How important is the body on a guy?

[Anonymous]

I have a self image issue. I looked in the mirror and I don't really like what I see. I mean I'm healthy and all that. I work out and am active. I have been told I'm cute and stuff. When I take on my shirt and look in the mirror I notice my body sags and tad. I have some excess skin, some muscle, etc. I was wondering how Important is a body on a guy?

Im not overweight, I don't eat junk food. Between work and the gym I'm usually busy 55-70hrs a week. I just turned 21 and my hair is starting to thin/fall out because I'm worried about this matter.

[annedechasse]

You'd be surprised.

Firstly a lot of women come from families where a lot of male members lose their hair so forget that, we are used to it. Think Jason Stratham, Woody Harrelson etc.

Your main concern, your body. Women certainly all don't want bodybuilders in fact a body that is too hard is a real turn off for some of us, I don't like it at all. I like a bit of play in skin.

The fact that you are busy and don't eat junk food is great and you should believe people when they say you are cute, you probably are.

[madmisskelly]

I don't look for specific body types. Basically, I look for a guy who takes care of himself and works out, etc. You don't have to be a model and you don't have to have a six pack.

I know that my body is important to most men out there and that if I don't take care of myself and keep it looking the best I possibly can that it will be a deal breaker for some. Plus, I just like my body more when I am working out and taking care of it.

Changing your workout up a bit may help you feel more confident!

[beastman88]

not as important as you think, I know lots of perfect looking girls going out with more than chubby guys so body doesn't really seem to matter. a lot of women like the extra cushion, some dont. definitely not worth obsessing over, just a fact of life.

[TheJesseVentura]

In reality, most girls do not care about body features. But if you want a better body, it is not that difficult. Just do some cardio everyday, run at least two miles everyday and do mountain climbers to get abs. Push yourself. Haa!

[kdizzleforizzle91]

I don't prefer the body type on guys that most girls seem to. I don't need all the big, buff muscles to be attracted to him. Just an average, healthy body is enough for me. But even then, the connection with him and the way he treats me means more to me.

[Anonymous]

to be honest, body is not that important..its how you carry yourself. Honestly a guy can be chubby/skinny but if he is confident and funny, he will make himself more attractive. What ever you don't like about your image, its simple...change it and you will feel more confident. If you want more muscles or to tone up...look up eating plans on the internet and work out how to build muscle etc..

[Anonymous]

Looks like the girls have addressed your question pretty well, but as far as the hair goes, just shave it off. Nothing worse than pretending like you're not losing it when it's well on its way.

[Anonymous]

saggy skin and thinning hair at 30? this is not normal...did you used to be unhealthy/overweight?

[Asker]

Yes unfortunatley but that has changed now.

[Anonymous]

By the time you're getting your clothes off for a girl, you're already sorted. She likes you. Your body isn't going to do anything for her really.

[nancyjune561]

can not image.everyone want to have a wonderful body.

[Asker]

What if you don't?

[Anonymous]

If you're not hot you're not ideal to her.

[Anonymous]

Not that important

Just don't be obese

[IHateMeganFox]

It's a bonus.