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This take is going to be about love and marriage , two things that I am completely far from , but I seek and want .
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As we spend our lives bonding with people and fulfilling our needs of , food, security and happiness
It is only natural need for humans to look for a partner to share all that with
So , it is surely different reasons that makes us want to find love or get settled down in our life, of the many reason it is a basic instinct to start with, it is one of the goals of life to find someone for us only.
Other reasons , sadly would be loneliness, and weakness of the heart, some people can't take the void in the heart and can't wait to fill it, they are more sensitive and more attached to people in general, it might be boredom , yes some people are just bored, others might want to have fun, others would be mixing their feelings and not knowing if it is really love.
Whatever it is the reason , the need is always there , we are not meant to be alone , as a saying in Arabic
Heaven is not worth to step into without people there : الجنة بدون ناس ما تنداس
Who looks more for that , men , women , or the young or the adult ?
I had a couple of questions done on G@G to see what are the results, you have spoken G@G ers
Lets hear it:
First question was What's more important to you now: love or money?
Now to see what I had in mind:
Theory one:
Males care about love more than woman in adult years , and care about money in their teens in order to be a good providers :
Teen males:
13% looking for love
7% looking for money
Adult males:
29% looking for love
29% looking for money
Above 29:
10% looking for love
12% looking for money
One of the guy's opinions :
@Drumlin2001 Age: 36
"-Love.
10 years ago i'd have said money. But money dosen't keep you warm at night. Money dosen't talk sweet nothings on a Sunday morning."
Surprisingly it is not true:
52% of males are looking for love 48% are looking for money !!
So , lets see what this say:
Teen and adult males are looking for love more than money, where above 29 males are mostly looking for money, it seems like males give up on love or found it around 29 years old !
For females I expect it to be the opposite, but lets see :
Teen girls:
19% looking for love
8% looking for money
Adult girls:
34% looking for love
25% looking for money
Above 29:
10% looking for love
25% looking for money
One of the girl's opinions :
@ToOFEe Age: 19
"Love for sure. Money can come and go but true love can't be replaced."
Relatively it is true:
63% of girls are looking for love, for girls in teen year they care more about love, and even in adult hood too but not by much, and above 29 they look for money, why , it is either they found love and now it is time to look for money , or as they mature , they start to want to live more freely and want to have fun in their life which needs money.
So in general , women look for love more than men, at least adult and teen girls .
Theory two:
Age and love , it is like a lie we grow up and believe it less as we age , while we are young and naive and dream about finding love, or it maybe that we find love in mid 20's and late 20's while all of our experiences would in teen hood just for fun and less serious :
Teen Age:
15% looking for love
8 % looking for money
Adult hood:
31% looking for love
27% looking for money
29+:
10% looking for love
9% looking for money
Some of your opinions :
@Hapinus Age: 16
"I already found love and have quite a bit of money in my savings
So not really searching for any
But out of the 2 love is more important"
@Buckzor Age: 20
"Money by far, i'm still young enough to not worry about love. No point loving someone if you can't provide financially anyway."
Interesting , as it seems , that teens are mostly interested in love more than money, and as we grow up the gap between those two closes and nearly become the same percentage.
Second Question was At what age did you start thinking about marriage?
So , what was I thinking ??
Theory three :
Marriage as you know is the legal and final step in a relationship, in most of the times, but I wanted to see who wants marriage more , and which age in comparison to gender .
NOTE: I take it too as when people grow up , they think about it and vote for the age that they want to get married in , so this is not proven to be honest , but I think it is like that , I can't have enough data for this because then I would be needing many options combining limitless choices for two out comes which would be the age of thinking about marriage with the ideal age for marriage , so sorry I have to work with what I got!
The results are super interesting , as I was writing them down ,I was like WOW ! see what I am talking about:
Teens:
Age: *13-16 : 38% (36 votes )
Males : 24% (9 guys)
Females : 47% (27 girls )
Girls here ,wants marriage at such a young age the most , or at least thought about it , they think about a safe future with a man and a family of their own, while guys, aren't thinking about it as much, they are still young, some might have seen their first crush and they thought :hey , I want to marry her!
*: It might be less than 13
Age: 17-21 : 24% ( 23 Votes)
Males: 27% ( 10 guys)
Females : 23 % (13 girls)
Here we see the votes go down, it is hard to think about marriage in this age, you are getting dates and seeing new people each day, not a good time to think of settling down!
Guys are still less than girls !
Adults:
Age: 22-26 ( 15 votes )
Males: 19% ( 7 guys)
Females: 14% ( 8 girls)
The votes keep going down, you have either thought about it , or you just don't feel that you can think about it because it is too realistic !
Males clearly don't think about marriage !!
Age: 27+ ( 20 Votes)
Males : 30% ( 11 guys)
Females : 16% ( 9 votes)
At last here, is where a guy is complete ,and secure to think about doing this , I am there now , I know how it feels , it is not imagination anymore but a plan , girls would mostly have thought about it in younger age .
guys now you can say yeah we think about marriage
In general , women wants marriage more than men, why?
Well, women search for security ,and it is mostly found in a husband's arms and they mature and look for that at a younger age than men do, while men tend to seek freedom and don't like to be tied down in nature and that as they grow up they starts to mature and want to settle down and get married
In total votes alone was as I thought indicates something I said earlier :
Female VS Male
57 Votes / 37 Votes
Guys don't want to marry !! at least not as much as women wants.
Peace be upon you all :)
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