I find it is important to delineate ideal beauty and actual attraction. Without this distinction people fall into the dretch of insecurity. Ideal beauty or Aesthetic beauty is unanimous or near unanimous within cultures. This is beauty of the mind or artistic beauty, it isn't real in the physical sense, but rather the mental one. Images and or ideas appeal to this kind of beauty. This is where people can get off on fantasies rather than actual attraction. It only takes an image or idea to stimulate this fantasy. Though I may find a girls picture pleasant or aesthetically beautiful, it is independent of actual attraction. Actual attraction is a physical response that isn't voluntary, but dependent on pheromones. It is a very visceral attraction as your body literally wants that person. This has happened independent of a girl's picture and enhances whatever is there. So many people are caught up in there image or digital appearance, but this will never be equal to actual attraction. Images will only appeal to fantasy and isn't much different than a painting.
I strongly agree because real attraction is based on the appearance and personality of an individual. The way he talks, smells, treats you etc. are really crucial things to consider. If feelings are reciprocated, then the same person appears more handsome.
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Good take
What you are saying is that we are incapable of choosing attractions which is nonsensical.
good distinction between attraction and prettiness
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