I'm 24 and married 22 shemale by mistake but we love each other and want to adpbt a baby girl without parents knowing. is it appropriate?

[Anonymous]

Ok so this is really touchy and serious issue so trolls don't respond... Keep your joke to yourself. So I have been in love with this person for an around 5-6 months now. I'm 24 and she is 22( from same college). Passouts. And we have stable jobs and income. We really enjoy each other's company. We love each other. I've been straight but bi curious but never thought I would be in this situation. We were in relationship but we never got sexual. We kissed and stuff. Also touching chest was involved. She is completely like a woman. And also she has amazing pair of bossoms. And also her personality is amazing. We made our parents meet and they liked each other. Also we got engaged and married in a short period. And she told me few days before marriage that she is shemale and can't bare a child to which I was broke and really sad. But she really convenience me that she will never let me down in front of other and we will adopt a baby after 9 months of marriage for relatives to know. I was touched when she said (she will never let me down) it meant so much to me... It showed how much she likes me. Ofcourse her parents knew about it, but they thought we all are cool with her being a shemale. I don't consider her to be like that. She is completely a woman. And I dont have any problems with that. We can actually raise a child like this and all that matters is we love each other. Also she is really beautiful and no one can guess that she has a dong. Also we do have sex both side and also enjoy our life. We from india. And relatives and other people think we a just regular married couple. And we are gonna adobt a baby in next couple of months and if all goes well we might not even tell this to anyone. Noone is gonna undress her to check anyway. We are not that close to relatives too. I can't think of being seperated from her. Is it appropriate to do? ?

[vittle1999]

Before you adopt, make sure you know everything about adoption, legal ramifications, what will be expected of you both etc. Just know what you are getting into before you take the next step.

[thisguy24]

Did you not notice any of the male features on her? Adam's apple, the hands the feet, the voice. Okay it had fake breasts but really you didn't notice anything else

[Asker]

dude she has no male feature [only genitals.] and that too is not visible from outside. i dont have problem with that... she has totally female properties... if i share a pic of her to you... you can never tell what she is'

[Anonymous]

Why did you not see she was a shemale? Do you mean she had a sex change op from M to F? Big difference!

[scooogy]

Yep, agreed

[Asker]

@scooogy dude she has no male feature [only genitals.] and that too is not visible from outside. i dont have problem with that... she has totally female properties... if i share a pic of her to you... you can never tell what she is'

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for MHO.

[Anonymous]

I would say there is nothing wrong with that.
However I would find it extremely troubling that your partner waited so long to tell you.

[bidesolomon5]

Can i get one of them for marriage because i like shemale well well

[AzureGirl]

There's nothing wrong with adopting a child.

[Pete671]

Love conquers all, good luck,,,