearance should soon catch up to the effort you put into yourself, though.

[Kadiboma]

I'm not a big lover of huge, muscly guys with six-packs. I never have been. I like a guy who has a bit of a belly (not huge), love handles and something to grab hold of. I like him to look after himself so much as to not be obese, I do no matter how tough it gets, but give me a few extra pounds over Mr Muscle anyday! :)

[Anonymous]

i learned after dating many many guys that looks are so shallow and stupid. So if he has a great personality, then yes, absolutely I would date him. but it's impossible being with someone that I can't laugh with

[Laurie182]

I serosuly do not care for wieght aslong as there not serously abese cause then its really effects there heath <3

[darlanoy0510]

I like medium weight guy. Not too skinny and not too big. A little fat doesn't hurt.