Do you believe it’s a lot harder to get a morally good guy if he is rich?

[jennifer_bloom]

I hear so many Hollywood stories about rich men who beat their wives, rich men who cheat on their wives, rich men who neglect their wives, rich men who divorce their wives, rich men who treat their wives like a work slave, rich men who ignore or abuse their children.

There are so many examples in the news of woman who put up with absolutely horrendous men that break people’s fingers and rib cage, just because the man has money and can give them money without work.

That is why I would not trust any rich guy unless God shows me I can trust him. I had dreams that I could trust the Jewish guy I talk to now, these dreams started 14 years ago.

[MrOracle]

There are always a few exceptions, but generally, people who have tremendous privilege, especially if they didn't earn it themselves, tend to be not-so-great in the morals department. They are far too used to everyone trying to please them, and of getting away with bad behavior. Whether they are rich, good looking, or have some sort of celebrity, the people that most people find the most desirable are usually people who have some of the worst morals and values and behavior.

Most people have to learn this the hard way, and a surprising number of people never seem to learn the lesson despite being burned many times.

[ChiTown33]

Whose morals?

I only says this because while at first you might consider this black and white there are actually many levels.

For example say he made his money investing in the tobacco industry. Is that objectionable? Some would say yes some would say no.

I think it's hard for a man or woman to among so many other things, find a partner whose morals and values fall in line with yours.

[hellothere90]

This is true for top 1% rich guys. They're all sleaze bags. and yes they do have women on the side to cheat with, and even escorts.

However, there's another group of rich men who do stay loyal to their wives and who are not violent. They're in the top 2% income bracket. This includes rich doctors, software engineers and investors.

Marry a rich man in the upper middle class. I'll never date an elite man in the 1% because they're abusive.

[Raaj4you]

I agree with you. But women don't like upper middle class guys. All women dream of marrying only 🤑 rich guys.

[Raaj4you]

No, it's easier to find a good guys and girls. But it's wrong to expect perfection from everyone. We should learn to accept people with their imperfections and shortcomings. If you think you are living with a dangerous person then you should leave her / him. I don't support anyone who wants to leave spouse for simple reasons or petty issues.