Who seduces who, how you know?

I just realized that sometimes it's hard to tell who seduces who,because which behaviour would you consider seduction?

-the guy who stares and Stares and STARES at girl until they make eye contact,he finally got what he wanted-her eyes.

did he seduce her?

-or she, who glances at him,then makes eye contact and after this he comes up to her.

who seduces who? :)

Who seduces who, how you know?
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