Why’s it that so many people have herpes but so many people are so mean and judgy about it?

As far as I’m aware and majority of people have it and when it boils down to telling somebody that you have it, they become judgmental aggressive ignorant and cast you out. Majority of the time when I tell a potential partner that I have it they always tell me that I shouldn’t date anybody ever again and that I shouldn’t be in a relationship and then I should keep to myself
Why’s it that so many people have herpes but so many people are so mean and judgy about it?
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