Men mature at different ages. My fiend got married at 26, not sure he knew exactly what he was getting into but he matured quick. There is something about having kids that forcibly matures you. I’m 31 and I realize now I wasn’t ready when I thought I was.
I got married at 25. I was ready for that but I was ill prepared to be a father. I was hanging out with my friends, going to the beach, riding around in my 4X4 and all of a sudden I was married with kids and a house working a very demanding job. It was a hard adjustment to make.
That's a vice versa question and it varies from person to person.
If a man initiates the divorce, then there was something definitely wrong with the marriage without a doubt. Normally women file for divorce for different reasons and some just to be predatory for assets. Normally men don't file for divorce, especially not at a high rate.
Age doesn't specifically set a certain level of maturity in an individual. What you say seems like very much in love may not always be true behind closed doors.
Also women can be immature at 25 as well. To that point, if you mean can SOME people be to young and immature to get married, then yes I do.
I think men and women at younger adult ages can possibly be too immature for marriage but not all.
Men and Women are unguided, parents gets no responsibility in term of life preparation of their kids. Like birds baby everyone leave one by one without experience in east of the world from age 15 to 20 they're preparing for a new life. We need to change the way people prepare their kids for adults life in USA. That's why man and women get mature late in their life.
I think it depends on the amount of committment he's put down before. It's all about experience, not about age. He can only really know what it's like to grind for someone he loves, support them, be there even when they're at their worst if this is something he's already experienced. That's the only way he can know what he'll be down to accept and what he won't accept.
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Me and my wife are the same age 25 . (2 months apart)
We have ben married for 2 years and are happy has can be.
we have ben dating since we were teenagers. And knew eachother since we were kids.
I fully understand this is a life long commitment and i have no regrets of any kind. I basically married my best friend,
That was just a special case what happened to your friend. not every guy is like that
Ok, so a while then. Did they try living together for a while before they got married? Think it is recommended to love with your partner for a couple of years to see if your lifestyle will work because it paints a picture to what you can expect down the road.
Age has nothing to do with it. I was 27 when I got married and I already had to fight for it. Covid cause a record number in divorces and not going to lie it was a bad time for mine too. We fought for it and today we are great. So it depends on the person.
Blokes can be very immature, although women can be too. I don't always think divorces are to do with immaturity though, the bottom line is you cannot know someone until you live with them and see them at their worst. It's just not possible.
I'd say upbringing and values have more to do with it than anything. Women generally have many EXPECTATIONS from a man. Success has a lot to do with how demanding she is. You're not issued a "Marriage manual" when you get hitched. And given how varied relationships are it wouldn't matter if you were.
I mean one could argue if one's mature enough they won't want to get married anyway. Also I would say most people get married quickly which often ain't good.
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If you've watched Married at First Australia latest season, then yes. The guy is 26 & he was clueless. The wife had to teach him how to cook & do laundry. He drunk beer out of his shoe. It was embarrassing & felt bad for her. They didn't end up staying together.
This has a lot more to do with the values, emotional health, personality, and maturity of the person than age. There are immature men in their 30s too.
@Alyssa_11 You need to find a boyfriend first! Boyfriends become husbands (if that's what they're looking for, of course. Some of them don't want marriage.)
@alyssa_11 30 is way to young for a guy to get married in my opinion. In fact the ages from 28-35 are prime ages for guys it's around the age when most guys start making money, are living on their own and have the largest pool of women to choose from.
@Jamie05rhs Excellent question. 28-35 represents a mans overall prime in my opinion. You have your youth, health, secondary education, a career business, single friends, hopefully no kids, so time, if you're smart you've bought your first house, started your investment portfolio, etc. When I worked in the nightclub industry here in Vegas that's the exact demographic we targeted to sell tables to. Younger than 28 usually doesn't have $$$ older than 35 doesn't usually go out that much because they're stuck w/ wife and kids. in my opinion a man should experience all of that first b4 making a decision to settle down or not. Personally I have extended that window but after that age I could see why a man would want to settle down if he chooses.
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Oh, they understand alright.
When did she quit adoring him?
Do you have ANY idea how to get and keep a man? My guess is you do not, and hence why they wander off looking for someone that DOES.
It's really WAY simple. But about half of women simply can't be bothered. Then they wonder why he dumps her ass.
Men mature at different ages. My fiend got married at 26, not sure he knew exactly what he was getting into but he matured quick. There is something about having kids that forcibly matures you. I’m 31 and I realize now I wasn’t ready when I thought I was.
I got married at 25. I was ready for that but I was ill prepared to be a father. I was hanging out with my friends, going to the beach, riding around in my 4X4 and all of a sudden I was married with kids and a house working a very demanding job. It was a hard adjustment to make.
That's a vice versa question and it varies from person to person.
If a man initiates the divorce, then there was something definitely wrong with the marriage without a doubt. Normally women file for divorce for different reasons and some just to be predatory for assets. Normally men don't file for divorce, especially not at a high rate.
