Do you want to get married?

[MementoMori777]

if you are already married hows the marriage? and if you dont want a marriage, why? 👀
👃

[Simslover92]

Some days I do and some days I don't because I know it will be a lot of work. I don't think people realize how tough being married can be and getting through the first few years would be the hardest because you're getting used to being not just you but being a unit. Every big decision has to be made with your spouse in mind. That can become annoying at times. You can no longer operate with just yourself in mind. And for me that scares me a bit. I don't know how to become one with someone else. Maybe once I live with my boyfriend, that will change or maybe it will truly determine if I could be married. We'll see I guess. 🤷‍♀️

[MementoMori777]

indeed, dont forget that its a growing progress, every big step is always scary to think of but you won't know if its the right step if you refuse to take it and avoid it. 😁💯

[Simslover92]

That is true!

[Anonymous]

If I could be married it would be OK. To go through all the bullshit again of meeting, dating, worrying how I look, what she thought about me, will she go out again , what is thinking, why did she not answer her phone, NO it ain't worth it. I went down this road before with my first wife now she is an EX-WIFE. It was not worth it , except for the two sons who she has. The low is always lower than the high. She left me broke, I lost my former way of life with my assets, then I lost her and my kids. She was cheating with a co-worker who she married. I have learned to be by myself now, I am concentrating on salvaging what is left of my life, hoping I don't die completely broke. I don't need a God damn woman to complicate it, trying to please her. If she is well enough off to help me then OK , but those women ain't looking for old broke bastards.

[MementoMori777]

fair enough bro 💯👌

[Leapfrog00]

I almost got married once. Had the wedding rings, the cake made, and the church picked out, like I was ready, and on the day, we were supposed to get married, I was at the church waiting for her and found out she ran off with some other guy. I'm not sure if I would want to go through that again, but then again, I would not want to make a future wife miss out just because of what some cheater did.

I doubt I will find anyone else now because I'm a lonely pathetic soul trapped in the clutches of self-pity and despair, who can't love, but in a different life, I would get married.

[Spongebobssocks]

Yes I do!

But I want to get married for religious reasons and for the symbol of it. I would have no issue with signing a prenup before because am not getting married for financial benefits. I personally believe when I get married there is no such thing as divorce. It's for life. I also want to get married because I love taking care of kids and I want children.. and I believe kids have the best upbringing when their parents are in a commitment and even better married. But am gonna make sure the wedding cake is chocolate painted in white😂 am not having any nasty cake👀

[MementoMori777]

what a good description lol

[Spongebobssocks]

Lol thanks😆

[Spongebobssocks]

Thank you for MHO😌 even if you didn't give it...🙃

[MementoMori777]

Lol.

[jennifer_bloom]

It depends who the man is. If he is a good match then yes and if he is a bad match then no.

[OlderAndWiser]

I am engaged. April 27, 2024.

[Anonymous]

Always wanted to but I am not sure at this point. I've been engaged but it didn't work out, I was hurt badly. It was like a fairytale in the beginning and turned into nightmare. I've met many toxic people in my life and never been lucky in this area. I am not saying there are no happy relationships in this world, but, after what I've been through, it's just hard to believe I happiness again. Life will show but it's not something I dream about anymore, not really excited thinking about this.

[Opinion Owner]

*in.

[MementoMori777]

no dont give up hope 😭

once you do you give up hope on love in general, i know your motivation dropped after something like this but it doesn't mean it won't ever happen, you were close and it failed but if that person was that close imagine on the idea that there's someone better than that for you, that person is roaming the earth as we speak, they exist but y'all just haven't ran into each other yet, dont forget that love isn't predictable, it never has been, it never will be, it will also most likely catch you when you least expect it, every story I've heard, it happened in a way that wasn't expected, you'll find someone perfect for you, trust 🙂💯

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you so much, it made me feel a little bit better. I will try not to give up. We definitely need more people speaking out loud about happy marriages, 'cause I've only heard bad stories... I want to believe and I hope that something unpredictable happens some day, because for now I just want to focus on other things and I need to heal. You're a great man!

