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Sadly the wrong people do come in our lives. And we end up thinking their is no hope and everyone will do us the same. But after some time you will defiantly be ok. I had that same thought and everyone was the same. Until someone came and prove me wrong. But I've been thier before. a lot of people are just assholes for no reason. And don't appreciate what they have.
Things that always happen in marriage:
1) Both guys/girls start letting themselves go
2) Sex becomes less passionate and decreases over time to point you only get it once a month.
3) Nagging/barking orders and belittling of man becomes increasingly worse each year.
4) High chance your wife is getting porked behind your back, or masturbating instead of wanting to have sex with you.
The last time I checked the stats men cheat more in marriages than women
You should check again
https://abcnews.go.com/2020/story?id=124040
That is just one survey, I have seen others where men are claimed to be the gender who cheats more in a marriage.
If women are so awful, why do you want them so badly?
Biology
@aliencreature as humans are capable of higher reasoning, we are not slaves to our biology. He still wants women in his life, even if he hates them. Why?
Really? Try to live without eating or sleeping or drinking anything, try to just logic yourself out of death, why not make yourself asexual? Clearly sexual urges are things people just naturally control, if you don't want them you won't have them
Sexual urges *are* things people control, otherwise public rape would occur daily in broad daylight.
Fine, sexual feelings are uncontrollable is that betterment, vent thiugh you damn well knew what I meant and are doing this derailing bs because of that?
Isn't it annoying to have a conversation derailed by unhelpful people, child? I love doing this to little misogynists, if only to use their own tricks against them. In any case, what @gray_sailor said is probably the best reasoning you'll get from this MRA crowd.
You don't control your feelings, you control how to express them. This clearly coming from a woman who has zero emotional intelligence
@aliencreature Right, and I'm the one insulting people. Chus, boys.
I highly suggest that you refrain from ever speaking to a man again, because you're clearly incapable of doing it without trying to hurt them
@GirlScout LOL!
@9mfeo touché my dear
obviously not about you @9mfeo!
@GirlScout That wasn't really necessary.
@Calex who died and made you king of what's necessary? It isn't necessary for this question to be asked but you're cool with that.
@GirlScout You basically insulted two people for no reason. I have the right to express my view and tell you that it is not necessary. Wasn't so difficult :]
@Calex I insulted them because they were being pricks, are you joining in?
@GirlScout No. I'm not immature to throw personal attacks to people just because I disagree with their view. Yes, what they did was also wrong, one of them called her a sociopath and the other one called her a little idiot, but the difference is that they provided information to their reasoning as you did not, which means all you did is fueled flames.
I'm neutral here. I'll try to put the flames out if I can.
I've read the posts again and man.. people don't know how to sit down and have a mature talk/debate without resorting to name calls.
Take it easy people! You'll get nowhere by being aggressive towards other people. Mutual understanding will never work if you attack each other.
@Calex I only fight back...
you should learn from your pimpin-ass friend... how to get women... then go out and do it without him!!! Because he is gonna block your ass... Women flock to the best! not his Fault! I should tell this to my guy friends... well fuck it.. I'm just gonna listen to Marley... "Emancipate yourself from mental slavery... None but ourselves can free Our Minds!!!"
Why would any woman get married? I'm generally curious. All she's told is to stay faithful to dude that would most likely cheat. Lose her identify just to take his name. Get pregnant just to get fat and ugly, only to go home to a unappreciated husband that doesn't feel attracted to her anymore. Even though she did all the work during and after the pregnancy...
Why would any woman ever get married?
like seriously he'll just cheat on you because he has no self control and most probably will go for any girl who flirts with him or tries to seduce him, i would say all women have incredible self control and all men are cheaters but not all people are the same.
Marriage doesn't have to be negative; it doesn't always turn out crappy.
Lots of people share a lifetime of love. It just sounds like that hasn't been modeled for you by anybody.
Let's be real, you need to be married to be told everything's your fault... I deal with bs like that 24/7... in fact, that's why I can't wait to merry the woman I love... so I'll no longer have to deal with the bs now... ill be finally free to enjoy life.
don't need to be married
@KILER1000
Send me a PM please, I need to ask you something.
Your entire premise is false. Not all marriages fail, and out of those that do, not all can be blamed on the woman.
If you don't want to get married, that's fine. But that's not a reason.
Well, that's not true. There will always be people who aren't loyal, but I can tell you that personally I have never cheated on anyone and I'm not going to do this too. It's too horrible.
You're 15, you don't know that
First of all I'm 16. second of all, it's not about the age, it's about who you are. There are 14 years old cheaters and they will stay this way probably forever bc that's just who they are.
