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I thought it was the opposite. Most girls here just want to be independent
Are we? really?
I'm not. Marriage is a scam
Explain how marriage is a scam?
@Stoner710 spend a lot of money just to have a different title in front of your name.
Totally agree
@Kelly6 and @smashingdoozysmashingdoozy Honestly I think marriage is the most feminine thing you can do, as much as our society (I’m in the United States) wants to destroy the institution of marriage. Marriage is a beautiful thing. Men are suppose to provide and take care of the women they love as a man or a women you are suppose to leave your fathers house to join your husbands in holly matrimony. Now regardless if your religious or not (I am not as a matter of fact as an agnostic I’m the only one who can claim there non religious). I can still take the principles of Judeo Christian ethics and Greek reasoning and apply it to my own life. I’m not price charming but I look forward to providing for my future wife and helping her to raise the children we conceived together. Both men and women have there role to play in society women’s role is to raise children and raise them not to be beasts and men’s role is to provide for there wife so she doesn’t have to worry about how she is going to feed her kids in order to raise the children to the best of her ability and play her role in society. A women doesn’t have to play the role of a man in order to be her best self she needs to embrace what makes her different from men and understand that both men and women are equal but at the same time have different roles to play is society.
The world is a stage and men and women are both just actors playing a role in life. this is why when lacy Macbeth says unsex men now is because she wants to play the role of men she thinks Macbeth isn’t doing a good enough to become the king of Scotland and she thinks she can do a better job which is why she eventually goes mad and focuses on a spot of blood that really isn’t there the tragedy of lady Macbeth is she wants to play the role of a man and if drives her to madness and ultimately suicide because she has rejected her role as a women which is to provide for her and her husband and reject having children because of so fantasies she is incapable of turning to reality. This is the problem of modern day feminism where playing the role of a man will make you happy which is complete BS because what make men and women different is we have these roles to play and which provides happiness to both men and women. I think is was Marie Le Pen a famous feminist that said women can’t have the option of being a mother and a house wife vs getting a job and making it rich on her own. It’s because most of the time women will choose the former because that was ultimately makes them happy. I’m running out of room so ima stop here but read my comments and see what you think
@Stoner710 and how can’t a boy friend and girlfriend do that.
In Finland there are now more couples who have kids and live together but are not married.
@Kelly6 you can I guess but there not comments. Marriage is a oath between a man a women a binding agreement between a man and a women. It’s a life time commitment to one person for the rest of your life. Why just have sex with someone and have kids with them if you can just go against your oath and have sex with another child with a women or man that you only have a 1 time fling with? Marriage in that case is worthless. Jamie Lannister was known as the king slayer because he broke his oath to the king which demonized him for life. Marriage is much of the same thing you are swearing an oath to the women/man you love children who are raise in scutch situations have a better outcome in life then those who have no obligation to each other this is why you here so many stories about the father going out for a gallon of milk or a pack of cigarettes and never coming back. Without marriage he has no obligation to raise and take care of his children or the women who bared them. Marriage is important in my opinion it makes both men and women happier.
@Stoner710 lifetime commitment? Look at divorce rate
It's just as easy to get divorced... Nothing about a relationship changes when you get married besides from your title.
@Kelly6 yes there is a high divorce rate (except in the Philippines) but my point still stands it’s an oath you are taking to another person. The Priest/judge/rabbi ask you in my case because I’m a guy “do you take this women to love and behold in sickness or in health for better or for worse until death do you part”. By saying yes the that question you are commenting to the women you love that you will be loyal, you will Cherice her and be there for her until death. This is the reason I haven’t married yet because I haven’t found the women I’m willing to give that to, also the reason why I haven’t had sex because I want to give my all and affection to that woman I’m going to spend the rest of my life with. Once you take an oath you are beholden to that oath until you can no longer fulfilled that oath. In marriage it’s until death, there is no right to divorce there is only a right to marry the one you want to spend the rest of your life with and procreate with and grow old and live to heather until your either worm food or you spend the rest of your life in eternity. Weather it’s from reincarnation in which case you find each other again in the next life. Even if your Beatles or you entire the kingdom of heaven where your marriage will last forever. I’m not sure which is true hence why I’m agnostic.
Of course in modern society we have seemed to have lost the idea of oaths and commitment hence why the divorce rate is so high. If you choose to marry someone it’s for life not for the next 5 years not for the next 10 it’s until death of natural causes of course,
That’s not true again you are swearing an oath to in my case a women. If I am willing to swear an oath to the women I love why would i get divorce or is for better or for worse in health and sickness meaningless? In which case words themselves are meaningless which means society is meaningless of we should all behave like the Marquis de Sade (which is where we get the world sadism from) of course if that is the case why does anything matter even consent). If I want to have sex with Britney Spears why shouldn’t I have sex with her regardless if she is willing or not. Or is there not meaning to marriage and commit and you shouldn’t be screwing some Random person you know nothing about? Seems to me comment is better for both men and women
Societal pressure... plain and simple
Lol watching to many Cinderella stories
I don't know I don’t care for marriage
Princess fantasy
Are you asking about marriages or weddings?
I think both
Because it benefits them.
I Don’t Know Why. It’s Ridiculous.
How is marriage ridiculous?
Marriage Itself Its Not Ridiculous. It’s The Ones Who Take It To The Extreme Are Ridiculous.
Kinda fair personally I think divorce should be illegal. Why make a Life Time oath to somebody if you’re not going to uphold it.
You Can’t Make Divorce Illegal. Also Shit Happens. Celebrities Do It All The Time. It’s Perfectly Normal.
The Philippines would disagree with you. It is illegal to get divorced in the Philippines
It’s A Good Thing I’m Not Filipino Then 😹
Fair yea it’s illegal to get divorced in the Philippines and the Vatican of course both are Catholic countries
Because it is the right thing to do!!!
Not me
Money!
Women love money that they don't have to earn but that they get to spend and they usually get it from men. Most women are not armed robbers so they have other ways of getting it which usually involves things like divorces and alimony and child support.
Women don't have to earn because the government has rigged the tables at the casino so the wife always wins and husband always loses. When government changes laws regarding alimony, granting of divorce and child support, women will contribute to their marriage and make it work. Government and social media and feminism has made women undesirable as spouses.
@ethanallen well said!
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One word, alimony