Laugh it off or don't say anything?

[Anonymous]

So there's a chick I've been talking to online for a month or so, practically everyday, she told me she got a boyfriend, and I was somewhat pissed because I thought I made it pretty obvious that I was interested in her (im not into long distance, but she mentioned in the past that if I went to see her she had a spare room in her house), when I brought up being interested she said she had no idea, I'm not sure if she's full of sh*t or what, but I genuinely like talking to her so I decided to keeping talking to her, yesterday we had this convo

[8/19/2013 2:04:12 PM] Matt: kinda like in the amazing vid I sent you a few days ago

[8/19/2013 2:04:19 PM] Matt: that you never watched

[8/19/2013 2:04:50 PM] Jenny: O yeh

[8/19/2013 2:04:55 PM] Jenny: Awks soz

[8/19/2013 2:05:32 PM] Matt: lol

[8/19/2013 2:05:33 PM] Matt: its fine

[8/19/2013 2:05:38 PM] Matt: but it really was awesome

[8/19/2013 2:05:53 PM] Jenny: Lmao

[8/19/2013 2:05:55 PM] Jenny: I bet

[8/19/2013 2:05:55 PM] Matt: so awesome that I made something similar and put it on facebok

[8/19/2013 2:06:06 PM] Jenny: Darn you

[8/19/2013 2:06:11 PM] Jenny: Make me another

[8/19/2013 2:06:11 PM] Matt: but I can't show you that either Because your crumpet lovin ass doesn't have one

[8/19/2013 2:06:19 PM] Matt: NO wayyy

[8/19/2013 2:06:24 PM] Matt: it was kinda awkward for me

[8/19/2013 2:06:28 PM] Jenny: WHY

[8/19/2013 2:06:30 PM] Matt: its worth scrolling up though

[8/19/2013 2:06:33 PM] Matt: ill give you a few mins

[8/19/2013 2:06:38 PM] Matt: GOOOOOOO

[8/19/2013 2:06:38 PM] Jenny: Fs no way

[8/19/2013 2:06:40 PM] Jenny: Too far

[8/19/2013 2:06:45 PM] Jenny: No no no no no no no

[8/19/2013 2:07:19 PM] Matt: Fine I just won't talk to you until I know you've seen it then

[8/19/2013 2:07:42 PM] Jenny: Fine...

[8/19/2013 2:07:51 PM] Jenny: You'll soon talk I'm sure

Its been just over a day, and I Haven't said anything, part of me says that what she said was kinda smart ass and I should just wait until she says something, and part of me just says its silly and I should just start talking to her again, what do you guys think?

[toyblot]

Firstly, why are you thinking of dating a girl who has a boyfriend, why do you think that, a girl who is willing to cheat on his boyfriend is someone who is worthy of dating? unless you just want a one night stand or something. if your seeking a meaningful relationship this girl is crap if she gets together with you.

Secondly, girls aren't all knowing as you think, their not you, its not impossible that they don't know you liked them that way unless you told them straight forwardly. some are "that" blur, trust me.

Thirdly, you both are just playing the wait game and the winner will be the one in control of the relation you two are having, whatever it is (since she has a boyfriend, you two aren't even in a relationship).

[Asker]

Maybe I worded it wrong, we've been talking for a while but she just got a boyfriend a few days ago, I'm still talking to her but I'm being respectful, by not talking dirty or hitting on her, I don't see how she didn't know because id hit on her quite a bit, and we flirted ALOT, I just wanna know if it makes me look weak to say something after she ended the convo like that?

[toyblot]

theres two ways about this, either she a) is just saying it as a joke to avoid something or b)she really is quite a blur person

you can actually flirt with someone and they would still be obvious to whether your interested or that you just flirt with everyone but aren't interested in that kind of way.

i guess it does make you seem weak if you talk now, but she sounds like a kinda lame person, no offense intended haha