Dating for three years and still nothing, no ring? Any advice? (Page 2)

[soleil2666]

there's a child or not a child. the rest is irrelevant

[Anonymous]

When a ring and making babies is more important to you than he is... *eyeroll*

[KrakenAttackin]

This is 80% of women. Women are also so much more concerned about the wedding than they are with the relationship. No kidding, women go absolutely CRAZY with wedding BS. A man could plan a wedding in three hours, it takes women months. Insane.

[Anonymous]

That is why i would not date, but marry straight forward. I dont understand why white people wait so long for marriage. Just marry instead of dating.

[Derek99]

People wait before marriage so that they can know about the person whom they are being with the rest of their life. How can you just marry someone just because you want to marry someone.

[Shiver]

You're married without the paperwork basically.

[Beautiful_Confusion]

People trip cuz we're told that this thing has to be done this way. First of all, no one's got it all together. Even if someone did manage to get it right on the first try, what they did will only work for them. So live your life. We wanna be happy, be that then. Appeared to me that every thing was right in the relationship in question.. But he needs to realize that since he is committed, his responsibility is to get the paperwork resolved in case something happens to him. If people would do what makes them happy, instead of trying to be happy doing what others think they should do, things wouldn't. Look at it, if the person wasn't focused on fulfilling some borrowed notion of the meaning of life; they'd realize that she already had what she's bitchin about. Weird. Anyway, things tend to work better when we chose not to complicate shit.

[Asker]

We are not married w ou thought paperwork. We dont have sex, we have not children, we don't live together and see each other a couple of times a week. Sorry, he is not getting everything a married man would.

[Asker]

*without

[Shiver]

So 3 years together without sex? You guys have some serious restraint, I can respect that. If you really want to get married and he isn't proposing, the only two things I can suggest are proposing yourself or leaving. The former being unique and will probably put a huge smile on his face and the latter being a really bad idea no matter how you slice it.
Just so you know, not trying to be a dick, just being direct I guess.

[Clayaya]

Do you really think 3 years has passed & he hasn’t gotten any?

[Screenwriter]

@Clayaya They said they were Christian and believed in purity. So I hope they're both holding up that end of the bargain.

[YugiCatchem]

Well let me ask you this question, how old is he?

[Asker]

He's 33

[YugiCatchem]

Does he have the job out his dreams?

[Asker]

About a year ago he finally did, yes.

[YugiCatchem]

Women have a biologics clock meaning they want to have certain things done/achieve by a certain age. Some wanna have children before 30 and some wanna be married and that's perfectly fine for you to want what you want. Men however do not have that biological clock, we have a financial clock and his is ticking and he doesn't have it all together yet. He does not see a clear path of being able to provide for you all. This could be a possibility. Perhaps his dream job isn't paying enough to accommodate his children as well as yours and y'all's lifestyle.

[manalein]

What about you gif him a ring?

[Snickermarstwix]

It's only been 3 years, jesus

[Meatunnel69]

She needs the ring to fock so i see her frustration

[DianaWest]

"only been 3 years." only been 5 years. only been about a decade or 2. no problem. we'll have kids right before you hit menopause. great idea.

[Snickermarstwix]

You can still adopt

[KrakenAttackin]

@DianaWest He's probably just not that into her.

[KrakenAttackin]

@DianaWest Wow, you sound like a spastic "alpha" woman who cracks a whip. No thanks.

[DianaWest]

@KrakenAttackin ah, you decided you had some more to add after about 8 hours of writing your initial comment?

[Texaskid1]

Why do you need a ring?

[romioaa]

I think you have to forget him. Sorry

[MoscowMitch]

Either shit or get off the pot.

[Anonymous]

I bet he had to hit on you first.

[maxx87]

Hy honey

[hijgh32]

that's sad :'(