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Be open and honest and explain everything to him in an email, without any excuses or blame. That way, he can take his time reading and rereading what you wrote and then decide if he is open to... Dating

Yes, you're the heel... for leaving her without clear communication up front as to what lies in the future between the two of you... for posting this private, personal message online without her... Relationships

Guys tend to prefer being noticed and appreciated for things they say and do rather than how they look (which is out of their control). You can say you were impressed by the answer he gave the... Flirting

Little red flags now become big red flags when the newness of the relationship wears off. I'm sensing you are trying to convince yourself you don't want to be shallow and limit possibilities or be... Relationships

Astrology is like religion. Blindly believing will never take you in a healthy direction, as that tends to be more limiting than expanding of our perspective. That doesn't mean neither have... Relationships

I'm not saying your boyfriend doesn't have issues he could get help with, but you're the one who is asking the question, so let's focus on what is within your control. You say he has been... Relationships

Understand that guys face rejection when they show interest in someone, also. That vulnerability can open doors or give us the opportunity to accept reality and move on. It's much easier to deal... Dating

Though you can influence people's feelings by your actions, you can't make a person feel what they don't want to feel. You can focus only on work, to limit people seeing you beyond that, but as... Dating

Comparisons in relationships never lead to positive results, because you'll always believe you don't measure up. Instead, ask your partner to share what drew him to you and what he sees as unique... Relationships

Though no one is perfect, and we can be tolerant of slight deviations from our ideal, the question is what you mean by don't like. If we're merely talking of something different from us, so we... Relationships

Apparently, he's playing games because that's what he believes will work with you. The key here is communication. Explore how the two of you have changed over time. Find out what works or turns... Relationships

When it comes to past experiences, we want to bring the knowledge forward and leave the pain in the past. Holding onto pain will only end up punishing you for the actions of others. I wouldn't... Relationships

It's not uncommon for people to create fantasies in their head. Sometimes we're disappointed when these fantasies don't mesh with reality. This is about his preferences and has nothing to do with... Dating

Labels are used to establish guidelines that enable us to be comfortable in our situation and feel some predictability and control in the situation. People rarely define labels exactly the same,... Relationships

When we're young and don't really know who we are, we tend to be open to many alternatives. As we get older, have more experiences and discover what truly works best for us, we tend to limit many... Relationships

That's like asking how do you eat moldy spoiled food? You can communicate or you can argue. You can't do both at the same time. You can choose to argue, but since an argument never leads to a... Relationships

Seeing what I wanted to see and overlooking red flags Believing that, given the opportunity, everyone would want a healthy relationship Allowing myself to be molded into something I wasn't Putting... Relationships

It's probably one of two things. Either his girlfriend is jealous and possessive and wants him to remove any possible competition, or he still isn't over you and the reminders are painful. After... Break Up & Divorce

By your senior year in high school, most of your peers have already separated into clicks. You're an outsider wanting to be welcomed. How welcoming were you to strangers in your past school?... Relationships

Determining introversion or extroversion has more to do with people's reliance on structure than how outgoing they are. Introverts can be outgoing within their structure, yet feel like a fish out... Relationships