Do things work for you like this?

[Anonymous]

No girl has ever gave me attention when I wanted it. When I asked for it. I'm still old lonely virgin. I decided over years of depression and loneliness to not give girls any attention. Now girls are getting mad at me! As if I owe them attention and be a emotional havoc because they want the satisfaction that they attracted a male. Doesn't matter if they're even interested in that male, all it matters to most of them is that they caught they're eye. I'm not as visual as I once was. The demeaning personality of a average women now a days is a turn off!

[Sue09]

Most girls I know are very soft and maybe too kind to the men in their lives. I know there are plenty of bitches out there to but maybe you are attracting the bad ones or trying to meet women in the wrong kinda of places.

It sounds to me like you suffer from depression. Others can sense that and it may make you seem unapproachable to normal women and bad women could see you as an easy target. Also it may negatively effect the way you view and interact with others, without you even noticing.

I think you should focus on getting yourself into a good place in your life before you worry about anyone else. You could be surprised that other things in your life, including your problem with women, just falls into place after that. Consider some counselling for yourself to figure out what is going on inside yourself and make that your priority for now.

Relationships can't be forced. They just kind of happen when your heart is ready. And remember, we're not all bad. A chip on your shoulder won't help you in the future.

Take care of yourself honey and good luck to you. I hope you find happiness within yourself and that in the future you find someone to share that happiness with you.

Mind yourself!

[Asker]

Thank you for your kind words! That whole talk about people's auras, technically its all true. I'm not a negative person at all, but I do know how to sense auras and the vibes I've been getting from women has clearly told me they're not interested. Iv'e gotten this vibe by pretty much every girl. A lot of people are telling me I'm doing something wrong, but I just be myself. If these girls don't like me then I'm just more man then they can handle because I know I'm the realist they get!