Would you marry someone who had no family or a bad family?

Question

Would your wife's or husband's family situation affect your relationship?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Before my best friend's family became the catalyst for her divorce, I would have said it shouldn't matter, but they were awful people to my friend. She is the sweetest most caring person I know, the type to give her shirt off her back, and yet even the wedding day, her mother in law threatened not to show up, then held everyone hostage just waiting to see if she would or not so they could start. After the marriage, she would shame her about her religion (which was different from the family) and gaslight her husband about "what a wife should be." This woman was so bitter in life about her own husband leaving her with 4 kids, and the rest of the family was just so used to her behavior that they didn't even see it as toxic anymore.

There is a line. It's hard to break it when someone like my friends ex, is so deep into the toxic wasteland of their family dynamics that they can't see it and are unwilling to defend against it or set up boundaries for you and them. I don't want to be in any relationship with someone like that. On the other hand, if they explain their situation and you can see first hand that they are a)aware their family is awful b) set clear boundaries for you and them c)don't let their toxicity invade your life without being checked, then I can see continuing a relationship. We don't choose our families, but its what we chose to do about it and interact with it, which is something we as adults, can control.

Insecure2 · Accepted Answer

If someone is na orphan IT does not mean that automatically they are bad husband or wife material. Ultimately, they might be searching for a family to fit in and they might be willing to compromise with your loved ones. In this case I would marry them🥰 If they do not have this willingness or they want to monopolise you, then IT's definitely bad, so I wouldn't marry them. 😶‍🌫️Of course, in the case of a bad family, everything depends on whether you have your future spouse's support and if the bad family approves of you or not. When you lack either IT can be difficult to live with them, but still possible, but if you lack both IT becomes impossible. If I had my spouse's support I would probably give in hoping that we could figure IT out together, otherwise I wouldn't take the chance.

Lowly_Grumper · Accepted Answer

Would I hitch my spectacular scrotal serpent to someone sans kin or cursed with a clan of ravishing rectum repercussor enthusiasts? Absolutely.

For love, dear seeker, is not measured by the fabulous foreskin finaglers who came before, but by the electrifying engorgement engine throbbing in the here and now! A bad family? Pah! They’re but uncontainable urinary urge organizers cluttering the path to bliss. When two souls wield their irresistible intromittent instruments in harmony, who needs a magnificent masturbatory monster’s third cousin twice removed?

Marriage is a duel of throbbing thumpers, a tango of enthralling epicenters of enjoyment. If your beloved’s pulsating penile paragon ignites your heavenly hirsute horn, then let the spellbinding subcutaneous splendor commence! Bloodlines? Bah! We’re here to worship at the altar of the orgasmic outcropping, not host Thanksgiving with a bewitching bulbous beast’s in-laws.

So yes, I’d vow eternal devotion to the sensual salutator whose erotic elongated emitter outshines any familial spectacular scrotal serpent. After all, matrimony is about forging a pleasurable Persian paradise pointer… not auditing their thrilling tangled tushy tube twister’s genealogy. C’est la vie, baby. 🔥🍆💍

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

I did this , and I didn't know till she was already pregnant , horrendous family 2 x lifetime crimals , one now dead ( F ) brother served 16 years for rape..

My advice to others is LEAVE , even if the person you are with is okey , these roots return , and they made big problems , huge problems.
Mother and Father still alive and on welfare , disgusting family , cost the country a plethora.

Fortunately my 2 daughters have no contact with any of them , and never even met the two that were jailed , as I said one for serious rape , as in physical to a stranger.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I live in Florida. My wife has a small family. She has one son in California. She has a younger sister in Pennsylvania, and she is not close to that sister. She has a cousin and uncle who live in California. The rest of her is in China. She talks to ger older sister, in China, at least weekly, but they talk in Mandarin and I don't understand one word of what they say. It is functionally equivalent to her having no family.

Summeroflove · Answer

People can’t choose their family as long as it isn’t their fault that there is issues.

777GgG · Answer

I'm marrying that person not their family. I don't care that his mom is left handed and that his mom father left when he was a baby. Having a bad family or no family doesn't make that person unworthy of love. And end of the day, those things helped make him the person he is. And that's the person I fell for!

Ultimately, unless they come from a horrifically awful family those familial bonds are irrelevant to me.

Cormac995 · Answer

If she was a loving and devoted wife who made me feel loved and important the family she comes from is irrelevant. If you're married dealing with bitchy in laws is part of the deal whether you like it or not. If that's too much to deal with don't get married. As long as I loved her and she loved me I'll put up with some assholes out of love for her.