Personally, I'm not one of them and never will be. And if you truly don't believe in true love, or at least in trust, that's probably bc you've never had one of these. Still, it does exist.
While I do think this is a troll, I agree it is impossible to trust someone/anyone fully. However, I understand full time commitment and think being with someone you love is one of the greatest things in life.
There's a lot of good women out there though too, just depends how well you know her. If you see her friends, and see how they act, usually she would act the same as them. You just got to observe them I guess.
That's such a terrible attitude, not all girls are like that. If you want to find true love, you gotta put yourself out there and that sometimes means getting hurt and being vulnerable, but in the end thats how you find love
NAWALT
NAWALT alert
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=asIywy9rLr4
@aliencreature well its true, not all women are like that
Bitter male syndrome.
Lol he's downvoting everyone 😂👏
@RainbowFanGirl Really? So, I'm capable of giving multiple downvotes to one person?
@RainbowFanGirl a defensive mechanism for the shitty personality. 😄
ahah 😂👍
Says the little girl that relies on ad hominem attacks because she can't even debate someone. Did I say all women, of course not, however, on average, yeah, men get fucked over in marriage far far more, they should be more willing to preserve themselves rather than be slaves to old, useless traditions
Okay little neckbeard 👀
Lol! Yes @Bards! Yes!
I don't talk to you as much as I would like Bards, but you're my hero lmao
You should definitely stay single, honestly
Yet another ad hominem attack in the absence of proof or logic
Actually, it's a simple statement.
With your attitude I pity any woman who'd date you til your wounds are healed.
He's just angry. It does not mean that he should stay single just because he's expressing his anger. That's just that.
@Calex that's kind of you. However, I don't really care to pander to peoples emotional mood swings.
Two wrongs don't make a right :]
Everyone is a contributor to society!
@Calex No not everyone is. Ask Dick Cheney.
Pretty true and very wise coming from someone your age, I wished I had known better but we all get lonely and I thought she was the one and took a chance and now I'm back to lonely with more problems than I had being single so it's definitely not for everyone
I'm sorry that happened to you, man, but, hey, there's always hope, right?
Yeah thanks but that's all I can do is hope
I know the way I feel right now I never want to get married but that is not because of what you have said here but other reasons.
Seriously? dude, its not that bad and that scenario happens in dating. after marriage, its a lot worse than that. trust me. one or two bad experiences isn't reason enough to cut the whole idea.
she'll just cheat on you... not necessarily true
waste of time... don't see how it's a waste of time. there are certainly far greater wastes of time like (no offense) this site
Really? Thanks for summing up around half the population on earth! Oh and I didn't know I was a cheater, even though I clearly don't remember doing that to any one lol!
I don't really know, man. Even my mother has warned me off about marriage, given how the high proportion of fucked up people in the world. So many girls today are entitled beyond reason. No way to make them happy, and pointless to try.
I can't tell if this is a joke or not, but if it isn't you have a lot of growing up to do. Quit being so damn pessimistic.
7 billion people in the world and your not even 18 yet but for some reason you feel like you've already figured out half the people on the planet. Maybe your jumping to conclusion just a little bit there buddy
Humans really aren't as unique and special as they like to believe
That doesn't change the point of my statement. Curb your hubris before it ruins you.
Why would any woman ever get married? I mean, honestly, he'll just cheat on you and sleep with someone else anyway, probably one of your best friends, why bother getting married, it's just a waste of time and you always wind up alone, fucked up, and told how it's all your fault anyway.
Then you have a poor choice in girls.
I was cheated on too by an ex, but I learned from it.
Getting married is a personal choice. I would want to get married just to make my relationship official, but some people don't feel the need to do that. But you probably shouldn't marry someone that you feel will cheat on you... Marry the right person, put some effort in the marriage, and you won't have to end up by yourself! :)
This again? *sighs*
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whoa with that attitude no woman would want to marry you..
Omg. Is there any man out there who WANTS to get married? Am I ever going to get my fairytale ending LOOL
You're a bit too young for me, darling. But don't lose hope.
Friends with benefits, one night stands and open relationships.
To be honest, I also think marriage sucks.
Not every guy is a jerk, and not every girl is a slut, you're probably 13, and your girlfriend probably cheated on you, and so you're all bitter and shiz, on this website expressing your anger.
Oh look, a child trying to lecture me on reality, how hysterical. And, I'm older than you.
Prove it.
I'm 17, your profile confirmed your age as 15 ust a moment ago
No, why don't you come off ANON? For all we know you could be making that up.