[MementoMori777]

thank you, well you do that anon, take your time to heal but lets not forget that there's only a small majority of happy marriages spreading their happy marriages because they are too busy being happy marriages, thats probably why you dont hear about many but im sure there's a lot more than any of us think, i know you have the potential to get married because god made us all and he would never make you without the ability of being compatible with love because he made love and spreading love is what he wants, after all the future isn't something you can just guess off past experiences, someone will fall so deep in love with you that they won't let you go, giving up that hope is just assuring you won't find anything, all i know is that even if your chances were as low as 1%, its better than 0% 🙃🤗

[Opinion Owner]

Beautifully written, I will not forget these words! I can feel in my heart that you're right, it just takes time to be able to open up again. Last year, not so long after breaking up with my ex, I've met a guy who was crazy about me and wanted a serious relationship, marriage etc. But the problem was he couldn't understand that I needed time after being badly hurt. I really liked him but he wanted everything so fast and he was so obtrusive that he only made me feel worse. He treated me horribly when I decided to end things with him. It was hard for me, all these bad things happening one after another. I just have to be careful, because I know that it's better to be alone than to be with the wrong person. So if I ever decide to marry someone, I will have to be really sure about it. Thank you again, you bring back hope! 🤗

[MementoMori777]

reigniting that hope was all i wanted to do here anon, im glad its brought some motivation back in your heart, take the time you need to heal and you'll know when you are ready, until then just be independent, chase goals and find other forms of success, my best wishes to you anon 🙂💯

[EmmaMary]

I've been married for the past five years, but lived together for almost five years before that.

We now have the two most adorable and precious children, and life simply couldn't be any better... I am just so very, very happy and contented.

Thank you.

[MementoMori777]

nice to hear it Emma 😁💯

[EmmaMary]

@mementomori777

Thank you so much.

Perhaps one day soon you would like to tell us all a little more about yourself. 🙂

[MementoMori777]

there's not much to really say about myself but maybe Emma 🤣💯👌

[menina]

It would be nice, but it's also fine if it doesn't happen to me. I know that marriage isn't for everyone.

[MementoMori777]

fair enough 😊

[menina]

Thanks. :)

[LostandFound__x]

I would like to get married but to the person I cannot live without. If I don’t have that person in my life yet, then no I don’t want to get married.

[LostandFound__x]

In the past however I wanted to get married for stability and money. I won’t even lie lol.

[MementoMori777]

you'll find that person, patience is a virtue 🤣

[LostandFound__x]

Yup haha

[desidoll]

I have been married for 3 months and so far everything is fine. We know each other for 5.5 years.

[MementoMori777]

glad to hear it desi, may y'all have a blessed life 💯🙏🏽

[EmmaMary]

@desidoll

Oh my goodness me, many, many congratulations on your wedding.

Wishing you good luck and happiness for your future life together. xxx

[desidoll]

@mementomori777
@EmmaMary
Thank you! ❤️

[devilish-cutie]

yes, but its not a must, its more important to me to find loyal loving partner and have a good relationship, marriage would just be to legalize that but if we dont, also fine

[MementoMori777]

fair enough 🤣

[Lexina]

There are times I really want to but there other days where I feel it might be difficult adapting to a new person, being vulnerable with the person and hoping the person does same. I'm scared as hell because I easily get attached my close up buddies

[MementoMori777]

well vampira hopefully you get attached to the right person and manage to create a whole life together 😁💯

[Lexina]

Vampira that's you there

[Lexina]

I was in search of my vampira yesterday but I had forgotten your handle

[Lexina]

I pray and hope it's the right person next, I can't go through the whole detach process again

[MementoMori777]

wdym you were in search of your vampira? you are the only vampira 😂

[Lexina]

The one who calls me vampira I mean

[MementoMori777]

i dont understand what you are trying to tell me vampira 🙃

[Lexina]

I was searching for you

[MementoMori777]

oh well you have found me 😌😂

[Lexina]

Yah how're you doing?

