No, because you can’t force someone to take that vaccine. This is the way I look at it. Take religion for example, people of faith believe in the concept of God, heaven/hell in the hereafter, praying, fasting, doing good, etc. It’s purpose is to purify your soul because your soul is what departs in the hereafter for eternity. Meanwhile you will have people who don’t believe in that concept and think it’s complete hogwash and that doesn’t exist and we don’t have a soul. Well, you’ll have people who are hesitant to take a vaccine that is medically safe, while you will have others who are pro vaccine and will strongly say it saves lives. I got my 2 vaccines doses and I’m not big on flu shots or shots in general. But I placed my ignorance to the side and said fine I’ll take it. However, I will not take a 10 year booster shot or continue getting vaccine shots for the rest of my life, no thanks. I know family and friends who didn’t get the vaccine but I’m not going to argue with them about why didn’t you get it? They have a choice and I can’t force someone to take it. I know someone will read this and give my comment a thumbs down which I don’t understand why, I’m open to others opinions but at the same time I got my vaccine so I guess people are just hard headed with their way or the high way approach, even if it is the right or left.
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I would not have a disagreement with my partner over the vaccine
but if your relationship went into a disagreement over a vaccine, then I might have to reconsider if this is a real relationship, or one I would like to be one, I would consider it a weak bond, IF... a vaccine becomes such a big issue.
Also, I am not sure I would get in relationship with an anti-vaxxer right away, if she's wary of the side long term effects a vaccine could bring, and she has no underlying issues herself, or if she already had COVID, if she's taking other measures but she just does not trust a rushed vaccine, which it is... then I do consider this and some other reasons as valid for not wanting the vaccine FOR HERSELF, I could understand and respect some of that, however...
if she starts talking 5G poles, nanobots and Illuminati/Democrat/reptilian, Bill Gates is the antichrist and the frogs are gay, stuff like that, well... that's just funny.
For this, yes. I have pre-existing conditions. Life for me is hard enough battling with my health and the last thing I want or need is more stress having to worry about my boyfriend coming in contact with someone who is infected and bringing that home. I think when you date or marry someone with health conditions, part of being in that partnership is learning about their condition, learning what can make it worse or better, and how to help them cope. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where someone only cared about themselves and not my need to not want to get any sicker. I can't afford to put my life at risk even for love or like.
I think there are far worse things to stress over in a relationship and marriage than a vaccine!
Honestly I'm indifferent towards the vaccine- if someone doesn't want to get it? Fine, that's their choice. But he better take the proper precautions to protect himself and me if that's the case!
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No way. One thing I believe in a partnership; my partner gets to be who she is and believe what she believes. If we have a difference of opinion, we can talk about it, even argue it, but ultimately she can have another perspective and it's not the end of the world. How arrogant is it to assume you know the unknowable, and are willing to sever your connection to your supposed loved one over it?
@Orangeandturquoise this reminds me of the post you just did about "Integral Theory". I feel that when one is operating at a fundamental level of ego-driven motivation/perspective it's difficult (impossible?) to tolerate differing perspectives, but as you describe in the "kosmocentric leap" when one can recognize and accept two contradictory perspectives within oneself, then application to events such as described in this question comes naturally.To each their own. We're all responsible for our own bodies. When it comes to this I wouldn't expect my boyfriend to do what I do just because I say so. We're both ok with each of us doing our own thing but we just so happen to agree on this matter anyways.
My boyfriend hasn't gotten the vaccine and I don't think he will. At least not anytime soon. And I think he is justified to have his own opinion on it. I'm not going to break up with him, because he wants to see the long term effects before injecting himself with something that has been hastily developed.
I personally wanted to take the vaccine, because I didn't really think about the risks. I just wanted to help the herd immunity and possibly alleviate the symptoms if I happen to catch covid. I work as a cashier and am in very high risk of catching the disease, since people are very careless when the come to the grocery store, and don't care about others, especially us staff. And the Finnish laws don't bend enough to make masks and disinfecting hands mandatory.If you are looking for any excuse at all to get the fuck out of the relationship then sure you could use the vaccine as a reason but for a relationship that isn't complete shit this would be a really messed up reason to separate.
