If you believe in marriage, what type of ceremony would you prefer?

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Church? Destination? Big guest list or small? If you're against marriage you can skip this Ask.

WriterDreams · Accepted Answer

I am a big believer in marriage personally but accept that others have different opinions.

My sister got divorced once and now can't bring herself to marry again. Dispite being in a relationship nearly 25 years with - at last count - 2 kids. The emotion is definitely there but for them it works to not marry.

However for me it is a desperate long time dream. Now made more hopeful than ever.

I'd do it for love, to have the right to be called his wife and him my husband. I never cared to do it for social reasons. For me it's about the love and the two involved not to please society demands. However due to my intended hopeful it would greatly benefit us to be married due to his health issues. As presently I'm nothing inregards to being heard, or told if he ends up in hospital again. It is both a stressful and hurtful way of things. Something I'm told will be erased were we to marry. As being his wife would allow me more acceptance, rights and respect from those in his life. I also would not have to log our every relationship actions everyday. Would be very good indeed to have that demeaning stress removed.

I'd still do it for love first. From what I can tell it is not what he wants yet or... ever?

Who knows however if he did...

Then I'd like simple. The dress, the man and the celebration. Are all I'd care for.

Meaning I'd like a small ceremony (possibly in a church because of his beliefs I'm not that fazed on location)

Close friends only it would be very small.

I'd want a blue dress of a historical style that I felt beautiful in, it's important to me that I don't feel ugly on such a day and if I had bridesmaids I wouldn't do that put them in something ugly to look better myself thing. They could wear whatever they liked that's casual presentation sort of thing.

The man is tops. If he isn't there none of the rest remotely matters at all.

The celebration has to be big in that I'd like cake, food, drink and all the best music me and my love adore. We both love dancing so that'll be tops and it would go all night. If I ever marry you won't believe how astonishing such a thing would be and deserves desperately to be celebrated.

My wedding would be similar to that of Jane and Lisbon's wedding in the final of The Mentalist. Small and all about things important to the couple only. No focus on others it would be our day. We both would deserve it.

No mothers-in-laws allowed. 😂

Just kidding I wouldn't do that to either of them but I might think very hard about kicking her out if she says one harsh, hurtful thing about us, to us or to anyone.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I would not want a Christian wedding, I would want a ceremony acknowledging God but none of this bride of Christ or husband sanctifying the wife or the man taking leadership, I think that is disgusting. It would be based on ceremony and not on vows, and I would serve snacks and not full out meals. And the wedding would be affordable and would happen in a place that is easy to access by bus or car. Ideas include renting a friend's mansion and hosting a pay per person barbecue where each person pays a certain amount for each food they order at the barbecue. And people showing photos of our child hoods on a video screen. Maybe a dancing event after the barbecue.

Raaj4you · Accepted Answer

Earlier, I was not interested in dating and marriage. Suddenly I got interested in it. Anything is fine, both temple and church. A lavish wedding will be awesome!!! But It's wise to have a budget wedding. If our parents can't afford then why should we burden them with the huge expenses?

According to a survey, couples who went for budget wedding were more prosperous and are still together. Most of the lavish wedding ended up in divorce.

Leapfrog00 · Accepted Answer

Outside on a nice warm day, maybe a garden, a beach, or a cruise ship, I'd hire a DJ to play all of our favorite songs. Then I'd do the ceremony closer to dark, so after we said "I do", fireworks would go off, lighting up the sky.

Then our song would play during the fireworks. I almost got married once. Me being a guy though, the girl probably wouldn't let me have a chance to get involved with organizing the wedding, lol.

Finchie40 · Answer

If I ever get married again , I want a ceremony with just her and I , We plan a romantic trip just for the 2 of us and we spend a lot of quality time together, have a lot of sex and be catered too and just enjoy every second together without a care in the world. , when we get back home , we have a big reception party with friends and family

LazerBean · Answer

We had ours in a church. Both of us had a lot of older people in our lives who had watched us grow up and wanted to come, plus our friends that were more our age. So we ended up having nearly 300 people at our wedding. It's was fun though, the after party was pretty amazing.

Fireguy17 · Answer

Ours was both our second marriage.
We had family and close friends, maybe 90ish total.
We did it at the same place we had the reception.
It was great.
Everything was just as she envisioned it to be.
It helped keep the costs down, we had a great pastor and I had history of being in that place when I was younger.
All in all it could not have been any better.

Christoff92 · Answer

Jungle wedding 😀

PointTaken · Answer

Depends on us as a couple. One idea would be to have it on the beach, at sunset, so she can wear a white dress with gold trimming fading in from the waiste down. Also, it would be funny to have the guests facing the sun. There's also in a nice church if we decide. Then there's always renting a farm/barn/ forest. With part of the forest, green would definitely be the color for the wedding.

