I'm overweight, but when it comes too others being over weight, its not attractive. Is this Hypocritical?
Being fat but not being attracted to fat men. Hypocritical?
Well, it kinda is. I had the same thing when I was overweight and looking back on it now, it really wasn't fair. But I guess it's alright, as long as you don't expect fit/thin men to be attracted to you. If you want to find a guy you're attracted to, then you should maybe consider becoming more attractive to them as well, by losing weight. I'm just saying.
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You're allowed to have your preferences, but so are men. So don't be surprised if a guy doesn't want to date an overweight woman.
IMO you'll probably find a guy who doesn't care about weight who is slim/in shape.
But it's always best to look as similar to your expectations as possible.
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yes. if you want a partner who isn't fat then you shouldn't be fat either. obviously being overweight isn't that attractive but if you are unwilling to date someone who is in your situation then you should work on yourself until you are able to realistically attract the type u want
Hypocritical is the wrong word. I just don't think you should hold out for a normal-sized guy.
But really you should want to be healthy because health is important. The fact that you'll make yourself more desirable by losing weight is an added benefit.
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Actually, it's hippocritical.
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Well, I think you have to take into consideration that most men don't like overweight women. It's disgusting looking and shows you don't care about yourself, your health and you don't respect yourself.
Soooo, is the preference itself hypocritical? No.
Is it hypocritical to discriminate? Yes. Pot meet kettle. -
Nope. You are attracted to who you are attracted to. Hypocirital would be you liking them for their bodies, but getting angry/upset that they are not okay with your body.
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well no its not hypocritical. It would be hypocritical if you were simultaneously angry with men who don't find you attractive because of your weight
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No. You have preferences. The problem you will find is your choices will reduced significantly as most guys that are fit or average prefer fit or average women. You can dramatically increase the pool of interested men by simply losing weight.
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I'm still overweight and like normal sized women, but I knew it was hypocritical so that's why I'm losing the weight. Just don't expect normal sized guys to like you.
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Not really. I like dating people with breasts and a vagina and I don't have either. I hardly see myself as a hypocrite as a result.
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I don't think so. You aren't attracted to fat guys, it's not a crime.
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Attraction is attraction. It becomes hypocritical when you have negative opinions of others who are overweight.
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Attractive is attractive, regardless if whether or not you yourself are overweight. It's normal.
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no you just have a preference you think skinny guys are more attractive...well you'll find out a lot of skinny guys like big girls...is me being skinny and not liking skinny girls Hypocritical?
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I hate people like this.
Either improve on yourself, join a BBW dating service, or date people your equal weight. -
No. You're entitled to preferences. However people need to learn that hypocritical preferences won't happen for them.
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if your attracted it dosent matter.. as long as you dont demand it..
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