My face is average looking, I'm like a 5/10. The ratings I've got from men are usually 5/10, sometimes 4/10, but mostly 5/10.
Is 5/10 good enough for a guy to marry a girl?
My face is average looking, I'm like a 5/10. The ratings I've got from men are usually 5/10, sometimes 4/10, but mostly 5/10.
Is 5/10 good enough for a guy to marry a girl?
A buddy of mine was telling me off his younger years and all the shit he used to do. One thing he talked about was how many girls he slept with. He said "... like me for instance, I know im not the best looking guy and im a little loud, but I feel like I've got a chance at anything I try and I had everything going for me. I didn't care if I was deemed a 3-4, I knew I could never take a 10 or even a 5 home but I was confident and I went for 3-4s every time, and every time I was confident and charismatic and took girls he every night! I had more women than the pretty boys falling for the ten every weekend and never succeeding." He also added and I agreed with him fully that looks are subjective. The criteria for what is and what isn't beautiful to men varies just as wide as what is handsome to women. Don't label yourself that way. Just carry yourself with confidence. If you don't know how to here's ans easy way to remember how to... don't give a shit what people think. That is more attractive than anything else. Be yourself the partner man or woman will come. Good luck!
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What matters are the underpinnings in form of character personality. We all End at 2/10 cosmetically. 8-10 of 10 in the Character and personality is what matters.
If you are with a guy who does not understand this way of thinking then i would reconsider the probable Situationship you may be in.
Ok, thank you but would a guy marry a girl and commit to her even if she's a 5/10 in looks?
It would depend on the guy. If he has preferences and if the girl certainly peaks his interest, yeah. If not, then no. It really depends. A guy who accepts a girl regardless of her "rating" in attractiveness won't matter as long as he accepts her for being herself. It's the same as the girl accepting the guy for being himself. I have a fiancé and she's a 8/10 in my eyes and I have been around the same for her ever since day one when we first met. It's a package deal, personality, looks, flaws, everything.
What’s wrong with an average looking girl? She deserves to be married, loved, respected and treated like a princess by her man. Besides when it comes to marriage there are many more important things to it than just looks and sexy body.
Yes as long as you got an a vagina that’s all they look for
I don't want to be a sex object, I want to be a guys best friend and be attractive to him both spiritually and physically. I want a real relationship that has more to it than sex.
Yeah but what Julia meant is as long as you are a natural born female and not some fake female, you know what I mean? Men are men. Women are women. Boys are boys. Girls are girls. Heterosexual love is the only form of love and what you've asked is what I wanted too. I finally found the girl I am looking for. She is not only my best friend, she is my eternal companion forever. She is the love of my life as she confessed I am the love of her life. Obviously, a real healthy relationship doesn't include sex only, it includes all the aspects of getting to know one another, spending together on dates/courtship sessions, doing fun activities like going for a bike ride or going fishing, or going to the ball park or just going for a stroll. The right man will not treat you as a sex object. The right man will accept you for being yourself just as you'll accept him for being himself.
To add, the love of my life is now my fiancé and we've decided to be married in the near future. We've also decided to have kids in the near future too. It is a big commitment and me and her have both accepted that calling in life. .
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I was married for 20 years to what many would consider an average looking girl. She was beautiful in my eyes.
It's a different time now though:/ Guys only go for beauty nowadays.
A girl is a package deal. Her appearance, her personality, her intelligence, her character. . . all of those things can make her a desirable partner and most potential partners are a combination of pluses and minuses.
Correct. A guy must accept a girl for being herself just as she must accept him being himself. Otherwise, it won't work out.
@xXJugheadJonesXx That a fact, Jack!
To put it bluntly, yes they will.
To expand, I've read the other responses, and I feel like more needs to be said. First of all, your dad is a human. The divine trait of humanity is that we are falliable; your father can be wrong. I'm a father myself, and I couldn't imagine giving my daughters beauty a numerical rating nor would I dream of telling her to consider marriage at 15. I'm not suggesting that you rebel, but bear that in mind. There's still so much about the world you don't know about- and shouldn't at your age- and the desires of men shouldn't be on your mind.
I've always wanted a man in my life ever since I was a little girl, it's something that I crave for.
Maybe, I don't know.
My dad keeps on bringing it up that I have to get married or I'll be alone forever, he also brings up that his great grandmother got married at 16 and had 10 children. I turn 16 this year, and he wants me to get married now.
He said that if I don't find someone he will arrange a marriage, and I don't want that. What if the guy is a lot older than me? What if I'm not compatible with him? What if he's a jerk? What if he will hit me, cheat on me or not be a good father?