DizzyDesii · Answer

A tented one yes; most likely some coastal area of the USA; 20-50 guests

Haha456 · Answer

you're asking a bunch of bitter chronically single with no dating prospects about whether or not they want marriage?  If you can't find anyone to marry , dont talk about marriage.

Anonymous · Answer

Do you believe in marriage or do you beleive in a public statement of your affections? Most people today only really beleive in a public statement, for they leave as soon as their feelings change.

MementoMori777 · Answer

From a church to somewhere beautiful, not too sure where yet but if anything I'll bring the church to the spot cause something I know for sure is that I want God involved in my marriage.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know about location but I'd hopefully like to get married somewhere with character and history with beautiful scenery. And definitely a small ceremony. Im an introvert and socially anxious person. So that's ideal and well I think the small ceremony with only those who are closet to you makes it more special.

You couod likely have a nicer honeymoon afterwards.

And well also personally I don't really understand why a large wedding would be preferable.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Afternoon garden party because I'm most functional before 11pm. Re the ceremony itself, id rather have it done at the same venue unless partner insists on doing it at church.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I like having sex. I just like to coom. If I don't have my woman to coom in, then I will save it in coom jars for her later.

gag37627 · Answer

Close friends and family witnessing we starting our life together. I don't want it to be fansy one. Most weddings are Mike dramas. I want it to be like a birthday party for little kid... innocent and beautiful

Pudsmucker · Answer

A simple church wedding. Most Church weddings are inexpensive and have a small guest list of close friends and immediate family from both sides. Simple reception in the fellowship hall of church and a photographer.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

A lot of people who don't believe in marriage have weddings lol. They just pretend they do, but all they really want is the big fancy party where they're the center of attention. But they never truly intend to stay with their spouse forever.

itsalyssaagain · Answer

Can we talk about how much weddings give social anxiety. I know I’m expected to have one but the thought of it makes me anxious to the core.

SeriouslyFunny00 · Answer

If ever in the future, beach wedding is one of my dreams.. 😍

Nikki1989 · Answer

We were married outdoors in a park by a river.

Jazzy54 · Answer

Small and practical. The wedding is just the ceremony. The marriage is life. Therefore, I want to invest more money into our lives, not the wedding.

AdithyaR · Answer

I like the idea of marriages but I detest the idea of wedding ceremonies.

Rangers · Answer

I'd just go to the courthouse and get married I'll never be able to afford a big wedding and it would be attended by nobody, anyways

JonesT10Apr · Answer

marriage is half of life... from there life start... foundation of family... believe in God for better and his guidance to win life with marriage right person

Lansington79 · Answer

A sweet and simple temple wedding. Small guestlist filled with people who we love and who truly love us and wish the best for us. Simple comfortable clothing, good vibes, good food ❤️

mommymommymommy · Answer

I'll believe in marriage, when divorce stops

Redstang88 · Answer

I hate weddings, if I was gonna get married we’d sign the papers and tell everyone after

Tiffany1996 · Answer

I’d go down to JOP or Vegas Marry my girlfriend. I won’t step foot in a church.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I got married by the justice of the peace and bought a house with the money we saved on the wedding

Luckycharms12 · Answer

I don't but if was to get married small go to Italy small group family and friends holiday and wedding

driven159 · Answer

The size of the wedding does not make the marriage the couple make the marriage.

SirJohn42 · Answer

I believe in a church.  With family and friends.

imawfulatusernames · Answer

Id prefer a ceremony that married me under my religion

Babygirl_S · Answer

A grand Indian wedding with all the North Indian ceremonies.

Kelly6 · Answer

Medium beach ceremony at a certain special beach

Jltakk · Answer

Simple backyard dinner with both of our parents and siblings. I'm not against the concept of marriage but a ceremony isn't needed.

CubaPirate · Answer

We did it in a local Methodist Chapel and reception at a country pub

eagle1951 · Answer

justice of the peace do it small save the money for a house or honey moon

BCRanger10 · Answer

We got married in a church.

Simslover92 · Answer

Church wedding that is preferably small.

jshm2 · Answer

Simple with close friends.

loveslongnails · Answer

It would be very, very small.

BrookeS · Answer

Small wedding on a farm

Anonymous · Answer

Destination and big guest list.

JohnK123 · Answer

Whatever my wife wanted lol hbu

Noah2023 · Answer

Simple wedding with a few people.

EaterPeter · Answer

Church, small guest list.

Anonymous · Answer

No i don't believe in marriage

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