Guys, I am so angry is he still cheating?

[Newtothis000]

I needed to get a number from my husbands phone so asked if I could go into his phone to look for it. I found the number of the woman he once cheated on me with STILL in his phone.
I confronted him and he says they don’t speak. Am I being stupid here? Why would he have that number if they don’t speak!!

[Anonymous]

Sometimes we just don’t clear it out. I have maybe 350 numbers in my phone, of that I probably don’t talk to about 150 of them. They’re still in my phone because honestly it’s not that important for me to go delete them. But on the other hand he may still have it in case you two break up or something. Then he can still contact her. I know I’ve done that. Girl answered immediately and later that afternoon she was giving me head.

[Newtothis000]

I get what you’re saying. But he’s been caught with this number and I already thought it had been deleted before so if it was really over between them surely it wouldn’t be kept? So the fact he has it speaks volumes

[Opinion Owner]

Yes and no. I’ve had some wild times w some women that were freaking amazing that would blow any man’s mind. But once I found someone I never called her back. Course I’ve never deleted the number because it wasn’t important. But I’d there a chance he would get w her if your relationship ship went south? Yes there is. You could delete it but I think he will find a way to contact her if he really wanted to.

[Guy13]

Cause, instead of shooting ourselves or you when you go 🦇 💩 Crazy about things…we can scroll down and consider a better form of Expression and pressure release….

[Anonymous]

I guess you haven't gotten tired of asking the same question 100 times. 🙄

[Iron_Man]

That’s awful why are you still with a cheater

[Newtothis000]

We have a family, I thought we were working through things.. why would he keep such a number if it’s not being used?

[Iron_Man]

Because he's back seeing her behind your back that’s why

[Newtothis000]

This is how I’m feeling.. if it was over, wouldn’t the number be deleted/blocked? You don’t just have it for no reason do you? Sorry to ask you I just need some honest opinions

[Iron_Man]

You are correct put a stop to this Bad cheating man don’t tolerate disrespect like that that’s really bad

[Newtothis000]

Is it keeping a door open to future contact? Or does it not matter that he has her number as long as they aren’t speaking

[Iron_Man]

You had big problems over this before there’s no reason to keep her number and there’s no excuse saying oh I forgot to delete it he’s cheating on you have him tailed for proof take pics throw it in his face and end it. Sue for child support

[Newtothis000]

Thank you sorry I don’t mean to ask so many questions I just need to make sure I don’t sound stupid! So keeping that number there’s no reason for other than to contact so even if he says we aren’t speaking the fact he’s kept it means he will?

[Iron_Man]

Oh that’s perfectly fine you have the right to ask questions the best thing for you to do is have him tailed either one of your friends or yourself or a private detective take pictures of them kissing or whatever and throw it in his face and Sue for child support and end it. You can’t go on for the rest of your life being disrespected like that committing adultery on you

[Newtothis000]

So in your opinion, do you think the only reason to have that number is keeping a door open and if it was over between them she would have been deleted?

[Iron_Man]

Yes exactly

[Luckycharms12]

Ya I wouldn't trust him

[Newtothis000]

I dont know what to do am I being stupid here? Don’t get me wrong, I have phone numbers of people I won’t ever speak to again but surely that’s one that would be deleted? If not blocked?

[Luckycharms12]

Hard to know but normally cheat once more often than not they will again

[Newtothis000]

If it was over wouldn’t the number have been deleted?

[Luckycharms12]

I've exs numbers in my phone still but have no contact with them

[Newtothis000]

Why do you keep them?

[Luckycharms12]

All my exs finished well so we talk every now and then

[Avicenna]

Maybe

[Newtothis000]

Maybe what