I wouldn't leave my partner but I also wouldn't let them choose if I get the vaccine or not. If they choose not to get it then that's them, but if I want it and they are telling me no and won't let me get it then that is when I would consider leaving (or just doing it without them knowing) because that's getting into controlling behaviours. But just over if they won't get it then no, I may try to convince them every so often but it's not going to be a daily pushy conversation
Anti vaxers tend to be all cut from the same cloth. It would be that type of mindset that would break us up so if it wasn't the vaccine it would be something else
This is a timeline of a typical COVID vax person. Obviously those sorts of people have issues that don't make them well suited to playing with others. I wounder if he's aware that the COVID vaccines are linked to myocarditis, pericarditis, and blood clots. The leading cause of heart attacks is coronary heart diseases where a blood clot blocks the supply of blood to the heart triggering a heart attack… You think he’ll figure it out before he kicks off?
Actually had this conversation, as I would find it hard dating someone with crazy thoughts (I’m crazy enough for two).
However we both agreed, as does pretty much every single person I know, that only crazy people don’t get it.
Speaking of crazy, those we do know that are not getting it, also fall in to the other conspiracy stories group, they believe every story on social media and invariably start every conversation with ‘have you heard….’
if they were uncertain, could not have it, slightly different matter. Refusal basically means they fall in to the crazy bunch and I would put money on them getting triggered by half a ton of government or global conspiracies.If we were just boyfriend and girlfriend, I might break up if she was so brainwashed that she ignored all the information out there on the need not to fear covid and uselessness and dangers of the jab, not to mention ignoring the social implications of buying into the covid narrative.
So, if she wanted the jab, I would 1) think she was closed minded and willfully ignorant, 2) willing to endanger herself and me for no reason, and 3) willing to plunge society into slavery under totalitarianism.
I need an ally in fighting for humanity, not a complete dumb ass.
Fortunately, I don't have to consider the thought because my wife researches as much as do I, clearly sees the scam, and understands what is at stake.No. I got vaxxed right off, she still hasn't and doesn't plan to. But to be fair neither of us are extremists either. I just would rather risk the vaccine than covid and she'd rather risk covid than the vaccine. We don't think each other are idiots or evil for this disagreement.
I'm single and in case I will meet someone and she is not vaccinated and do not want to, it would not matter too much too me now, only international travel will be restricted together, so that would have to wait few years...
My vulnerable relatives and friends are all vaccinated, should be no issues there too...
In the end, if she is not vulnerable to this virus and will not expect special treatment in case she gets very ill due to this virus, I do not care...So funny how so many people will say, they'll leave someone over not getting the vaccine but I bet they had sex with their partners without any protection from STDS...
The vaccine was not approved by the FDA because it was put out for emergency use which bypasses the months it would nornally take to get approved. My girlfriend works in healthcare so she had to get it or not have a job making less on unemployment tgar she would having the job ahe has. I am not vaccinated but we are still together.
I believe it's a personal decision. If you don't want the vaccine that's fine. Just don't keep me from getting it, or treat me differently because I got it.
No, I would hire a doctor and secretly tell him to inject him the vaccine the exact same time when I'm sucking his dick by fantastic facefuck he will never forget ❤️❤️ ( it's okay let the doctor get jealous haha)
No; absolutely not. I believe in science. Therefore, I am neutral on this vaccine, because it is new and not all of the evidence is out yet. I chose to take the risk, but if someone else did not I don't hold that against them in any way whatsoever.
No I wouldn’t, I can see both sides to the argument. As long as they had put thought into it and had a valid reason for their decision. I would however break up with someone who believes covid isn’t real or that the vaccine is a way to spy on us 🤔
No, I wouldn't but I'd try to manipulate him into getting vaccine or make our dates problematic because of being too careful, so he'd get tired of it and get the goddamn vaccine 😅😅
My partner doesn’t want it. I don’t care. It’s his choice.
I wouldn’t date anyone vaccinated less more married. Yes, I know couples divorcing because one is vaxxed and the other isn’t.
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