Is it an insult if a man is not attracted to fat girls?

[TonyMetal___86]

Personally i am overweight but can never be attracted or fall in love with a fat woman, it's a big turn off for me!

Why some women considers it an insult or make them lose their self confidence, in the end it's just a preference, some guys do like fat women!

Girls should take it easy when someone tell them that their fat, like you're fat so what?

I'm sexy and i know it 🥴

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Here's your answer about fat women shaming!
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[sage2021]

I don't think you should tell someone you don't like fat women to their face. That is just mean.
But everyone has an idea of what is attractive to them, and that's who they go for.

I'd keep it to myself if I were you. No need to be brutality honest, and make someone feel bad about themselves.

I have known guys that really dig far women and even watch fat women porn.
I don't like to use the word fat as they prefer to be called big beautiful women.

Sorry if I offended anyone.

[TonyMetal___86]

You ain't telling them to their face, if you were asked about your standards in general, it ain't a problem if you don't like fat men!

It's just a trait that you don't like that's all!

[TonyMetal___86]

If some guys are attracted and search for obese women porn well it's their choice and i respect but i surely am not one of these guys!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

People are attracted to what they’re attracted to 🤷‍♀️ but then don’t get offended yourself if a woman isn’t attracted to you because you’re as you yourself said, overweight. Just saying, if men can say they don’t want to date overweight/fat women… women should also be able to also not want to date overweight men… but if more people realized that weight can be changed, they might reconsider doing just off someone’s weight

[TonyMetal___86]

That's true sponge, i respect people's opinions and choices, i really don't care about people if they like me or not...
You know at some point i was athletic and well built as a strongman, so i have experienced both, being athletic and fat, don't worry 😄
It's just that some women considers it a fat shaming if men says that they don't like fatties, it's just a personsl choice, i mean you can tell from someone's face if he's serious or making fun!
Personally i don't like fat women, if she can be slim and fit than i'll see and reconsider my decision 😌

[Levin]

tbh, that's probably one of my only physical deal breakers. And the good thing is, is that it's completely controllable.

I don't buy all this apologetics these days. Just move and eat sensibly. It's not difficult. And even if it is difficult, deal with it. I can't be dealing with people who are lazy.

[TonyMetal___86]

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[strateguy632]

not unless they say it. she knows she is fat so do not say it. people will bait me/you "why dont you date sally" who is either fat short or a different race so you can't say the real reason so you say a more general truth, "i dont feel that for her".

[TonyMetal___86]

You're being considerate towards her feelings and that's something good, but here we are speaking in general, if you were asked about your standards related to dating someone, it's normal to say that you're not attracted to fat women, i mean there's also the super obese women, let's be real, only a man who had enough from this life will date a mammoth girl, you will get squashed like a bug 🤣🤣

[Twalli]

Not if you're on top

[MemeSupreme]

people can prefer whatever they want BUT people shouldn't comment on others bodies unless you know they don't give a fuck and you two are just like that

insecurity isn't about being logical but your brain overthinking and working against you. so calling someone fat is a bad idea lol MOST of the time

[TonyMetal___86]

You don't call them fat or shame them, it's just that some women gets furious when they hear a man saying that he doesn't likes fat women, well it's his choice, his likes and dislikes, totally normal!

[Reporepo378]

They're insecure and will gaslight you to oblivion if you do not unconditionally love them and be attracted to them despite how fat and unnattractive they are. Its fucking disgusting. Being obese is praised and girls praise other obese girls (despite not being obese themselves) and convince them and others they are beautiful and attack anyone who thinks otherwise or even uses the word fat, instead of helping them lose weight and be healthy. These people are literally causing/contributing to deaths. Being obese will kill you, and there's an evolutionary reason why we aren't attracted to it

[Reporepo378]

And the funny thing is, these non-fat girls will say being fat is okay and fat girls are beautiful, but will cry and go insane when they look in the mirror and look fat. Just ask any girl, if being fat is so beautiful, why dont you be fat?

