Of course a guy will date a girl who is fit as long as you have shed your fat girl image in your mind, whatever being overweight meant to you.
I think the biggest problem with transformations is getting ourselves to believe in the new person we have become. I know people who are older who still define themselves based off of the things they did as teenagers or young adults, things they got a lot of flack for and are not particularly proud of themselves. I realize when we make a big change we may wonder, as well as those around us, if the change is a permanent one. Well, I am unsure how you can ever really know that and only time will tell, so better to embrace who you are now and enjoy it than wonder if it will stick.
So, if you are really happy and confident about yourself, then embrace that and start dating. Good luck!
do you like, run around saying "zomg I use to be like so fat now I'm so hot, feel sorry for me!" I bet you don't. so how on earth will they know how fat and horribly disgusting you use to be? (kidding of course...) I use to be around 215 lbs, went down to around 110 and now around to 140 (had a kid, now THAT weight is hard to get off!) no one will care about how you use to look. if you end up dating a guy, and they see an old picture for example they might go "WOW you look so different! but you were always beautiful!" =)
1) asking sth like that is not stupid but not thought about. Yes, genders are attracktes to each other mainly by "outer look" but not necessary. For you it's a great plus but that is behind you now and you can rememer it like a bad joke :)
2) Man are bold, hairy, have a lots of bad habits and woman still check them out, hang out with them, yes? So why would you worry about sth like that? You need to be thrilled, self-satisfied!
Yea I can't change what you were and you can't change the past so yea I would date a former fat girl...and they don't know you were fat unless you tell them and if they decide to NOT date you because you were formerly fat then they didn't not to stop being such a bitch
#Honestly
Heck yeah. Former fat girls are the best. They didn't grow up feeling like hot sh*t so they appreciate the attention guys give them and they're more loyal.
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I don't see any reason why I wouldn't. I admit to being a guy who is not attracted to obese women, but that's no longer a problem. I'd actually see it as a good thing in that you were able to have the willpower to lose the weight and now have extra confidence in yourself.
Sure, in fact it says even more positive things about you. The fact you had the willpower to do that says you're strong, driven, motivated!
Why should they know/remember?
If you look and feel good about yourself, don't even remember that girl you used to be existed.
You're a new you.
The past is the past.
You now are happy with how you look and that should reflect onto everyone else.:)
Confidence is something men find the sexiest, so be confident, remember you're beautiful, and go strut your stuff girl! :)
Much love to you <3
Ofc , its a plus that you went through all the trouble to lose weight and now you feel nice about it .
Congratulations on your success on this .
yes, but be careful; sexy bodies come with a price.
like being whistled at when you walk down the street.
Yes guys will date you. Now what you do is go on a little shopping spree and buy yourself some sexy underwear lol, then you'll really feel sexy
Sure, why not... Just don't let your old insecurities get in the way of your new found health and confidence.
a guy would date you if you were fat too , if he was really into you.so don`t bother yourself with stuff like this, just enjoy your new shape and sexiness ;)
guys won't know that you were formerly chubby, and they probably won't care =]
you go do your thing girl =]
First off, if they have never met you there is no way for them to know you were fat. Second, even one's that knew you before hand won't careas long as you are what you are now.
I don't see why not I don't most guy caring you are a fromer fat girl
Wait...did you say olive-colored skin?
I prefer my women to be non-green. But that's just me.
I don't think they'll care =) They won't know and if they do, they'll just be ipressed with how you lost weight =)
HOw did you lose that much weight?/! Any tips...:)
They don't give a sh*t if you used to be fat, as long as you're thin now that's all that matters...
As long as you're not fat and there's no obvious signs that you were once fat then yes, they will date you.
Yes. I'd date a "former fat girl". Honestly though, who would know other than you and close family relatives? Unless of course you're going for an ex or close guy friend.
Ya!! Theyll think its awesome that you took the initiative to lose weight!! But id try to keep it off by eating healthy and have an active lifestyle!! Good luck!!
is this a serious question?
Lmao!
Yeah, It shouldn't matter
LOL! Yeah...No Problem! :)
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