RespectfulGuy

Oh grouchy, I think your definite of "sex appeal" is quite narrow - to have bedroom intimacy only. In my definition, "sex appeal" is 1) a self-sufficient person (guy or girl) who is confident (not... Guy's Behavior

I read your replies to other Opinions. And I think he's playing hard to get. 😅 Deep in, he wants sex. But he's holding back perhaps he has a medical issue or a past that still hurts. And if you... Guy's Behavior

There no need to "trust*, but you can begin by giving him the benefit of doubt. With this first step, nurture the relationship. Get to know him better. The key is to discover who he really is and... Guy's Behavior

Let me attempt to answer this question by asking "why do we study hard during school days?" Is it only to get a degree or PhD? Or we hope to have a good career? A career that is job satisfying? Or... Guy's Behavior

Reading your long description, my mind kept saying "he's for the money" and your last statement confirms it. Yes, you're giving him incentive to exploit you. He doesn't love you. 20 years age gap... Guy's Behavior

Hey, 13 years is a long period. Long enough for a newborn to become a teenager. And I think you and him should make a decision to enter a LTR or break off. Sounds extreme? Yes. And I mean it. Too... Guy's Behavior

Sounds you're dealing with a narcissistic person. And you're full of discontentment. On top of that, this relationship lacks proper communication that leads to a win win. While you asks why he... Guy's Behavior

I suppose he's also 30 to 35, hence a mature guy. in my opinion, he's a cautious person, worry that text may cause misunderstanding, and could be "use against" him. And it's a good thing that he... Guy's Behavior

I think your story shows the accuracy of the saying "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus". As a guy, I'm "hardwired" to associate sex to intimacy. And I know that girls can feel (express)... Guy's Behavior

Simple answer: he's a medically healthy, straight guy who is confused between lust and love. Yes, understand that he has a sexual need and is constantly lusting for sex. However he failed to... Guy's Behavior

Regrettably, guys like him give us men a bad name. My suggestion is to move on and block him on all medias. And stop ghosting him or his new girlfriend. Get a new life, and a new guy who fits the... Guy's Behavior

Oh in that circumstances, when I say fuck, I mean hot, sexy, can't inagine so beautiful,... such kind of feelings. He probably meant you look gorgeous, hot and sexy. A great selfie taken. Guy's Behavior

Yes, possible that he's shy. And if the root reason of being shy is lacking sexual confidence, then you may want to consider helping him to become more confident sexually. Caution: you may get... Guy's Behavior

Yes, I agree with the remarks that it DOES matter to him. This makes him two-faced, a hypocrite. Be very cautious of persons who speak without principle, lack honesty in expressing his true... Guy's Behavior

Girls in general wants friendship, love and long-term commitment. Guys in general wants ONS, sex and no-commitment fuck buddies. Hence look at both side. If Girls like certain guys, she will say... Guy's Behavior

A few had commented and I agree with them. Let me be stronger. 1) just like a diabetic getting gangrene on a leg, the only solution is to cut it off before the patient dies. 2) there's no other... Guy's Behavior

Another case that shows man are capable of loving, like woman. 😁 And yes, after that love comes jealousy and insecurity. And some men are bad at controlling these emotions, like some women. The... Guy's Behavior