Would you still marry your girlfriend/boyfriend after knowing that she/he doesn't produce kids?

[hela1110]

Yes

No

[exitseven]

When I got married I wasn't sure I wanted to have kids. I had an accident "down there" and I wasn't sure that I would be able to have kids anyway.
My attitude was that I didn't not want to have kids.
Two months later we turned up pregnant.

[CallmeTheKnight]

It's easy to say yes or no when we're not in that situation. I know I'd still want to have the option of having children whether I it's through a surrogate or if we agree to be poly temporarily just so I can receive the children I want

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I can't conceive & bare a child. :( My long-time lover still selflessly & happily stayed with me and married me. <3

[Laciandmaci]

Yes as I don't want kids. Plus I would rather adopt, how many kids needs homes. TOO MANY!

[MasseurDeMojo]

Even if you could not have your own kids; if you truly care about them to the point of being willing to give up your life to protect them; you will marry them, and let them know, that you as a couple can always adopt, and raise a child as your own.

[ChrisMaster69]

I have a 14 yr old daughter, so the child side of things is sorted.

[hela1110]

U can still put urself in this situation

[ChrisMaster69]

Well divorced with a teen daughter means if I married they would have a ready made family lol

[NathanDavis]

Yes, there's plenty and many alternatives nowadays.

[hela1110]

Yes but sometimes they don't work either...

[NathanDavis]

Adoption is a very good alternative, one of the students I tutor, she said to me... "some kids grow up in their paretn's wombs, I got to grow up my parent's hearts" and I think that can be very true, to me love is love and I am not against adoption.

But it you meant to say that none of the options are possible then well, I still would love my partner, and if she still wanted to keep going and live a life without children, just the two of us, I would still stay with her if I loved her that much.

I am even willing to marry or be with a woman that already decided not to have children, so again... if I love someone this much, I will stay with her no matter what.

[hela1110]

Fair enough

[NathanDavis]

I have to be ready for anything and everything, something I learned in the last 20 years is that as much as I plan and work on something, life's still going to happen and sometimes and change it in an instanct or gradually, so... I better make the most ouf of it while I can.

[jshm2]

Hella yes! Unprotected, legs behind ears, cream pies every night! All without concern in eithers mind.

What's not to like?

[Interstate]

Thinking the way I used to back when I was into relationships, if there is one thing I can do WITHOUT the most, its KIDS.

[Leavesbound]

For me the primary reason to marry would be to have a family. If that goal is achieved already then it wouldn't matter after that.

[Apple1996]

Before having kids I would have said yes since there's other ways to have children but now having had them I know how much of a bond that creates and I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone without that bond

[DizzyDesii]

Sadly no. Now if we had one kid and then they couldnt have more, yes.

[SteveSmith1985]

Yes of course. If the couple wants kids there is always adoption. 🙂

[Madhatter920]

Yes. I would actually consider that to be a positive trait. lol

[jasco]

I had this choice once, I choose no but honestly I regret it. If I could go back, I would have said yes. However as of now I do not know sense I am not in a relationship so I don't know

[In_Klamath]

I have married a woman who could never have kids. I was in love with her not because she could or could not have kids.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Produce lol is she a factory? of she is my girlfriend then yes would marry her lol and I will be a man child problem solved 😁

[Andres77]

The priority was her. Kids would have been the wreath around the crown.
But it was her I wanted.

[douride2]

I would be a bit of a hypocrite if I wouldn't since I can't bare children myself.

[anon_teen]

Yes, can always adopt, and sperm banks exist. Im in love with someone for them, they dont owe me children.

[Dchrls78104]

I'm 43. Kids are not a priority for me. Maybe my time for having kids is past. Yes, I would marry a girl who didn't want kids or couldn't have kids.

[noob__master]

The only thing I want in life is my own children so no.

[es20490446e]

Only if she has been with me for a while, and she didn't know beforehand.

[Maspolomas]

I have a few friends whom decided long ago to never have kids and they travel everywhere with a moment’s notice

[Unbeatable]

no im not a cuck im uninterested in raising another persons child and the purpose of marriage is to have children, to raise up a dynasty to the heights of the stars

[hela1110]

That's harsh

[Unbeatable]

i believe life is the least harsh when you have a harsh attitude toward it

[TheSpaceGnome]

I would prefer someone who can't produce kids. otherwise I'm stuck with just getting handjobs/bjs, because I don't ever want to have kids.

[TheBigGuy9]

I would because I’m fine with not having kids. Reason is personal.

[WesBrewer]

I have no problem with never having kids, although I have no problem with having them either.

[Crazybeeguy]

That's why you need to communicate and have the conversation. Also, does he want or she want kids?

[anon_teen]

Can you read? They mean he/she is infertile, and he/she may have not known.

[Crazybeeguy]

@anon_teen yes, thanks for asking I know the avg read level for Americans is 6th grade when I was 16, now 20yrs later I don't know, I won't insult your intelligence with a bad reply. Please don't spread hate, on another note, I was saying the partner of the infertile person, may or may not want kids. The point I was making is take the awkward conversation to communicate what each person wants in life, it might be a huge benifit to the relationship. You do know what I mean, I won't insult your intelligence; however with age comes wisdom. When you can analyse the situation from different angles and perspectives, I think your mind will change about insulting people on the web.

[Crazybeeguy]

P. S.

Yes I know I said read instead of reading level. And benifit is actually benefit, thank you for your time.

[Anonymous]

I would. I don't want kids anyways so that wouldn't be an issue for me

[KatherineJ]

My husband married me knowing that I couldn’t have babies. There is always the blessing of adoption.

[ChiTown33]

At my age? Yes. I don't have a problem with people who are still raising kids into their 60's I just don't think I'd want to do it.

[pleasestopthis]

If he's the man I want to spend my life with, yes without a doubt. We can adopt.

[Anonymous]

If she lets me marry another girl, yes i would still be married to her.

[Bellatris]

Yes, because I don't want children either.

[GabrielaDragonFly]

For some that would be an incentive

[Amoebaaa]

I definitely would xO

[Ironic_Method]

Yeah, I don't want kids.

[PeacefulRainDrop]

Yes thats why there is adoption or surrogates.

[Dean269]

I dnt want Kids so it doesn't matter to me

[Wise4myage]

Yes, If I had no interests in raising kids.

[clampfan101]

It would be insanely disappointing, but yes.

[ALoser]

That would actually make me really happy

[Joshua0213]

Yeah its not a major issue, we could always adopt

[Anonymous]

If it was my ex, yes.

[Anonymous]

If I truly love her, I'll have to accept it.

[7771999]

That would be a nightmare scenario

[hela1110]

Why?

[7771999]

Because I want kids, obviously

[hela1110]

U can still adopt, but u love ur partner

[7771999]

I know. But I'd want that special connection. Knowing that they're a part of me and their mom

[hela1110]

So the answer is no

[7771999]

I'd struggle. But say yes

[hela1110]

Look in this situation u better say no if u r really craving to have kid...
Cos love can fade sometimes n u can keep blaming her for that n it may makes her sad...

[7771999]

True. But leaving her will also make her sad

[Redstang88]

That’s perfect 👌

[Iron_Man]

I want to have kids

[Jamie05rhs]

Sure! Not a problem.

[Supernormal]

Tough one

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes I would

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Oh hell yeah

[Luckycharms12]

I would yes

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

MAYBE

[abhi75757]

Yes i will marry

[hellacray]

Lol I wouldn't

[Anonymous]

doubtful