Would you want to get married, if so would you do it the traditional way or differently?

[SClassWizzard]

I don't do marriage, but I will if its the PAGAN way, which is what I actually consider myself to be,.. a PAGAN

[DizzyDesii]

I want a small wedding with mainly just immediate family and closest friends/cousins (so preferably no more than 20-40 guests in total). I want a tented wedding. I dont really need cultural representation At the wedding aside from the dance music at the reception. I want a huge cake and more sweets than meets. But no alcohol please. I’m debating if i want a ring. I like wearing crosses and dogtags. I want a honeymoon that lasts a week or less either in Vegas, Bahamas, Orlando or Australia. I want a prenup.

[Ghen30]

I want to get married but I don't want a wedding. I have a lot of anxiety and would hope my partner would understand that and let us just go to the courthouse to sign the papers. Just graduating from high school and college was too much for me, and something embarrassing always happened. I don't mind a small get together with family and or friends but that's all. Plus it helps us save money.

[TodsShadow]

Non traditional wedding. Small gathering if it must happen. Won't lie im leaning towards never getting married, we are making things to complex to build healthy relationships anymore.

[Honesttguy]

I have 0 desire for marriage and even less for traditional ways just screams i have 0 creativity of my own.

[muscularbumblebee]

Sure.. have the actual wedding (a lot cheaper version perhaps. Just make sure it’s not on a legal contract so that you have the same experience of marriage but not the rights or costs of a divorce.


But as for the actual ceremony. Probably something small, casual, and less ‘fairytale’ and romantic more alternative perhaps. Such as music, venue etc

[Screenwriter]

I think hybrid version might be best. A big party, in a lovely location with food and drink. MIght be the beach. Might be a forest. But all the friends and family we could afford and as much fun as possible, with some kind of spiritual blessing!

[OldSchool_Metalhead]

Fellow pagan here. I would want it to be more like a handfasting ceremony either on the beach or woods and with only some family and friends. No giant ass traditional thing lol

[EmmaMary]

We had a full blown, all bells and whistles traditional wedding... Plus a honeymoon in Australia and New Zealand.

[Iron_Man]

Traditional wedding and also outdoors could be great to

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Non-traditional ceremony. Small one, too.

[Anonymous]

Different, I want to get married in a forest setting.

[Anonymous]

😅 What do you mean the "pagan" way?

[RandomGuy1030]

Hmmmm. id be embarrassed either way but thats me

[flirtatiousgirl]

I'm tradition girl