I know he still cares about her and that doesn't bother me one bit; as long as it stays at a friendly/family level. They have known each over of a decade, so how could he not care?Sometimes I feel it is a bit more that. If it wasn't, she wouldn't have so much influence in his life. I feel bad because I want him to forget her. She was like a cancer to him. I feel like "who am I, a new comer," to tell him that when its been some he's known for so long. At the same time, he's not with her now, he's with me. So I don't know. I do know that I don't want to break up right away. This is really his only major con in my eyes.
So yeah, I do I help him get over her? How did you get over yours? How did you help someone else ( family, friend, partner)?
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