Would you ever do a boudoir photoshoot for your spouse or partner?

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JackSmy · Accepted Answer

Three that I dated, just adored that I was loving Monochrome photography, at the time. Real film, and my own Dark Room, to develop, and print!
All of them, over like three years, loved my art, and the way I made images.
he first one wanted to go with me, when I went to a place, when I lived in California, around Sausalito, and in the hills, the old concrete batteries.
At first, I loved TEXTURES, like SUPER CLOSE, on wood fences, or concrete, and it was so detailed, it's like you could FEEL that, just seeing the prints.
This AMAZING Lady, changed my Art, changed my mind, when she suddenly undressed, and was totally nude, and posing against the harsh textures that I was liking!
The duality of her soft curves, and nudity, against the harsh steel, rusted, and worn, or the course concrete, inspired me to something new.
The first images weren't very good, but we developed, and printed some, and she loved a few!
Nothing worthy of any "art show" or anything, but she loved posing, and I think the 'thrill' of maybe being 'caught' in a public place!
Needless to say, it was wonderful "foreplay" as was the developing, and printing, in the dark room, and seeing her as the prints developed in the chemical bath!
Digital, now, just seems so heartless, and cold, lacking the REAL ART, of capturing the image, on film, with the right lighting, and exposure!
Today, anyone can snap a shot, and with Photoshop make it look amazing! To easy, and no ART, there. . .

coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

------------I would never do it but I know plenty of people who have. It is quite popular among couples. My friend is a photographer and does many shoots like this each month. It's definitely a good way to spice things up if you are into that sort of thing.

"Remember failure is an event not a person."
~Coach T Anthony @thedatecoach IG

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

I have gigabytes of shots but I can't present them in public because of licenses. The another question is change such shots the quality of a potential relationship, personally I doubt that.

Elliegirl · Accepted Answer

I’d do it for my husband. Might be fun a d I know he’d love it.

Qdbrown · Answer

No, but one time I was having fun looking through photos of my girlfriend's phone, and found all kinds of naked photos of her. She said she liked taking such pictures.

Of course she tried to lie her way as though only boudoir. It was freak photos she was posting to get attention on a naughty hookup site.

After I confronted her on that, I admitted she liked kinky stuff. I acted like I was into, and that's when I found out she was banging guys for fun. She thought hot. I broke up with her.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

The lady who cuts my hair was getting into doing this type of photography for her friends. Only she pronounced it "Bow-dee-air"... Uh, if she was getting into it, she'd better learn to pronounce it... LOL

LeeannaDD · Answer

Have done for my husband. I went to school with a girl who does photography and she does boudoir shoots too.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

I did one with ex years ago as part of a role playing session. it was a very Victorian setup, the album still exists as she’s not got rid of it.

EmmaMary · Answer

I've never given this any thought at all, until now that is!

loves2learn · Answer

Yes! I’ve been strongly considering one. I know he would love it.

Nikkilee12 · Answer

There are some good tiktok accounts for tips on these types of photography! Go for it! Great pics!

bannacookies · Answer

I would not. Just in case if we ever broke up or they started getting a bit weird, I would not want those pictures to be thrown here and there online or even just to other people to see face-to-face.

NoLookingAtSoleil · Answer

I find those very very stupid.
That is something you give in person, not take video images of.
Women do them for the next boyfriend (and then feel sexy about the fact they get allowed to look for the 2nd and 3rd man while one idiot is sponsoring it - and he feels 'like a man' about it 🤦‍♂️)

MyNameJames · Answer

Don't have an opinion really, if she wanted to I would never stop her but I wouldn't push for it I do think

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

I’ve done one before, it was fun but wouldn’t do it again unless I’m married.

ariadneR · Answer

Absolutely I'd love to. I know he'd love it too. He'd probably have his favourite enlarged and hung in our bedroom

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. Because the concept of boudoir photos originated in brothels and with prostitutes. It sexualizes women and puts not one once of value to them as a person.

For a decent woman who is not a tramp, it's demeaning.

potatoooo · Answer

I would but I just dk if it suit my body size. It's has that elegance while being sexy.

Tiptoetamm · Answer

Ohh yeah totally sexy

Kas19 · Answer

Absolutely. I'd love to do one for him.

KatherineJ · Answer

I have done one for him.

Poppykate · Answer

If I was married… yes.

queenish_ · Answer

Yes, definitely as soon as I get married lol

Marhaban-1 · Answer

Maybe but I don't think I would have much desire to

karaspara · Answer

Yeah I think that would be sexy and classy

Jazquee · Answer

Absolutely... already did for his 40th.

clampfan101 · Answer

Unless she’s planning on sharing it on Facebook or whatever, I don’t know why not.

rosemilk · Answer

I don't see the point of it 🌸

msc545 · Answer

No. I HATE being photographed.

DarkCarousel · Answer

Yes, I absolutely would.

RebeccaSJ · Answer

I gave him a set as a gift.

Devlaw5 · Answer

Definitely. But the pictures stay with us only.

Goodwifie · Answer

I did it myself 👍

princeofromance · Answer

Yes, If I had a partner or spouse.

Aimée__LJ · Answer

Heck yeah

Yyyyp789 · Answer

Of course!

Lauren-green · Answer

I have before 😈

TheorionMage · Answer

If NOT, ... whom the Hell are you 'saving it' for?

WowwGirl · Answer

I have

Anonymous · Answer

Yes most definitely if they were in to that shit.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes, I would.

Libarena · Answer

What makes you think I haven't?

The_Outlaw · Answer

No. She'd want to gouge her eyes out.

SherideenJo · Answer

Definitely would.

Maxnanet · Answer

Id love to see this with my girlfriend

In_Trance · Answer

Sure, why not?

Lems1977 · Answer

Absolutely! 😁

elizamichale1 · Answer

Sure why not

JesseJayNeak · Answer

If I had one

misstripleem · Answer

I have.

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