The family history argument is terribly invalid- life expectancy was low and children represented both labor and bargaining chips. You are your own person, capable of your own choices, agency, and autonomy. Your father is doing you a great disservice by compelling you to accept a life you know nothing about. I don't know what the social or cultural norms are in your situation, but I believe arranged marriages are disgusting and barbaric. I also question your mothers view on this, but since you cited religious beliefs, it's likely she supports it too. Overall, listen to your heart. If it feels wrong or unjust, it probably is. I wish you luck with this.
Ratings on beauty seem unhealthy to me. While it's possible to measure someone's features in comparison to the golden ratio, that isn't the end all be all of beauty. Personality matters a lot. I've been a with a woman that I wasn't really attracted to, and it did prevent me from wanting to move the relationship forward. However, she was a great person, and I regret that we didn't work out. She's now with a different guy, and I earnestly hope they are happy together.
I've also been with a woman that was very attractive physically, but turned out to be a raging narcisist that was completely toxic to be around. She's alienated herself from friends and family, and I never want to see her again. Beauty does matter for romance, but it isn't everything.
Looks, knowledge or wealth doesn't matter. If you aren't satisfied with your weight, for example, you can lose fat, get fit or gain a bit more body fat whatever you desire. Knowledge if you don't think have much knowledge, you can practice and skill and turn it into a profession. You can read in order to have much deeper knowledge and wiser looking to the life or wealth, you can work, invest etc. You can build it by yourself. These are the easiest things to change when given enough time. For facial beauty that comes with youth, you get what I am saying. This will be gone over some decade, but whatever will stay with you will be your personality it can slightly change, but won't change completely and won't change that easy. So my answer for your question is yes.
Do you mean "plain" as in normal? As opposed to the phony beauty standard of super models and celebrities?
Girlfriend, I'm sure you are very attractive.
Besides beauty is subjective. There are guys who are looking for someone just like you.
Listen, i'll honest, yea, guys and men tend to go after attractive women. But in your mind you may feel like a 5 but another guy may consider you an 8. I know rating people may be kind of cruel or demeaning. However, it's to shed some input on her. A girl can be 9/10 in looks but be a 3/10 in personality and 1/10 with compassion/caring/sympathy and 2/10 with behaviour, 0/10 with how she conducts herself in public. Guys and men don't want to bring a ratchet female back to his house for his parents to meet.
But it doesn't matter, they'll never know what I'm like since they don't care to get to know me, and if I try to get to know them they push me away.
Also, they'll just look for a girl who has all those qualities and that looks good physically.
We'll see what you have to understand is that's not the important part everybody looks at everybody a little bit different they see things that other people don't say the most important thing to me is the person on the inside who she really is does she have a beautiful heart how does she see things does she see and feel things deeper than most is she confident is she smart is she happy how does she handle herself that's the most important part the outside of a person is just all an extra bonus
I would EAGERLY marry a WAY below average looking girl, IF I loved her, because of her other qualities. The better looking the girl is, the less other qualities they need, for me. BUT, if they are NOT NICE, it is OVER! The better a personality a girl has, the less good looking she has to be, for me to want to marry her.
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Absolutely yes.
Forget about the ratings. They are worthless. There are plenty of guys who will (probably already) think you're beautiful.
One will marry you. Focus on that. Ignore the rest.
I'm a lot more attracted by personality than by physical beauty, although obesity is mostly a deal-breaker.
I dated a woman most wouldn't consider a beauty, but she was smart and funny and great in bed.
There is a lot more to a person than looks. If she was nice and had a great personality and was interested in the same things that I am I do not see why not.
Of course. Most men date around their looks match level. It's up to you to not get a big head and chase 10s like the rest of the women. If you look for men pragmatically, you'll actually have a larger selection of men than the women dating out of their own league.
Yes because what´s average to one guy is cute and beautiful to the next. Beauty is also not the only quality a woman should have for marriage because as a guy I won´t marry a woman I absolutely can´t get along even if she´s beautiful.
Many people's eye grow out of their ass and they call actual ones ten, while also falling actual tens one.
Please, just answer my question. Would a guy marry and commit to a girl for the rest of his life who is a 5/10 in the face?
I haven't seen that face so I don't know what you mean.
There are some faces that are fuckking repulsive, that's piercings for me, but other people think they're 10/10, while other faces are bashed when I like them.
5/10 is average, not unattractive or attractive, just average and plain.
I swear half of the "5" are twice as attractive as "10" purely in the facial appearance.
Your idea of average ain’t someone else’s.
But furthermore, 90% of the country is average. I would imagine we think us average lookers are beautiful.
10/10 females usually have a crappy personality and tend to go through boys often, so I personally prefer an average person.
Yes.
For me it comes down to her personality.
Looks aren't everything, and looks fade over time.
Who they are stays with them forever.
