Why don’t guys want to get married nowadays? (Page 2)

[R4vedave]

Plenty of us do, you're just meeting the wrong guys ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[ecfresh]

Can’t speak for others but marriage is still a huge goal for me

[jamesgoldman]

Too much financial risk... when I consider marriage, I'll use a loophole to own nothing but the clothes on my back and my jewellery (it's entirely legal I've spoken to 3 accountants who all agree)

[David_Kek]

1. We've seen what's happened to a large percentage of the generation before us that choose to get married,
2. What benefit does that piece of paper provide men? Can you name a single one?

[becks3]

What a selfish question. It's a benfit for the family nlt the individual.

[kingofthellamas]

When times are good it's a benefit to everyone but it when times are bad men (rightly or wrongly) believe they stand to loose too much. It's just a reaction to world the way that men see it.

[David_Kek]

@becks3 it is a selfish question. What's your point?

[becks3]

Maybe you shouldn't have a family if your top priority is your own financial gain.

[David_Kek]

@becks3 "why are guys not getting married"
*given reason
"Maybe you shouldn't get married and start a family"

I'm glad we're in agreement.

[tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ]

To me it's just an old tradition that doesn't really change a thing. It is just a piece of paper. Also I'm not religious, so it will be a pass from me when it comes to letting some pedophile tell me that now I'm allowed to kiss my bride. Pfffffff.

[SoMuchNut]

Who are you to judge what is and what isn't wife material for someone else?

[ColoradoKid]

I can't find any woman that would marry me. Most women think that I am not worth having a relationship with let alone marriage.

[leahzrc]

its the feet

[ColoradoKid]

They have looked like this since I was married the first time..

[ColoradoKid]

I was 26 when I got the tats. They are memorials for my dad and grand mother. My late wife contributed to me liking my toenails painted. It was a prank that went off to left field.

[leahzrc]

Oh thats alright I just thought you had that picture because you had a foot fetish

[ColoradoKid]

Nope they are mine..

[mikylahhutcheson]

You guys can just sign a prenup so the girl can’t take anything from you. If my man asked me too I would because I respect him and I love him and I’m not going to marry him for his money or his cool things

[mikylahhutcheson]

I also don’t plan on divorcing my boyfriend if we get married because he is my one my other half and I love him very dearly

[r1ngzz]

Simple Googling "Unfortunately, prenups don't hold up in divorce court 100 percent of the time. Judges can and have thrown them out when certain aspects are in flagrant violation of the law or public policy. If you changed your mind about your agreement after you signed it, you might have voided it as well."

[r1ngzz]

It's way more complicated than you think. Lol and you try telling any woman to sign a document incase it doesn't work out see how long that lasts 😂

[r1ngzz]

That 🙀 gonna dry up soon as you whisper prenuptial aggreement

[Anonymous]

Marriage is an absolute scam that means nothing. Why do you need to pay the government to get a piece of paper to validate your love. Marriage should be abolished

[Redstang88]

Have you seen what happens to men in divorces? That’s why

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Because it is a piece of paper. Marriage is a societal creation that no longer serves any real purpose.

[TheAteam1978]

Your asking a guy who got drunk on a Sunday in Ny and woke up on Tuesday in Vegas married. I have no business in this conversation lol

[TonyMetal_1986]

What does marriage mean to you?
Also what makes you a wife material, do you love to become a housewife?

[Anonymous]

Because the system favours women nowadays.

A woman can literally cheat on her husband repeatedly, and then leave him and take him for everything.

[Nahid1707]

I want marriage, it’s similar to being in a relationship but it’s hard work
I haven’t found the lady for me

[andreamodellig]

I think they do want to get married. There's plenty of guys my age that say they want to get married but they can't find anyone who also wants to get married.

[mattl338]

Or find anyone that won’t betray them and be loyal and give things a chance I bet.

[Kdude010]

Because marriage really isn't in their favor after signing the paper.
Also, be real, women don't really want to marry either. Most people these days prefer hooking up to marrying.

[AdmiralSirJohn]

Because the ones who are marriage material want to marry Brad Pitt, not guys like me.

[GreenGold1992]

not every guy is up for that kind of responsibility and commitment and might be afraid to give up their single freedom life as bachelors.

[Dr_Spins]

Tis scary, but I could be happily engaged with someone for years. Apparently it's quite common in Mordic countries.

