How are some women able to get married even 4 times?

[Shelly2002]

My former history teacher got married recently for the 3rd time at the age of 45 (though she still looks much younger than her age so that can be one reason) and already with 2 grown kids. Someone else has been proposed for the 4th time; she's been married before and got divorced.

If they already had past relationships and were divorced before, how are they still able to get someone to propose and marry them.. yet again? Meanwhile other women can't ever get a marriage proposal from a man, not even once in their lives and are stuck in the girlfriend status. What is the trick? What do those women do? How do they keep scoring keepers?

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+1 y

Certain women just keep getting proposed and have no problems getting a man to commit. Meanwhile others can't get that ever.

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow, girl that's crazy to get married that many times! Here's what I think:

Those ladies must know how to charm a dude real good. Like they probably laugh at their jokes even if they ain't funny, compliment them all the time, make em feel special ya know?

And they don't scare the guys away by trying to tie em down too fast. Play hard to get at first so the guys always wantin more.

Plus older ladies probably treat their men real good, like cook them nice meals, give massages when they stressed. Guys love bein taken care of!

And they probably put out quick and easy too so the dudes don't go lookin elsewhere. Nothin keeps em comin back like good noo noo, if ya know what I mean 😉

Also maybe it helps they pick guys with money and who aren't too bright. Easier to manipulate. I bet they ain't marryin no brainiacs!

Anyway that's my guess. Flatter dudes, be sexy but mysterious, and don't let em know your crazy till it's too late! That's prob their secrets to scoopin up husbands lol.

[AviatorTom]

A divorced woman with kids is often a good catch for a guy who doesn't want kids of his own, or if he's already divorced, and the sex is good. Unfortunately, that's not a good reason to get married, and the marriage can end pretty quickly.

I know a few women in their 60s who have been married 3 or 4 times; each of their marriages only lasted about 5 years, and they all have kids. 4 marriages by 45 is a bit unusual, but not out of the question.

[Anonymous]

Well there is no limit to how often you can get married. My mom has been married 3 times. I wouldn't call it luck though. Those first two marriages was hell on earth for her.

[Shelly2002]

I'm sorry to hear about the two bad marriages. It must really suck. The reason I get surprised is because those two women I know of weren't even dating the man for many years, probably 2 years or less and bang, the man marries them while other women are stuck in the ''we've been living for 7 years why isn't he proposing, why don't he marry me'' positions.

[LazerBean]

Different types of girls attract different types on men. Divorced women tend to attract divorced men, and vice versa.

[Shelly2002]

I guess the saying ''Birds of a feather flock together'' can be applied there. There is just something about those women that never have problems getting proposals.

[LazerBean]

That is for sure. I think the women who are okay with saying "yes" to anyone are just good at attracting men who will pop the question to anyone lol

[Anonymous]

That is a little extreme to me. But I’d also say it depends on what happened in these marriages. Did one of them die while they were married? Maybe one cheated? Or was this all on her as far as why she has 4 divorces? She may just be hot as hell. These men aren’t thinking w the right brain.

[Shelly2002]

I don't know why they got divorced. All I know is that even at this age where more distrust between the genders exist, those women still get men to forget about all the reasons not to marry and they go ahead and still propose.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok. Yes I’d really like to know the reasons why she’s divorced that many times. Maybe all of the. Cheated on her who knows.

[sean1234]

If love is blind, then she could marry hitler, till she found out his body count is in the millions and then divorce and marry stalin. 2 should be tops unless one died also. People should learn their lesson. One can not marry and stay married without God on thie side, without the law thier is lawlessness and misery in some way

[4ngelic]

probably cause they're hot

[Shelly2002]

Probably but wouldn't the guy only be after sex if it was just looks? There must be something about them that attracts them marriage type men.

[jahaims]

Plenty of dumb people exist

[strateguy632]

that is crazy

[Shelly2002]

It is and yet they still find men crazy enough to marry them.