AviatorTom

If I was irresistible, I wouldn't be on my second marriage. Relationships

It depends. Will my love get something real important and good when I die? Relationships

Love is never perfect it can be scary, giving yourself to someone else, dropping your typical defense mechanisms But the rewards if loving someone, and having them love you, are great. Give it time... Relationships

It's a good sign that he's texting, letting you know he enjoyed the date. Non-stop texting might indicate a bit of over-eagerness though. Enjoy the second date and see where things go. Best wishes Dating

Sadly, I think this premise is correct. It's much easier for a man to have a relationship with a single mother and become a step-father, than for a woman to have a relationship with a single... Relationships

A person, male or female, should not have an affair with a married person. They should know better, and respect the marriage. Relationships

Occasionally, usually for something I've done. Always nice to get a compliment. Flirting

My father gave me this advice... If you can't say something nice about someone don't say anything. Relationships

You can do it if you want, it's not illegal. But it's risky. What if the first date goes really well and you end up in bed together? It would be better to move one of the dates to another day. Dating

It depends on the situation. My divorce was amicable, after 20+ years of marriage. It took me about a year before I started dating. Break Up & Divorce

I'm a bit of both, though most of the time I'm a Spectator. Relationships

In my mind, this question is not possible. Love is a binary thing, it's either on or off, there are not degrees of love. Best definition of love I've ever experienced: Love is an invitation to be... Relationships

It's generally okay. My wife sometimes points out an attractive woman I might have missed, and I sometimes do the same for her. Just don't overdo it. Avoid saying things like, "Wow, wouldn't... Relationships

I've had a few heartbreaks, ending relationships, including getting divorced after 20+ years. I've learned the best thing to do involves two steps: 1 - take a short while to grieve 2 - find... Break Up & Divorce

It's early Friday morning, and a black cat just walked past our front door. I was watching a show on Netflix last night and one scene had a black moon, lunar eclipse, in it. The Unlucky Weekend is... Dating