I'm not sure at this point how long I should really be waiting.

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend and I experienced a miscarriage a little while back and we had to wait so long before having sex again but now I'm just curious as to if I am okay to try again right away for a baby or if we should maybe wait a little while. Also I would really love to hear some coping tips from anyone who has experienced. He seems okay but I think about it every day, I really wanted a baby and this whole thing has kind of brought me down. Thank you in advance.

[Masamii]

my mom had several miscarriages and doctors even told her that it was a miracle she had my older sister. then she had a few miscarriages again before having me and my sister (we're twins). she got really angry at God and was upset for a long time because she always wanted kids and finally she ended up with 3. just keep trying and maybe fertility treatments will help. talk with and lean on your boyfriend, he is going to be your rock and you his during this time. praying for y'all.

[Asker]

Your mom must be a strong woman! Thank you so much for the input.

[SüßeJäger]

We misscarried our first. I'm sure its a lot diff for guys and girls. I mainly felt for my wife and she felt bad for losing the baby. I don't know if there's much you can do other than give it time. If you want to try again, normally they suggest skipping the following cycle then its ok to try the next one. If you haven't you really should go to your ob/gyn just to make sure everything is ok.

[Asker]

Thank you!

[SüßeJäger]

you're welcome. :)