He's not a violent person and he would never do anything to hurt her when he's conscious.
Ladies, what would you do if you were dating a man who had a sleeping disorder like this?
To put it bluntly, if he loved her and was genuinely a caring person, he would have done anything to get help by now to help improve the situation. If he's too proud or embaressed to get help he needs to man up quickly before he ends up seriously hurting her. My boyfriend has already told me if he even did so much as snore in his sleep he would do anything to prevent it so I could sleep well. I don't know any man that wouldn't get help for this sort of sleep disorder if he loved his wife.
If he was unwilling to get help, after discussing the issues why, I would offer to go with him if he wanted to get help and if he refused I would soon leave because it is unnacceptable to be treated that way.
i would wait until he went to sleep every night and beat the sh*t out of him and I would continue to do that until he got help, what's the difference.
seriously though he needs to take some responsibilty and if he loved your sister he would get help, what kind of man would want to hit a woman knowling or not and choose to continue doing so.
also if your sister chooses to sleep in the same bed, it's just as much her fault.
why would he have any reason to change when he's still getting everthing he wants, he can treat her how he wants to and she still sleeps with him, no consequences
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If he didn't get help for it I would leave him. And TBH I think you're an ass for not intervening. You should regard him as an abusive husband. His choice to sleep in the same bed with her and his choice to not seek treatment for it KNOWING what he is putting her through makes what he is doing to her no different from domestic abuse. And her acceptance of the situation and enabling him by not forcing him to seek treatment is no different from the behavior battered wives exhibit.
I honestly never thought of it that way. But your logic does make sense.
Wow, you're really not thinking this through, like, at all. 1) It says right in the post that she is choosing to sleep in the bed knowing what he does 2) he can't help it. 3) you don't know what kind of mental disorder he has, maybe his stubbornness is part of the disorder itself? We don't know, so how can you say this is like domestic violence? That is an insult to women and men who suffer real domestic violence. This is a man who needs help and a woman who is consenting to sleep with him
Yes, I would.. If he would seek treatment ASAP and I will make sure we sleep in separate bed or room till everything is good.
he would seek treatment or he wouldn't sleep next to me in the bed at night, simple as that.
he needs to seek help, you can't be okay with that disease and live like that forever. no woman deserves that. its not even safe for kids.
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