Would you date someone who had a tumor?

[Anonymous]

I was wondering if you would date someone who had a tumor? The reason why I am asking this is because I had to do surgery to remove my tumor. My tumor was very rare in the location I had it. Would you think I am weird for having a tumor ? Would you want date someone who had a tumor? I notice when I told my friends I was going to surgery for a tumor they were all shocked. They have been treating me different ever since. Its not like I am 15 but I'm 21 why have all my friends have been treating me different because of this tumor? Would you do the same?

[Anonymous]

I would date someone who had a tumor, but it would be a little more difficult for me if the tumor was high risk and cancerous. I wouldn't think anyone is weird for having a tumor because it is beyond someone's control. I can see how your friends might have been a little shocked because tumors are often linked with cancer and they can be dangerous to remove sometimes.

[Anonymous]

Sure. Where was it?

[Asker]

In my thumb of my right hand.

[Opinion Owner]

That's it? Why are you even giving this any thought? If you're really concerned, wait until date #4 or so - or anytime after you first sleep with the guy to tell him. By then, nothing like that will even matter.

[Asker]

Because it makes it hard to do simple things like eating properly with a fork or knife. It?s still enlarged like 4inches. Its huge compared my other thumb! Some of the things are still hard when I use my right hand for stuff.

[Opinion Owner]

When is it supposed to go down?

[Asker]

My thumb is smaller now. Before my operation it was lot bigger. I have only five months left to be done healing and I am hoping my thumb will be 3inches by then.