Have you ever seen an overweight person and thought their size fit them?

[Anonymous]

I joined this dating site just to look, but really to read the forums lol. Haven't been on in months. I got on tday and saw this message from this guy. He commented on me putting that I was an extra few pounds for my body type. I don't know the guy, but he said that he has seen me around school school, so obviously he has seen what my body shape looks like. I'm over weight, but I think slightly chubby sounds nicer. My body looks similar to the woman on the far right, , but my boobs are as big link . I thought it was weird because I rarely get compliements on my body, especially from guys. I'm used to being told negative stuff or people feeling that I would be prettier if I was smaller. I usually hear the same thing said about other overweight people. Or people saying that someone looks a hellavu lot better smaller, after losing the weight. so that was new to me.

[justbanANNAz]

yeah, I can't even imagine some really pretty girls I know any smaller than they are now:) like with people I can see it, with some I just can't!

im straight right but tbh I don't find the extra skinny girl attractive. like the one on the far left made me cringe a little... look how think her calves are!

i love curves and a little meat on the bone, makes us look like women and not 12yr old boys:P

[Asker]

I wonder how other people can do that, because they I see someone now, is always how I'm going to imagine them. I feel like most shapes and size are beautiful, but some are just so stuck with this one particular image, and feel like everyone would look better this way.And lol I agree with everything you said

[justbanANNAz]

Yeh I totally get u, I guess its easier for some people to appreciate someones existent shape instead of imagining them any differently;)

[pickledxtofu]

To be honest, no

Very few women carry excess weight or thickness well, without photoshop

But everyone is different and has different tastes. Not all men and women think alike or prefer the same things

Some guys are into overweight girls while others aren't. Some can appreciate an overweight body

[Asker]

That picture I posted, I can tell it was photoshopped, Especially with the face, but it was the closest I could find to my body shape

[pickledxtofu]

Oh I didn't click it

[Asker]

Oh that's why I thought you mentioned photoshop, but its okay lol

[pickledxtofu]

Oh no haha

I clicked it now and I thought that it wasn't photoshopped? Dove is against that. The pic you linked is part of the advertisement from Dove to love yourself

[Asker]

Ohhh I didn't know that it was from Dove, I just googled "slightly chubby"lol. Its should about how her face, maybe the way its angled, that made me think so. I guess also because you usually when you see an overweight person, you usually see it in their body and face.

[pickledxtofu]

Yeah, it's a pretty popular photo for their campaign

I think the shapes in the middle and right are good. The really skinny one isn't my taste(I'm a girl though).

I'd say guys in general care more about shape than numbers or weight

[xzinax2]

well it does lead to less visible wrinkles,bigger boobs,butt-so it does happen. and some guys look kind of lanky when thin,so it suits them.

[Anonymous]

Yes I think so, like when fat people get skinny and their faces and everything are different in a bad way now

[Anonymous]

yes, a lot of overweight women have beautiful faces and do their make up and hair beautifully. But I have never saw a guy I thought looked good fat...

[Anonymous]

yes, some people are like that, like snooki she looked better fat