[DarkLegacy]

Of course not it is pure common sense. For a start how would he reach unless he is hung like a horse. Also obese means unhealthy and being unhealthy is not attractive. Men prefer women with the best body for giving birth and that is not someone who is obese.

[TonyMetal___86]

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[Apple1996]

It's definitely possible to fuck a fat girl without being hung. There is a popular prostitute in my town who is 350lbs. I talked to some guys that fucked her and they said it was like fucking a pile of laundry but it was comfortable and they didn't have issues reaching lol

[TeraGER]

@Apple1996 Which city do you live in

[TonyMetal___86]

@Apple1996 i'm not into f*cking a pile of laundry and i surely can never function with a girl that cannot make me aroused, PLUS i don't sleep with h*es or random women!

[Apple1996]

@TeraGER in the middle of no where lol

[RingOfFire]

Of course it's not an insult. Questions like this remind me that the world has gone mad. People are supposed to make believe they're attracted to somebody that they're not just so they don't hurt their feelings? I really resent that concept, I really do.

You don't have to say bad things about peoples' appearance or make fun of them, but who the hell is anyone else to tell you who you're supposed to be attracted to?

[TonyMetal___86]

Well said 👍🏻

[PeachyPie93]

No it's not an insult, everyone has preferences. Just like I am sure there are woman not attracted to fat men. It isn't a big deal since, there are millions of people on earth.
What is an insult is when you make fun of fat women, such as your picture you have on here, actually making fun of one😒

[TonyMetal___86]

What you said is true and about the photo that i have uploaded, do you really think that this girl is fat? This creature is a dinosaur 🤣🤣
I just put it cause i found it funny, it's a random girl from google, i ain't rude to make fun of anyone in their faces cause i don't like to hurt anyone's feelings, the photo is just a joke!

[PeachyPie93]

Well she is pretty morbidly obese but I just don't like making fun of fat people because it is way too common place that people do openly and constantly in media, movies and stuff. Even if not to their face it is still wrong to do. Like I am not nearly as big as this woman and my legs are still normal sized but I have had people make fun of me at the store, just behind me and out in public, so I think it is wrong that people do that in general.

[TonyMetal___86]

I will never do such things, it's just a joke, do you ever think that i could just go there and make fun of people, hell no!
I also let no one make fun of otherd in my presence...

I never look at how a person looks from the outside, i only care about the inside but you know in a relationship which leads to marriage you must least look for someone whom you physically attracted to and a woman who can't turn me on is a big issue, especially if you're married to each other, we were born like that and we don't know what makes us to attracted to specific things and not to others!

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah that is perfectly fine, I have no issue with you not dating or even liking fat women lol.

[TonyMetal___86]

I do like every woman who is good deep inside, i have many friends (fat women) on the net and they are very nice and i'm very nice with them...
I was just refering to when it comes to love and marriage cause i can't function with fat women 😄

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah makes sense.

[Mr_twoface]

It's not an insult. Everyone can on their own free will decide what they want and whom they want to be with. There is no right and wrong answer here.

[TonyMetal___86]

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[Billlewis]

It's definitely a loss on his part, because plump, gorgeous women are always the hottest.

[TonyMetal___86]

See that's what i mean, each man have a taste and girls have to understand that men have standards too, not only them!

[thatshydork]

I’m overweight and while I might feel a little butt hurt/insulted for a while, I eventually would just tell myself “well, his loss” and “that just means he isn’t the one for me.”

However, if a guy outright said I was fat or overweight or used that as an excuse as for why he’s not interested in me, I would feel extremely insulted.

[TonyMetal___86]

You don't look overweight to me at all 😄
Anyways you'd know if a guy is making fun of you or if he's telling you seriously that he doesn't like fat girls!
You know that some guys do not like thin women too!

[wiltingrosepetal]

It's an insult if he directly says that to a woman. Like that scene in South Park where Butters is asked out and says, "oh, I'm sorry, Lisa. You're just too fat for me." Yeah, there's a reason that was played off as a joke, because it's a socially brain-dead comment 😭

However, nothing wrong with having standards. I'm personally not very attracted to overweight guys. It just means you're naturally drawn to health

[TonyMetal___86]

I understand and i respect your choice, i'm overweight and i wouldn't be sad or throw words because a woman says that she doesn't likes guys who are overweight, she prefer bulky men or fit, so what?
Women should accept it from men too without making a big deal from it!