[MementoMori777]

im alright, how have you been doing? 🙂

[Lexina]

I'm good as well

[Hinaaaaa]

Don't know... but the culture I live it's a necessity

[MementoMori777]

then i hope you'll fully realize its potentials and your mind decides on doing so Hina 🙂💯

[Hinaaaaa]

🙂I can't see any potential... it's scary lol

[MementoMori777]

that is scary indeed, you need a lover asap 😆🤣

[Hinaaaaa]

🙂a lover?

[MementoMori777]

yes 😂

[Hinaaaaa]

nO no happy single here ! 🙂Happy enjoying my singlehood lol

[MementoMori777]

i know and thats scary 😂

[nolabels]

I've been married for 30 years.

No comment as to "how" the marriage might be.

[MementoMori777]

oof.

[Anonymous]

I did when I was younger. But anymore i just don't know. I've always said I'm only going to do this once. And I just don't feel most women today are CAPABLE of a lasting commitment. I have a lot to lose now and most women of today are very questionable endeavors.

[msc545]

Been there, done that, and got the grief and the bills. Why in God's name would I sign another contract allowing a women to wreck my life at her discretion and with no consequences to her?

[MementoMori777]

cause they dont all destroy lol

[msc545]

The thing is that they all have the ability to be very destructive and you don't know which ones are going to do that and which ones aren't ahead of time. Some men think that they can figure this out ahead of time and they usually wind up being very sorry when they are wrong. I certainly was.

[MementoMori777]

just how all men have the ability to be destructive as well, it all depends if they are or not

[msc545]

No, women have far more power as a result of their ability to makle use of the weaponized legal system - if a man gets into a dispute with a woman, or the woman is just unhappy, one phone call from her to the cops and a few false statements when the cops arrive, and that guy is toast.

[Alli39]

If I find the right guy then yeah, probably. If I'm committing the rest of my life to him we might as well put a ring on it and make our taxes easier.

[Nikki1989]

I have been with my husband for over 7 years and couldn't be happier.

[SnowedIn]

I'm married and it's awesome.

[MementoMori777]

im glad to hear that bro, let the world hear it 🤣😂

[SnowedIn]

Thanks man.

[___Clara___]

No. I have no thoughts of getting married. I don't want to marry.

[Christoff92]

Someday. But to me it ain't a must and a have to. Even am supposed to.

[Whatthefluff]

Yes, in around 3-6 years. @Travis_Skyles gimme that 💍

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Nope. I don't plan on getting married for the foreseeable future.

[Anonymous]

No. I want to stay married. Most of the time...

[hiyamotherfers]

yeah I want to

[MementoMori777]

im glad, hope it works for you 😁

[hiyamotherfers]

thank you

[PointTaken]

Why yes I would if I meet the right woman.

[MementoMori777]

thats good to hear bro

[skyla_is_learning]

I don't want marriage right now

[MementoMori777]

fair enough Skyla

[skyla_is_learning]

my best years. It would be absurd to think of marriage :)

[MementoMori777]

alright skyla lol

[skyla_is_learning]

oww okey

[MementoMori777]

😂😂

[skyla_is_learning]

hahaha

[Bdog1951]

If the man is my crush then YESSSSSS

[MementoMori777]

thats a healthy thought i guess lol

[exitseven]

I have been married a long time already

[Jazzy54]

Yes I do. 😌

[MementoMori777]

thats good Jaz, hope you find that lover 😁

[Jazzy54]

Thank you. 😊

[Likes2drive]

Been married before, not sure I’ll do it again

[KostasKouvalis]

I would like to, yes

[jonishere]

Yes I do

[MementoMori777]

im glad bro, hope you find that perfect girl 🙏🏽💯

[jonishere]

Thank I hope so

[gothbxtch]

yes someday

[Anonymous]

Yes, one day.

[MementoMori777]

hope you accomplish that lol

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sure I will need a boyfriend first

[MementoMori777]

well yea but all in due time anon 😂

[Provingdatruth]

Long overdue for me.