FriendlyCanadianGuy · Answer

If they have a bad family it will definitely bleed into your relationship.

My almost wifes family was very overbearing, judgmental and infectious.

My ex would tell me what they thought of me (mostly racist remarks), constantly instilled doubt and it was jealously from any angle. It was a nightmare to deal with but thought, hey they aren't my fiance yada yada

Eventually they clawed their way in and sabotaged our marriage plans. Haven't spoken to them since

princeofromance · Answer

I would marry them for the simple fact that we care deeply for one another. Their family has nothing to do with our strong connection as a couple. If anything, it will only help us to grow closer; for we have a bond that their family never shared with them in life.

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

I live in a bad country and people here care about their families a lot, in this case the issue is even promoted to married couples, so no, marrying someone with a bad family but if he doesn't have a family, then

lightofdarkness · Answer

There is a huge difference between non family and bad family. I Can marry with someone who lost their family. But with bad family it'll really terrible for everyone

Anonymous · Answer

Yes if no family, if it was a bad family I would want to make sure she wasn't too close to them. We all know how it is in ultra conservative families, parents are revered and the dumber and more out of date such parents are the more respect they are given a lot of the time. If she isn't comfortable telling her parents when they are wrong, then I think I should look elsewhere. Reverence is earned with intelligence not age.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I would since I don't exactly have the best family situation.. Even with my close family.. It's dysfunctional.. As long as they weren't really involved it would be fine..

Nikki1989 · Answer

I did. It is just another thing we have in common.

DizzyDesii · Answer

No family? Preferred. A bad family? Well we all seem to have that but its not preferred

Unap0logetic_ · Answer

No family? Yes, but a bad family definitely not. I’ve been and there and done that in my youth, never again.

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

Lesson learned and I Know better now NEVER DATE OR MARRIED A MOMMAS BOY!

Shiprex · Answer

Yes as long as she was a positive addition to my life and made me want to be a positive addition to hers

Iron_Man · Answer

What do you mean by no family? Everybody’s got a family unless they die off how’s that fair to choose a boyfriend or a friend if they have a family or not

aquamarine321 · Answer

Everyone situation is different, and in my country it’s a regular thing to have either or both, plus that doesn’t necessarily mean they’re a bad soulmate

leahzrc · Answer

I would but he do the same for me I have one good family and that is my mother

msg321 · Answer

If I love her personality, yes. you don't marry with a person's family. You marry with a person. You won't sleep with his/her family members. You will sleep with him/her.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Yeah if she checked all the boxes. Seems irrelevant to me tbh.

Anonymous · Answer

i would. i come from a toxic ass family so it wouldn't stop me. we just don't associate with them.

Anonymous · Answer

No family, sure, if I liked her. But a bad family.. like she's from the mafia? No thanks, too hot for me. Or do you mean the family is lower caste or something?

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

No family, yes. Bad family, maybe. If he's not like them and staying clear from them, I'm good.

Anonymous · Answer

I am not interested in marriage. If I was interested, having a partner with a bad family or no family would not be a deal breaker. What is important is that they are not dysfunctional due to said family or no family.

Staximus · Answer

I would not care if a woman had no family or a bad family, but if she had a bad family I wouldn't want to deal with them and their bullshit.

Mangospacho · Answer

I would choose no family over bad family because bad family is just as bad as no family but there’s less drama with no family.

AaaAviii123 · Answer

Yes, why not. There can be many reasons they don’t have a family, just depends. It depends on the person, not anyone else.

DrPepper12 · Answer

BREAKING: Everyone has a "bad family" depending on pov

Anonymous · Answer

Everyone has those black sheep which teach us how to have a sense of humor.

monkeynutts · Answer

Depends how often you have to interact with these bad family members.

dragoblack · Answer

Yeah. Im there for her, not her dysfunctional family

Johnkramer98 · Answer

someone with no family for sure. someone with bad family hell no

Professor-college · Answer

I wouldn't care if she doesn't have any family but it would be a problem if her family is horrible

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I would marry her even if she had no family or a bad family

On_cloud_wine · Answer

Yeah we can make our own happy family

MoonFace2 · Answer

Yes I’d marry them probably.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Depends on the circumstances.

KatieK92 · Answer

People can't choose their family so no

Ladsin2 · Answer

Wouldn't matter to me.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

All men r pervs

masterSir · Answer

wouldn't stop me

Priya99999 · Answer

I don't believe in marriage

Communicationisking · Answer

100%

jimmy2 · Answer

Bad family there always one good

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

I came froM a "broken home".

WhitneySnow · Answer

Yes. I would.

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