I wanna abort the baby but my boyfriend wants to keep it... what should we do? (Page 2)

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We've been having safe sex for a long time. I'm 16-turning-17 and my boyfriend is 18. He knocked me up. I wanted to abort it because I'm still in this IB diploma and have a whole future waiting for me-my scores are high enough to get me into Oxbridge/ Ivy leaguesL I was looking forward to university but here comes to baby.

It's been my tummy for about three months now. My parents still don't know-they'll kill me if they do cuz they're super conservative. I told my boyfriend I wanna abort it but the other day he just propose to me and said he'll take care of me and the baby-he'll be studying in Harvard this fall, he even said he arranged an apartment which is near his uni so we can meet up frequently, he even said he'll give up his dorm life if I want to live with him. I still haven't say yes to the proposal but it's very sweet and darling given my boyfriend is more playful/unpredictable before he knew I have his baby. 

Anyhow, I don't know how my life will turn out. I love my boyfriend so much and what's worse is I know he loves me lot more than I do. We've been together since high school, he's always this amiable guy who's nice and funny to everyone, always fun-loving and adventurous and he's so soft and sweet to me. One thing I regretted a lot was I cheated on him, we broke up for like three months and I had a fling with this other guy but then my boyfriend had a fight with this other dude and I got back with him somehow. And we've been very happy and maintaining a very healthy relationship since then. He kept telling me fantasies of if the baby's a dude he'll teach him how to make films and make him to next Steven Speilburg and if she's a girl she'll be the next Kate Upton. Now in the summer he's been doing internships everywhere and earning about 5000 a month. Which is pretty decent. I love him to bits but one thing I'm really scared is I really don't know how this baby would change my life. If I abort it though, somehoI'm scared he'll break up with me.

zombiebabe · Answer

what? your parent haven't yet noticed your pregnancy? so you're good at hiding its signs.. anyway... do whatever you think is good for you

Eternallylucky · Answer

A long time? You must have started copulating at 14? You grew up too fast. I think u both will be mature to handle the finance and the baby. Your bf seems really determined and ambitious.

TheBiggestDreamer · Answer

It's you're body and your life. If you feel you aren't ready then do the right thing and abort it while you still can. You're too young to be parents.

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

its your call to make :P instead of thinking how it will affect your future, feel from the heart and then make a decision.

CommieDearest · Answer

Get an abortion and lie about it. Say you had a miscarriage.

lordAlex818 · Answer

The child is not yet a sentient being capable of thought or emotion. You really should get an abortion, seeing as you don't even have a job yet.

Ryback1 · Answer

And this is why kids shouldn't have sex, can't deal with the consequences.

Anonymous · Answer

So you're telling me you will abort each time you accidentally get pregnant. Face your problem and don't take the easy way out. Killing a child... smh and he's working his ass off to support that child.

legalboxers · Answer

life imitates art.. Yes Im an 80s kid

Anonymous · Answer

3 months is a little too late to abort it, but it sounds like you should.

skeptic007 · Answer

your choice

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