Seriously gents, looks mean little compared to personality: Real life example with photo.

[Anonymous]

My best friend sent me this pic. We both do gym. We both terrible with women. This guy can't pick up any girls. Girls don’t throw themselves at him. This guy does gym, plays touch rugby (scored all the points in his last game), is a business manager and is financially sorted. But his personality puts him into the friendshipzone always. Many friends, no lovers. He pays for sex...yip, prostitutes get that body, hardly any other girl. His face is not bad either and is often commented on his handsomeness. But he almost always never gets the girl and he loses out often due to his overly nice demeanour. All of us friends have girls but he doesn’t get much and most of his friends are either scrawny or got a beer belly. So yes, get abs or biceps, whatever you think will help you, but looks are not the main ingredients to a girl’s attraction. You need to be attractive to a person for love to happen, but it’s not the biggest of deal breakers.

So gents...work on personality and your talents. That will help you more.

[Ozanne]

First of all, the guy's face is covered. How am I supposed to take someone's word that he's attractive? Secondly, yeah it's possible that women aren't in to that sort of haircut and the douchebaggery of taking ones photo in the mirror without a shirt on. I personally don't like his look, from what I see already. And before you blame my age, even in my 20s, this look never did it for me either.

Going to a gym and playing sports does not matter in the end. So yes, you are right to admit that even if someone is supposed to think this is what good looks is about then work on the personality. I'd probably start with taking less pictures in the mirror and laying off the prostitutes.

[myTake Owner]

Hey @Ozanne, we send each other gym photos all the time. We trying to out-ab each other even though he has a massive chest! We had this joke that you always have to take pics under the light to bring out your abs lol. So we always have these "under the light" pics. I don't want to put up a face pic of him so you just have to take my word that he hasn't got an ugly face either. My player buddy says he holds back, but he is, like me, just shy. We both used to be nice and we both have an issue with it because we feel that's what our problems with girls are. So yeah... I personally am an advocate for prozzies so yeah, I have no problem with that and I don't see how not seeing them is going to help. He is pretty loaded, so it's not a thing for him.

[Ozanne]

Okay, even taking your word for it, attractiveness is subjective. I might see his face and think, mehh not for me. But another girl might find him great looking. You just never know. But even then, women may not throw themselves at him for other reasons that have nothing to do with looks. Perhaps he has a stink about him, maybe bad breath or otherwise? Or maybe some women don't like how his nostrils are shaped? Maybe he's got a dorky voice? Bad laugh? Bad cough? Funny walk? Has a tic? Has a bad habit snorting his snot all the time instead of blowing his nose? Blinks too much? Has a funny stare when talking to a woman? Wears goofy looking clothes? Dirty fingernails? Makes terrible conversation? Shows some juvenile behaviour? You just never know. One or more of these things could be the instant turn off for some women. Not all guys who are perceivably good looking automatically get the girl. :)

[myTake Owner]

Damn... holy shit, now you just scared the crap out of me with all those deal points😢 again... this is why I luuuurv sex workers.

[fearlessbanana]

Yeah bro I can definitely agree with you.

[Anonymous]

... thank you... just thank you...

[HookingSwan]

Yes thats true