Age doesn't specifically set a certain level of maturity in an individual. What you say seems like very much in love may not always be true behind closed doors.
Also women can be immature at 25 as well. To that point, if you mean can SOME people be to young and immature to get married, then yes I do.
I think men and women at younger adult ages can possibly be too immature for marriage but not all.
Men and Women are unguided, parents gets no responsibility in term of life preparation of their kids. Like birds baby everyone leave one by one without experience in east of the world from age 15 to 20 they're preparing for a new life. We need to change the way people prepare their kids for adults life in USA. That's why man and women get mature late in their life.
I think it depends on the amount of committment he's put down before.
It's all about experience, not about age. He can only really know what it's like to grind for someone he loves, support them, be there even when they're at their worst if this is something he's already experienced. That's the only way he can know what he'll be down to accept and what he won't accept.
Me and my wife are the same age 25 . (2 months apart)
We have ben married for 2 years and are happy has can be.
we have ben dating since we were teenagers.
And knew eachother since we were kids.
I fully understand this is a life long commitment and i have no regrets of any kind.
I basically married my best friend,
That was just a special case what happened to your friend.
not every guy is like that
People change. Maybe it was something he wanted at first but found it wasn't for him? How long did they date for before getting married?
Two years!
Ok, so a while then. Did they try living together for a while before they got married? Think it is recommended to love with your partner for a couple of years to see if your lifestyle will work because it paints a picture to what you can expect down the road.
Yes I guess they didn’t
Age has nothing to do with it.
I was 27 when I got married and I already had to fight for it. Covid cause a record number in divorces and not going to lie it was a bad time for mine too. We fought for it and today we are great.
So it depends on the person.
Blokes can be very immature, although women can be too. I don't always think divorces are to do with immaturity though, the bottom line is you cannot know someone until you live with them and see them at their worst. It's just not possible.
Sure, anyone can not understand it or have some sort of vision on what it is, that once the honeymoon phase wears off, surprises them.
Could be he thought he wanted to, but after awhile realized he didn't.
That's if the guy got married only to be able to have sex...
A girl to me is a lot more than just sex...
Sex is just one if the items found in the marriage package...
I'd say upbringing and values have more to do with it than anything. Women generally have many EXPECTATIONS from a man. Success has a lot to do with how demanding she is. You're not issued a "Marriage manual" when you get hitched. And given how varied relationships are it wouldn't matter if you were.
I mean one could argue if one's mature enough they won't want to get married anyway. Also I would say most people get married quickly which often ain't good.
If you've watched Married at First Australia latest season, then yes.
The guy is 26 & he was clueless.
The wife had to teach him how to cook & do laundry. He drunk beer out of his shoe.
It was embarrassing & felt bad for her.
They didn't end up staying together.
This has a lot more to do with the values, emotional health, personality, and maturity of the person than age. There are immature men in their 30s too.
there are also many girls that are too immature for marriage or a stable relationship
Age isn’t so relevant. Where are people trained … what expectations do they have and what’s the reality.
Absolutely. Most, I believe, are too young and immature to understand what makes a relationship work well.
30 is the perfect age for guts to marry and have kids. 16 for girls
Personally wasn’t ready for marriage until now probably
Well the clock is always ticking...
I know I’m 25 this year!!! :( but I can’t find a husband
@Alyssa_11 You need to find a boyfriend first! Boyfriends become husbands (if that's what they're looking for, of course. Some of them don't want marriage.)
Sure I’ll change that — I can’t find a boyfriend 😢😢😢
@Alyssa_11 Awww. 💙
@Jamie05rhs haha
@alyssa_11 30 is way to young for a guy to get married in my opinion. In fact the ages from 28-35 are prime ages for guys it's around the age when most guys start making money, are living on their own and have the largest pool of women to choose from.
I prefer dating men 28+ because that’s when I feel we’re on the same maturity level
@Alyssa_11 How old are you?
@Vegasrunner If that's their prime age, then why should they not get married then?
@Jamie05rhs Excellent question. 28-35 represents a mans overall prime in my opinion. You have your youth, health, secondary education, a career business, single friends, hopefully no kids, so time, if you're smart you've bought your first house, started your investment portfolio, etc. When I worked in the nightclub industry here in Vegas that's the exact demographic we targeted to sell tables to. Younger than 28 usually doesn't have $$$ older than 35 doesn't usually go out that much because they're stuck w/ wife and kids. in my opinion a man should experience all of that first b4 making a decision to settle down or not. Personally I have extended that window but after that age I could see why a man would want to settle down if he chooses.
@Vegasrunner So in other words you want them to be dumb and throw their money away at casinos. Lol
I’m 24
@Jamie05rhs Um, not sure what you're talking about but thanks for sharing?
@alyssa_11 Gotcha. You still have plenty of time to find a guy in that range.
Hopefully