[wiltingrosepetal]

I guess women are sensitive over the weight preference just like men are sensitive over the height preference

[adam6402]

Anything can be an insult these days, but it's not illegal so who gives a fk. Think what you like because you will anyway😅

[TonyMetal___86]

That's totally true, feminazis considers a man's cough to be an insult 🤣🤣

[LiamJHayden]

I do not care about height, skin, hair, or eye color, but if she is obese dating her is a no-go for me. I am super active and someone that size will not fit my lifestyle. I would not preclude being her friend.

[TonyMetal___86]

Well said!

[DextroShade]

Men are visual: we care about physical attractiveness more than women do. A man who doesn't want a fat bitch is the same as a woman not wanting a broke loser.

[TonyMetal___86]

You got some point there.!

[Staximus]

I'm overweight but not that much. If a woman is about as overweight as me, that's fine. If she's bigger than me, she needs to go find Paul Bunyan.

[TonyMetal___86]

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[AviatorTom]

An insult to the girl? No. She's the fat one.

[TonyMetal___86]

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[jshm2]

Everyone can have preferences, but it's how you come across that matters.

People that aren't gay get insulted if you push your advances. Doesn't mean they are "homophobic" as a result.

[handsomelad70]

No, it's his choice the way a large percentage of white broads aren't interested in us handsome Bradys.

[TonyMetal___86]

Thanks for sharing!

[handsomelad70]

You're welcome !!!

[Meropatrick]

U should be attracted to whomever u want. No one have a say in this but u

[TonyMetal___86]

Well said!
Women think that their standards should be respected but if a man has some standards they start calling him names because they think that all women are goddesses 🤣🤣

[Meropatrick]

Women treat everyone else as none humans. A woman is the only human with boundries feelings dignity and dreams. the rest to her are not even humans including other women she is jealous of

[TonyMetal___86]

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[Ilove897]

I love all women it doesn't matter if she's heavy, skinny, short, tall, old, young, married.

[TonyMetal___86]

Thanks for sharing

[Apple1996]

Isn't that a little hypocritical to be overweight but not want a overweight woman?

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope it's not, if i'm overweight it doesn't mean that i have to be attracted to overweight women, all the women that i knew were fit and slim and they all have liked me...

I don't have anything against fat women, it's just that i'm not attracted to them!

[Apple1996]

It just seems off to judge those women if you aren't fit yourself

[TonyMetal___86]

Miss apples i'm not judging anyone, from where did you bring these words to put them in my mouth? , i'm not into fat women that's all!

[Reporepo378]

How is that hypocritical? Its like saying its hypocritical to like white women when you're black, or vice versa. All your takes on this site are horrible

[TonyMetal___86]

@Reporepo378 you can ignore my questions or simply block me if you find me horrible 😏

[Reporepo378]

? You sure you replied to the right person?

[Reporepo378]

@TonyMetal___86 I was replying to that apple girl. Learn how to read

[Apple1996]

@Reporepo378 the question seemed judgmental with the pic and all so it's pretty hypocritical if someone is judging but also looks like that

[Apple1996]

@Reporepo378 also race can't be changed but weight can so I don't personally understand having a preference for something that isn't permanent. It doesn't make sense

[TonyMetal___86]

@Reporepo378 no need to be rude, i thought you were talking to me

[TonyMetal___86]

@Apple1996 miss apple, i said that i'm overweight but not an African elephant, don't say that i'm the same, sheesh 😒

[Apple1996]

The title overweight and obese don't mean much because bmi is not accurate. I know extremely fit people who are overweight/obese because of their muscles so honestly it's hard to tell what you look like without seeing

[TonyMetal___86]

I'm an apple miss apples 😁🍏

[slatyb]

"Girls should take it easy when someone tell them that their fat..."