Like Judge Judy says beauty fades, dumb is forever.
You're a kid. You probably haven't "glown up" yet.
Let me tell you a secret: Kaley Cuoco used to be plain, and now she's one of the hottest women on the planet!
Do not despair!!
I would rather a 5/10 good girl than an 11/10 bitch.
What is a good girl and what is a bitch?
So in other words the good girl is always devoted no matter what which is good. I actually found the right woman who does exactly that for me. She and I are gonna be married, happily ever after. While the other type of gal is just a gold digger, a cheater and someone who sort of pities the guy she is dating even if he is successful. In other words, the second one is using the guy to her advantage, only asking him if she needs him for something. This includes money, comfort bla bla bla.
I hope so because I’m the leader of average looking team
Hooray 🪩
Yeah. Her looks only go so far. Could easily have no interest in someone based upon her values, personality, and other things besides her looks.
5/10 isn't average. An average is like a 7. And I certainly wouldn't marry someone whom I considered lower than a 7.
Uh oh someone failed his math class at school
My face is pretty busted 2 :') im not a tough guy or anything but I've thrown weight around.
It sucks to not be attractive enough for people to even try to get to know you. They just won't give you a chance because you're not attractive enough. 😭
Could be. Are you good in bed? Can you cook and clean? Are you a good listener? Can you make good money? Those things will away me.
Yes. Not only are there more important things, like personality or mutual interests, but there are plenty of guys which are interested in and expect average girls.
Where are those guys? It seems like there's none that are like that in my age.
If she’s beautiful enough inside, which matters most.
What makes someone beautiful on the inside?
Basically the kinds of things that makes someone a good person.
Are you looking to get married soon? Some girls may appear pretty but looks are not all that matters
Yes, I am. I'm 15, and according to my dad I'm in my prime and need to find someone quick. I can't wait 10 years, when I'm 25 no guy will want me. I'm too old them at that point, since "women age like milk".
No guy wants me, so I don't know what to do. I feel like I'll be alone forever.
By the way, I look about 7 years older than I am. People tell me that all the time.
Ngl, find it hard to believe at 15 you look like you are in your 20s. Your dad should be more supportive in my opinion. What do you tell yourself on how you look?
I do, I've had a bad sleep routine since the age of 11 and it has aged me like 7 years. When I tell people I'm 15 they always tell me "I thought you were in your twenties". Makes me feel like shit but there's nothing I can do about it.
I am yellow, pale, awkward, I have dark hair, glasses, overbite, big nose, pimpels, I'm tall and I am awkward looking.
At 15 I was also too tall. I had acne and as you can see huge ears. It’s just awkward for so many at that age so if you try to compare with others you will only feel badly. Ignore your dad claiming you only have 10 years. Have you done better with sleep recently?
Well, it's a good thing when a guy is tall. On the other hand tall women aren't as favored. I'm taller than most guys lol.
I don't have only 10 years, according to him I have 5 years on me, before my prime is over.
No I haven't, I usually go to sleep at like 5 am. 3 am on average, but it takes 2 hours for me to fall asleep.
Make sure you love yourself and are healthy first. Let’s say you had a child, would you be happy they are getting to sleep at 5 am?
15 year old guys will still get growth spurts and grow taller.. your height isn’t a bad thing
No I wouldn't. If I ever become lucky enough to have children, I will be very strict for their own good. They have to go to sleep at a certain time, go outside, no phones, no or little plastic toys (because they contain dangerous chemicals, which are extremely damaging to boys specifically) and they need to eat healthy. I don't want them to be like me.
Sorry feels like I am going past just answering your question. Feel free to follow me if you wanted some help or feedback
by the way if your kids will have a bedtime then start with you being disciplined yourself. Kids will not respect you if they know you can’t have discipline yourself
I look at the whole person, Anyone that marries a face is a jerk.
You’re under 18 lol. Why so worked up over marriage?
Absolutely I would and did.
How is your marriage going?
11 years and fine
Guys do it all the time, so yeah lmao
Of course. I'm sure you look good
Thank you, but I don't.
Guess we will never know then
Yes. There’s someone for everyone
I just feel like I'm not good looking enough for guys since I'm invisible. I really do want to find a husband and have kids though, but it seems like guys only go for the pretty girls and ignore girls like me.
I don't care, I'm in my supposedly "prime" according to my dad, and the chances of finding someone in 10 years will be much lower than now. Men don't want an old 25 year old woman, but no one wants me now either so I don't know what to do.
Well I'm religious and traditional. I won't find a religious and traditional man that wants me at 30 lmao
You won't be a 5 to the guy who loves you.
I tend to go for the girl next door type.
Sound good to me dear
Yes, I could.
Yes.
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