Fellow dudes, how do you stop thinking about a girl or girls?

[Anonymous]

Just everyday thinking about her and other girls. I want to focus on other things like school, my job, my health. But I'm always focused on meeting girls or thinking about them. I mean I go to the gym, I focus on school, but when in spare time all I do is think about the girls.

[cheerangelcharity]

It's human nature for people to constantly think about those they're attracted to. As long as you're getting good grades, doing a good job at work, and having other interests then it's alright. I used to [and sometimes still] have the habit of constantly thinking about certain guys, looking at pictures of them [that I find online], and trying to get their attention when they're around. It did affect my grades and I had tend to talk about them both at work and to my friends at school but now I wish I was more focused on school and work. So if you find yourself distracted by them while you should be doing something else [school work, job] remember that your future with those things is more important! Of course being in a relationship should be important too but you should never let girls negatively affect your future.

[tex151]

Well as long as your not obsessing over one girl constantly, then it's a normal thing, I think of women all the time to but not to the point when I have built a shrine out of one. If you want to take your mind off them in your spare time, find a hobby, a sport, or just hang out with your guy friends.

[FillMeUp101]

Not something to worry about. I would say that its normal. Its hard for me not to think about girls too. Its normal dude, talk about girls with your friends more you'll see just how alike we guys are.