I'm 18 and never made out with a girl.

[goodguy77]

I am 18 and still have Never made out with a girl, I don't even know how to do it, does it just come natural, or when I do do it for the first time will she be able to tell I haven't before?

[metaldave20]

guys will tell you, that you're not "caught up" but girls will tell you, that its ok to wait, until you feel like you really want to

but what ill tell you is that, I'm like you, not exactly like you, but nowadays people are making out at 13, ya know? just the times we live in. when I first made out I was like late 15 early 16/my junior year of high school. I'm only a sophomore in college, so what does that tell you, yeah I was a late bloomer too. its ok to not have made out by age 18, better to not have the "man-slut" reputation, ya know?

if and when you feel like you can, then go for it, itll just come natural to you, it was natural for me when I did it, cause I just felt like there was some sexual tension that needed to be "explored", ya know?

anyway that's my rant on making out,

thanks for listening, and hope this helps

[iloveashton]

I think it may come naturally... she will never be able to tell that you havent. You would surprised at how many guys are bad kissers even older then you who have kissed girls plenty of times..and girls being girls aren't quick to point things out.. but if you get close to a girl. etc. after you do do it.. maybe you can try to ask her "slyly" that you want her to teach you how to kiss her the way she would like it.. or tell her the truth depending on how close you are to her.. but I think it does come naturally and if you have a good kisser you will learn to kiss well. lol (I was someones first kiss, and he is the best kisser I know) lol

[ggazelles]

Some people are naturals, some are not, you won't know which category you fit into until you try.

Some tips:

Don't be sloppy. If you see her wipe her mouth, take that as a sign you're using too much tongue.

Don't eat her face. It's best to start small and just kiss her lips and use a small amount of tongue. Don't try and devour her whole mouth or jam your tongue down her throat.

Trying lightly biting her lower lip. It's a nice thing to do when you take a quick break from kissing and will make it seem like you have some experience.

Good luck!

[Anonymous]

Some of it will come naturally, but it will most likely take awhile to develop some finer techniques. She may or may not be able to tell that you are new to it. Some people are better starting out than others. Don't worry about it too much. If she likes you, she should be willing to work with you :)