[Exorcist_Rampage]

Because women usually control the marriages and if they divorce, the man gets a raw deal because the government hates men more.

[Iron_Man]

We do we are just picky. Women are spoiled
Nowadays and want to be the boss

[smb930]

I'm just too nervous to take things to the next level. I don't think I'm good enough for anyone.

[grega239]

BCS they don't want to get dry fucked by divorce courts

[grega239]

Also, a lot of women seem to be promiscuous... so that might be an issue aswell

[neesa]

Men are promiscuous too though 🤔🤔 because you know men are the ones who are known to love sex.

[grega239]

I'm not.
Also. It's easier for women to get laid so I'm guessing women are the majority in the slut department

[neesa]

It's easier yes, but I know more men who are manwhores than women. I've only been with one person personally. But like... Some people wanna sleep around that's just their life you know? Go for a girl who has the values you have instead of looking at the girls who sleep about or the guys who sleep about.

[grega239]

Hard to find a woman with similar values given how everyone seem to Be a cheater

[neesa]

There's someone for everyone, I believe 😊 you'll for sure find a girl with the same or similar values as you. I feel once you find the person you're meant to be with then marriage doesn't seem like such a bad idea. I could be wrong tho, but I love to think positively

[grega239]

I'm not that optimistic

[Shamalien]

There aren’t many women worth marrying.

Deal with that fact

[anametouse]

No one wants to trust the wrong person and end up losing everything after a divorce

[McKellar]

I'm not going to lie,... I would like to be married.

[Bomed]

It's too much risk women file 80 percent of divorces get 90 percent of custody from a male perspective it's pointless

[john202]

Because as Bill burr has said you are betting half of your shit that your love will last forever

[Anonymous]

Prove to me that it is more than a piece of paper that risks my financial solvency for life

[neesa]

I'd rather get married and then have children, to me it's just shows we're ready to start a family together, and start a new life together. In my opinion it's definitely more than just a piece of paper. And if I got divorced, I wouldn't want his money anyway, I'd only want him to help with the children if we had any, because it took two to bring life to this world so it's gonna take two to look after them.

[Opinion Owner]

Lmao right

[neesa]

Excuse me? 🙃

[Submissivedanny355]

Guys now day are afraid of being taken to the cleaners in a divorce.

[KittyMilk]

It's only a notarized piece of paper declaring your love

[Nachowedgie]

Because women just cheat and leave with half the mans shit

[KrakenAttackin]

A more appropriate question is "why WOULD any man get married"?

[DanOh2018]

When was the last time you heard of a woman who actually tried mastering classical domestic skills?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

They are fools or just attract pathetic women into their lives.

[Anonymous]

Because all women have to do is fill for divorce and she takes most of his money and all his stuff under his name. Not worth it.

[JTB1980]

Some of us do but marriage doesn't have the same respect it once did.

[liohandsome]

Well I am looking for nice and funny lady to marry and so cool lady

[Anonymous]

Those men are just weak.

[neesa]

Facts

[crazy8000]

Can be said about female's that can't stay in a relationship without getting married 😉

[neesa]

I mean no, I only date for marriage/ for a future with the person. I don't see the point in dating and wasting time on someone who's just gonna leave and not try to commit. I want a family one day, and that's why I want marriage. I don't want multiple baby daddies. I want the one man who will stay with me and is the father to ALL my children. That's not weak at all.

[nathanp97]

So then why do you need marriage for that?

[AynonOMouse]

@OpinionOwner Nah, you're just a thief. lol

[Lynx122]

Cause marriage is a terrible decision for a guy.

[Mroz75]

Because they are guys, and not men 🙃🙃🙃🙃

[mattl338]

Don't be asinine.

[COMMODOREII]

I want to get married.

[Houseman01]

a lot of guys noticing that these females are for everybody.

[NerdInDenial]

It’s financially risky

[Thatsamazing]

Loss of independence.

[MrMilti]

Perhaps you are dating the wrong kind of guys?

[TheFlak38]

How many reasons do you want?

[Luukas]

what argument says that?

[nwall1771]

I do believe in marriage.

[Black__Rose]

because women speak a lot

[Chase7777]

It's a useless ritual. Kinda pathetic.

[AkkiBS]

Cause men's are happy being a single

[JohnDeere73]

To many Bitches out there

[riya54]

Not necessary

[NorthwestRider]

I am getting married

[Hollywood39]

Loose your benefits