Who would say that?

[TonyMetal___86]

I will if i was asked!

[Liivv]

I'd say if your fat ur not allowed to judge, I mean I always thought overweight men like overweight women, it's just the way of the world

[TonyMetal___86]

Miss livv, i ain't judging anyone, how can i judge a fat woman if i'm fat myself but it's just that i'm not attracted to fat women at all!
What you said is the complete opposite, it works like this: fat man with thin women and thin women with fat man 🤣🤣

[Twalli]

The double standard in preferences is weird, because guys want things that can be changed, like weight and boob size. Girls want things that can't, like height and dick size.

[TonyMetal___86]

Haha 😂👍🏻

[Twalli]

It's true, any medicine or device that claims it can make your penis bigger is either snake oil or likely to do more harm than good. Hgh can make you taller, but only if you take it before your growth plates close. Even then, there's a limit.

[TonyMetal___86]

I know

[Anonymous]

Trust me there are men who exclusively like the most hideously obese women. There is a man for every woman. There is not a woman for every man.

[TonyMetal___86]

I know, but what made you say that there is a man for every women but there ain't a woman for every man, how did you come up with this equation?

[Opinion Owner]

In terms of desire. There are some men no women want. There is few women that no men want.

[ohmyguy]

Not when they likely reject the men that find them attractive.. and come to simular conclusion limited by undesirable choices

[ohmyguy]

And by the way the contrast between fat an overweight its i lesser but not absolutely undesirable..
.. im of average build , supreme hotness has never dug me ,.. knew that long ago since i put fat on the menu i fucken give a fuck significantly less... ladies thank you

[sheenagwapa]

absolutely not why would that be an insult

[TonyMetal___86]

True 👍🏻

[RedInnocent69]

No, but it’s a preference. Don’t be a dick out about it.

[TonyMetal___86]

Don't worry!

[Wiredone]

No. It's just their personal preference

[TonyMetal___86]

Well said 👍🏻

[Wiredone]

If you're not attracted to someone you should just say they are not your type and leave it at that

[AlleyMarie92]

Everyone has a preference

[TonyMetal___86]

That's true

[LaurenM1997]

No it’s not …

[LaurenM1997]

My dads married to one 😒 she’s an evil witch

[TonyMetal___86]

Well said miss lauren, you're a smart lady, ofc in whole my life i never make fun of anyone, i respect everybody and boost their self confidence but each person has a taste, being fat or thin or thick is just like do you like short or long hair, big boobs or big bum... etc

[TonyMetal___86]

Is she fat or super obese? 😁

[LaurenM1997]

That’s so true well said Tony

[LaurenM1997]

She’s super fat size 23

[TonyMetal___86]

That's the truth miss Lauren, even if sometimes my honesty might hurt but at least you know that i'm always truthful!

[LaurenM1997]

Your honesty never hurts me I like someone who tells me how it is rather than beating around the bush and just giving me bullshit

[TonyMetal___86]

Well that's because you're smart, you want someone who is different, not someone who sugarcoat you in a fake way just to receive your attention!

For example you see a guy telling all the girls the same stupid sh*t: hey beauty! Hey sexy! You're gorgeous... etc

Or he tells a woman: you have the most beautiful face or modt beautiful smile than he tells the same words to another girl, like how many girls have the most beautiful smile in the world 😂😂

Also how come a girl believes a guy who tells her that she's special and different if he says these to all the other previous girls 😂😂

[LaurenM1997]

Oh fuck no I wouldn’t believe him if be like pfft yeah whatever 😒🤣

[LaurenM1997]

I’ll be like pfft nope lol

[TonyMetal___86]

Haha 😂

[LaurenM1997]

Yeah don’t believe everything a guy says to me cause a guy once promised me he would stay forever now he’s not so yeah 😔

[TonyMetal___86]

That's the ugliest and most painful thing a person can do to the other, don't make promises that you can't keep, as simple as that!

[LaurenM1997]

Exactly

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No..

[TonyMetal___86]

Tnx for sharing