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Is that also saying there should be no male OB/GYNs? Should all morticians quit... because they've never been dead? Should people not believe in religion if they've never actually taken a selfie... Relationships

This isn't an issue of how much you love your partner. It's about how willing the couple is to work as a team. Are both of them looking at what they can do to move forward out of this struggle, or... Relationships

The most important thing is safety. Without safety, vulnerability is impossible, and then all you're left with is superficiality. In order to create and nurture safety, it is important to... Relationships

There are many factors involved here. How long ago was there interest between the two of them? Do either still hold romantic interest toward the other? How considerate and respectful is the... Relationships

As long as you keep it playful and creative, it will continue to stay new and alive. It only dies when people get into a rut and it becomes an obligation rather than something to enjoy. Ask your... Relationships

The two of you are speaking in vague generalities, but neither truly sees things through the eyes of the other. Ask him what has changed in the relationship, what is missing or what is present... Break Up & Divorce

Most people have been traumatized by the insensitivity of an early breakup. We all deal with trauma in different ways. Commonly, guys are more comfortable in a familiar rut than starting over.... Relationships

The most important aspects are clear, open, honest communication and being considerate of your partner. You won't like the results if you approach a relationship with a selfish sense of... Relationships

Talk with him about the value you see in friendships and how they differ from relationships. If you're not ready for a relationship just tell him you appreciate friendships, but you're not ready... Relationships

Love languages help you better understand yourself and your partner. They don't limit anything. If we're comfortable giving our partner what our partner appreciates, and our partner is comfortable... Relationships

Yes, clear, open, honest communication is a major asset in a healthy relationship. Otherwise, people tend to be constantly on-guard. Knowing where your partner stands, in all areas, makes for a... Relationships

Men don't choose partners based on their status (including relationship status). They choose them because they see them as a more compatible total partner. You seem to feel it is OK to fight and... Relationships

For every type of person, there are people who are drawn to that type of person. It doesn't matter what the masses say. What matters is how you connect with your partner. Some people feel... Dating

We generally think of our last experience when we think about anything. That's the main reason open caskets at a funeral aren't ideal, as when you think of the person, the first picture that pops... Break Up & Divorce

If you read what people post here, all guys want is sex. That may be true for some, especially the young ones, but that's not true for all. There are many people who want a long-term commitment... Marriage & Weddings

Generally, on & off relationships have very poor communication, so nothing is ever truly addressed and resolved. Everyone wants to be heard, yet no one is considerate enough to show a desire to... Relationships

Chances are, he was expecting the grass to be greener elsewhere and is disappointed to discover it isn't. Maybe he wants you to suffer the same disappointment. Maybe your remaining single just... Break Up & Divorce

Settling the score is impossible. All you'd achieve is to descend to her level. Let's say she calls you a redhead instead of a bitch. Would that bother you as much? Generally, we're not bothered... Relationships

Never commit to a new person before resolving past commitments. Doing so will be unfair to the new partner and will only leave you frustrated. If you're in love with your friend, confront your... Dating

Never tell another person what needs to change. Instead, share what types of things you appreciate. No one's going to change for you. This is who she chooses to be. Accept her as she is or move... Dating