I haven't eaten for 4 days, I'm not hungry but I'm throwing up?

[Anonymous]

I just discovered my ex is seeing someone else and he has been really really really unpleasent behind my back.

Anyway, I really haven't eaten for, this is the 4th day now. I'm not delibrately not eating, I have tried I just can't face it. Last night I had 1 bite of food and I had to stop. I'm simply not hungry and have no appetite at all.

Anyway, this morning I started violently throwing up.

Why?! There's nothing in my body to throw up!

Any suggestions what's happening...? I've not eaten before but I've never had this happen to me...

Updates

+1 y

Well I saw the counsellor...

She has said she needs to watch me mentally because I'm developing eating disorders and becoming socially recluse... if I get any worse I have to see a doctor or someone else.

Really don't know if it helped seeing her, but I've got to go back in 3 weeks time (she's away)


Thanks for the help everyone.

[WeaponZero]

The fact that you've allowed yourself to become so psychologically dependent on this guy while in a relationship in and of itself speaks of deeper issues on your part that you NEED to get addressed. Anyone who would allow themselves to become this dependent on someone is not in a position to be in a relationship in the first place.

Seek professional help.

[knowmeyourself]

She is just so heartbroken. It happens.

[WeaponZero]

yes I know but even in longtime relationships people don't become so psychologically dependent on the other person that they get like this when it ends.

[knowmeyourself]

When a man is so manipulative and narcissistic, he makes a girl his prey. We involuntarily become very weak, vulnerable and dependent. That's what they call "abuse" :) I have been there, my dear :)

[Asker]

I do get the point you're making WeaponZero and you are right... I have made an appointment with a counsellor, but knowmeyourself is right... I'm extremely heartbroken...

[Impalitteri]

how did your situation end? i am currently also going through loss of appetite and haven't eaten in 4 days, not the same reasons of course

[Asker]

@Impalitteri I ended up not eating for around a month and lost a lot of weight. I started seeing someone new for 4 years and we’ve just recently broken up. I’ve been diagnosed with severe health problems (unrelated) but sadly I’m still alive.

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

Seek professional help.

Chances are it's psychological, not just a mood swing. There's always the chance you are sleep-eating (a documented disorder) but you probably would have noticed the missing food.

So anyway, as I said, you need professional help. Well, either that or try living without food.

[Asker]

I'm going to a councillor on Monday.

I'm almost positive I'm not sleep eating because I'm not sleeping!

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

Can you drink at all? (I'm assuming you can considering how you're alive after 4 days) if you can then try making your food in smoothie form, it's better than nothing.

[Asker]

Some things I can keep down, others not so well. I'm forcing myself to drink otherwise I probably will pass out... I would do that but unfortunately we haven't got a blender or anything :\ It blew up...

[martyfellow]

4 days is not just a bad mood, there's something seriously wrong with you. It could be mental, some form of depression, but it's still a medical issue. Get thee to a doctor posthaste!

[Asker]

I'm going to a councillor on Monday

[martyfellow]

All the best to you. People who are easily hurt are good people, most of the time.

[Sima2]

Not most...Always

[Asker]

Maybe it's me being massively emotional right now but that made me well up with tears...thank you boys...

[martyfellow]

You're welcome!

[Sima2]

Maybe you should try eating fruits,but really juicy fruits.That would keep your organism stay hydrated and with enough vitamins til Monday

[Asker]

I've been trying to drink orange juice and that I'm finding really hard to keep down, my friend told me because it's acid on stomach acid and that I need something like milk? I already take vitamin supplements