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When I got married I wasn't sure I wanted to have kids. I had an accident "down there" and I wasn't sure that I would be able to have kids anyway.
My attitude was that I didn't not want to have kids.
Two months later we turned up pregnant.
It's easy to say yes or no when we're not in that situation. I know I'd still want to have the option of having children whether I it's through a surrogate or if we agree to be poly temporarily just so I can receive the children I want
I can't conceive & bare a child. :( My long-time lover still selflessly & happily stayed with me and married me. <3
Yes as I don't want kids. Plus I would rather adopt, how many kids needs homes. TOO MANY!
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Even if you could not have your own kids; if you truly care about them to the point of being willing to give up your life to protect them; you will marry them, and let them know, that you as a couple can always adopt, and raise a child as your own.
I have a 14 yr old daughter, so the child side of things is sorted.
Well divorced with a teen daughter means if I married they would have a ready made family lol
Yes, there's plenty and many alternatives nowadays.
Adoption is a very good alternative, one of the students I tutor, she said to me... "some kids grow up in their paretn's wombs, I got to grow up my parent's hearts" and I think that can be very true, to me love is love and I am not against adoption.
But it you meant to say that none of the options are possible then well, I still would love my partner, and if she still wanted to keep going and live a life without children, just the two of us, I would still stay with her if I loved her that much.
I am even willing to marry or be with a woman that already decided not to have children, so again... if I love someone this much, I will stay with her no matter what.
I have to be ready for anything and everything, something I learned in the last 20 years is that as much as I plan and work on something, life's still going to happen and sometimes and change it in an instanct or gradually, so... I better make the most ouf of it while I can.
Hella yes! Unprotected, legs behind ears, cream pies every night! All without concern in eithers mind.
What's not to like?
Thinking the way I used to back when I was into relationships, if there is one thing I can do WITHOUT the most, its KIDS.
For me the primary reason to marry would be to have a family. If that goal is achieved already then it wouldn't matter after that.
Before having kids I would have said yes since there's other ways to have children but now having had them I know how much of a bond that creates and I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone without that bond
Sadly no. Now if we had one kid and then they couldnt have more, yes.
Yes of course. If the couple wants kids there is always adoption. 🙂
Yes. I would actually consider that to be a positive trait. lol
I had this choice once, I choose no but honestly I regret it. If I could go back, I would have said yes. However as of now I do not know sense I am not in a relationship so I don't know
I have married a woman who could never have kids. I was in love with her not because she could or could not have kids.
Produce lol is she a factory? of she is my girlfriend then yes would marry her lol and I will be a man child problem solved 😁
The priority was her. Kids would have been the wreath around the crown.
But it was her I wanted.
I would be a bit of a hypocrite if I wouldn't since I can't bare children myself.
Yes, can always adopt, and sperm banks exist. Im in love with someone for them, they dont owe me children.
I'm 43. Kids are not a priority for me. Maybe my time for having kids is past. Yes, I would marry a girl who didn't want kids or couldn't have kids.
The only thing I want in life is my own children so no.
Only if she has been with me for a while, and she didn't know beforehand.
I have a few friends whom decided long ago to never have kids and they travel everywhere with a momentās notice
no im not a cuck im uninterested in raising another persons child and the purpose of marriage is to have children, to raise up a dynasty to the heights of the stars
i believe life is the least harsh when you have a harsh attitude toward it
I would prefer someone who can't produce kids. otherwise I'm stuck with just getting handjobs/bjs, because I don't ever want to have kids.
I would because Iām fine with not having kids. Reason is personal.
I have no problem with never having kids, although I have no problem with having them either.
That's why you need to communicate and have the conversation. Also, does he want or she want kids?
@anon_teen yes, thanks for asking I know the avg read level for Americans is 6th grade when I was 16, now 20yrs later I don't know, I won't insult your intelligence with a bad reply. Please don't spread hate, on another note, I was saying the partner of the infertile person, may or may not want kids. The point I was making is take the awkward conversation to communicate what each person wants in life, it might be a huge benifit to the relationship. You do know what I mean, I won't insult your intelligence; however with age comes wisdom. When you can analyse the situation from different angles and perspectives, I think your mind will change about insulting people on the web.
P. S.
Yes I know I said read instead of reading level. And benifit is actually benefit, thank you for your time.
I would. I don't want kids anyways so that wouldn't be an issue for me
My husband married me knowing that I couldnāt have babies. There is always the blessing of adoption.
At my age? Yes. I don't have a problem with people who are still raising kids into their 60's I just don't think I'd want to do it.
If he's the man I want to spend my life with, yes without a doubt. We can adopt.
If she lets me marry another girl, yes i would still be married to her.
Yes, because I don't want children either.
For some that would be an incentive
I definitely would xO
Yeah, I don't want kids.
Yes thats why there is adoption or surrogates.
I dnt want Kids so it doesn't matter to me
Yes, If I had no interests in raising kids.
It would be insanely disappointing, but yes.
That would actually make me really happy
Yeah its not a major issue, we could always adopt
If it was my ex, yes.
If I truly love her, I'll have to accept it.
That would be a nightmare scenario
Thatās perfect 👌
I want to have kids
Sure! Not a problem.
Tough one
Yes I would
Oh hell yeah
I would yes
MAYBE
Yes i will marry
Lol I wouldn't
doubtful
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