You turn off anon and I'll pm you and prove it
You are far too young to have figured that out, the internet, TV, films and adverts don't help, wait 10 years and u'll have a better grasp of how things work in the world...
Ehh that's kinda iffy. I mean, you sound like the male version of that girl going "men are all pigs who will cheat on you and leave you anyway..."
Because I'm not a pessimist, and my parents marriage and most of my relative's marriages have been great for them.
If you had a failed marriage chances are you pick the wrong person to be with and not even realize you two weren't right for each other until divorce.
Wow!
So much negativity, your parents have a bad marriage?
Not every woman is a cheater, the same as not every man is one.
Why would anyone want to spread their bitterness and force their lifestyle on others? Not everyone wants to to live the ''hook-up'' lifestyle.
No one is forcing their lifestyle on you, he's just questioning your shitty choices, which he has every right to do, and you should probably do as well
shitty choices... says who?
There is no such thing as a shitty or better lifestyle. There are different lifestyles. He would have to find a like-minded girl that only wants sex and to have fun instead of trying to get others to follow his path because that's what it seems like.
Because behind every great man is an even greater woman. When you are with the wrong woman it will seem like hell, when you are with the right woman it will seem like heaven. Don't worry it will get better.
Not all women are the same.. I guess we all have different opinions but really.. if she does do that then she's just a slut.
You're too young to have this much bitterness within you. You've barely lived.
no if i get married then i love that woman and i won't cheat on her... honestly I've never cheated on anyone.
When most of society decides to put up a fight against morals by fighting for sexual liberation, Then yeah, This is gonna happen.
So by your logic every family has a cheating mom.
Stay single please. You don't want to know what's going to happen once YOU marry and breed. You seriously do not.
LOL you're fucked up XD besides you're under 18, you shouldn't be thinking about that stuff... like seriously? Stop making stupid assumptions and go study for your exams...
because we conform to what the norm is... just saying
Once you learn how to properly be involved in a relationship. Maybe you'll be happy with your love life young patawon. 😃
I felt the same way until I met this new girl I'm into...
Gr8 b8 m8.
Would u r8 8/8?
@Gommers I'd rate 9/11
@NonCreativeUsername that's too far
I r8 8/8 no h8
@K1ll3r98 9/12
@NonCreativeUsername that's better
That's a miguided teenager talking.
*misguided*
tell that to all the successful marriages.
People cheat even in successful marriages, it just happens that they never get caught. I would say a lot more people cheat and not get caught, than those that do cheat and do get caught.
Given an example, my mother cheated on my dad and I was a witness of it, but I didn't destroy their marriage and I didn't tell anybody. I don't mean to be negative, and I'm not, but many marriages stay alive due to the cheater never getting caught. I'm just being realistic here.
@Calex I won't dispute that, but I wouldn't define that as a successful marriage.
There's no actual way to knowing which marriages are successful and which are not, unfortunately :[
I dont know, good question. Thats why im never getting married. ik i can keep a girl without having to go through that bs
Not all girls cheat maybe your just looking in the wrong places
My dad's been married 30+, my grandparents been married 50+ and even my cousins have been married just about 10, and have two kids of their own. If you want to make it work, you will make it work
I'm sorry you fell for a whore. Want to talk about it?
What, I never fell for anyone, I'm not even old enough to marry, and, beyond that, I'm single. I just lost it after I went on reddit and literally every man in one thread with thousands of replies mentioned their wife fucking their friend in the end
This is true. Adultery is common. Cheating, lying, playing games... Its all common. In both genders.. Females are lying assholes. Men are lying assholes. Not all... But the vast majority. Not many people these days know what it is like to be faithful. Its a shame. I'm a very lucky woman for finding a man who shares the same beliefs I do. We do not cheat. We do not lie.
You are young and still have a huge life ahead of you. Please don't let the ignorance of most individuals stop you from living a happy and healthy life.
You are in despair for humanity over a Reddit thread? It is hardly a scientific sample.
@brain5000 It is true that it is a shame that a reddit thread has corrupted a young individuals outlook on things.. Especially where he could have a good relationship just as many other people do. But the media these days is corrupting more and more minds of the youth these days. They have made it so most young individuals already expect the worst out of everything they encounter.
Here we go again 😂
Paramore
<3 it!
Sounds like you have had bad relationship experiences. Some people actually are good with keeping a woman and are successful in having a relationship.
What makes you so sure that the woman is the one doing the cheating? Granted, some women do cheat. But most of the time, men do the cheating.
Lol I have eye for sloots Evendoe 70% of them are sloots these days but yea I'd still like to see my kid make it in NFL if I don't.
The real question is why would ANYONE wanna be married?