My daughter is 13 turning 14.
Tell her, and ask why she wants to know. Explain why they're used (not graphically) and definitely mention side effects of birth control and that neither is 100% effective.
If you're open to discussing it, maybe she'll be open to asking more questions and giving you an idea of what she's planning to do. Then you'll be able to give her proper warning and caution that sex at a young age is a very bad idea and not worth it. That there's other things she can do that are intimate instead, like cuddling and maybe kissing. That sex isn't needed to have a fulfilling relationship and if some kid tells her it is, he's lying.
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in a perfect world, they wouldn't.
but she has, which means she probably will.
better to sit down and give information (let her watch mama doctor jones on youtube as she's great and informative!) and give her the options and answers to her questions.
When my father walked in when I was fingering my girlfriend on the couch, he walked out the door without word, bought this and insisted I read it. And then we had The Talk.
It is far more important for a daughter to read. I would compel it. Then we would have The Talk. I lived and breathes Pussy back then and could speak to her as an expert.
I'd tell her that I'll tell the boy where to buy condoms when he comes over. Then when he comes over I'll have a little chat with him explaining that if he's thinking about having sex with my 13 year old daughter, he better think again. I'll also have my shotgun next to me. He'll get the message
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In this age, my daughters knew everything about birth control, condoms, and the whole rest... I didn't wait for school, we used existing conversations to provide the whole needed knowledge
I don’t but to me it’s all about being open, honest and factual. If you are not able to go through it, then book her an appointment at a health clinic and a professional will go through it with her.
For the UK, 14-16 tends to be when most start, giving them factual information is the best way.I'd sit down with her and go through everything, also answering all her questions with complete and open honesty.
Already covered that for my weeks away 15 yo. Told her when thinks she's ready for sex well discuss options and pursue method she feels mot comfortable with. The older boys get a box of condoms in stocking from Santa every year. Sex should be as open a topic as the weather IMHO.
Buy condoms, put her on birth control and tell her anything else she might need to know.
It's good that she trusts me and asks for advice. Also that she's responsible. Already better then me back then.
I would talk to her about sex and I would ask her about her boyfriend and how old he is and I would go get it for her because even I don't she'll do what she wants to do.
I would feel conflicted, worried that she is way to young but also glad that she could come to me with things like this, they are going to have sex eventually so best they do it safely I guess
school teaches about this properly, and a bit earlier than 14 too
I would say that it is time for a long truthful conversation with her. At least she is considering taking precautions before things get in motion.
I would tell her... Hopefully before that age honestly.
i would tell the truths about: sperm n condom n teen guy jerks n his real goals!
Welp lol then its that time for her 🤷♂️
Just make sure you give her some decent sex ed and make sure she knows she can tell you anythingI would explain and ask why is she asking those questions.
Give her some condoms to just in case talking to her doesn’t help
I would tell her of course and probably schedule an appointment with a doctor
Bring her shopping and talk about it with her.
Be honest, lay it out for her, put her on birth control
Why not teach your daughter about buttsex?
I would tell her to talk to her mother.
tell her how it works and where to buy condoms
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