Why only ugly men want marriage and the attractive guys want only hookup?

[Anonymous]

Is there no in between? Never ever met an attractive guy that want a seriosu relationship and the ones I’m not sexually attracted to are the ones that want relationship and marriage.

How can one person be happy like that in a sexless marriage? Don’t say u learn to be sexually attracted to them no that shit don’t work with me.

Even by giving ugly men a chance it’s worse they reject u n also don’t want a serious relationship.

I think that the one don’t exist and a partner that loves you exists at all where the love is mutual. Never met a guy that loves me back mutually.

[Finchie40]

Not every attractive guy only wants hook ups but the ones that do , know they can land a bunch of girls’ and like having the options and variety to choose from , they don’t want a relationship , because they know they can’t be loyal to one person. Some attractive girls’ do this as well to guys’ cuz they know they have a variety to choose from and can get pampered from multiple guys’ instead of just one. This type of behavior stems down to what they experienced in life , it’s a selfish behavior, they were more than likely raised to believe they do no wrong and raised to always get their way. Selfish people are not good relationship people whatsoever, cuz they only care about themselves and no one else. So just because someone looks good on the outside , it doesn’t mean they are good in the inside. Why people shouldn’t base things by the cover of the book , like they always say, never judge a book by its cover. I am a one on one relationship kind of guy , so when it comes to girls’ I don’t care how attractive she looks on the outside , her personality and heart is also very important to me , for me to even consider being in a relationship with her. She might get me into bed but it does t mean I will continue being with her if her true colors shine and she is selfish person. I had my fair share of selfish girls’ and they are all now my exes. I will only consider a relationship with a girl that knows what it means to be in a relationship, that chooses me the same way she wants me to choose her , not the other way around. I don’t care how hot she looks if she doesn’t have good moral values , to me it was just sex and bothing else if that is the case. Basically thanks for a good time , but not a long time

[HawkPerception]

There are tons of attractive dudes I know that are married. However, there is SOME truth to this. More attractive people are less willing to settle down because they have shiny object syndrome. They are used to having options so settling down might feel like it's caging them. Some people prefer having many options to commiting to one person for the rest of their life.

[Anonymous]

It is actually simple. Ugly men, because they are ugly, will be alone until they die, so they want to at least marry an ugly woman like themselves and start a relationship. Attractive men, because they are attractive, can find as many women as they want, so they don't even think about marriage.

[PeachyPie93]

You got to start looking either at religious guys or guys younger than you who are virgins and haven't been traumatized by a slut yet lol There are some young cuties who are a little dorky but you can fix them up to your liking :P

[Asker]

I’ve talked to Religous guys on a church dating app and they do want Mariage and relationship
But are picky as they are looking for the one and I’m not the one to the men. They also talk of the church nonstop and I don’t go to church. I just talk normally and they are saying 24/7 Christ guided me through hard times etc like reading from a book script 24/7.
Most are older men I’m not attracted to and it’s hard still find a Religous man that’s my type

[Asker]

I talked to one virgin once that wanted be my boyfriend but it was a guy I wasn’t sexually attracted to in a far state so it didn’t workout

[PeachyPie93]

LOL then work on yourself and your personality because it sounds like you are the issue, if you can't attract guys you are attracted to. And make sure you are actually attractive yourself and not chasing guys better looking or out of your league.

[Asker]

I dont think u can forcé. a guy to be attracted to u it’s just about luck and if it’s meant to be or not.
Just most only want fwbs or hookup it’s so many men that only want sex it’s so crazy and scary. There’s very little men that exist that want a relationship.

[PeachyPie93]

Where are you looking for men? Hopefully not on dating apps? If so that is problem number 1 cuz dating apps are mainly just hookup apps it would be rare to fine a serious guy from them.

[Anonymous]

The in betweens, the perfect for you exist and are hidden to you by your prejudices if what is ugly most likely. Your thinking seems very binary.
It also depends on what men perceived you to be and your worth to them.
Most people would do well to find someone on their level that likes them, get to know them and choose the one with the best personality and potential for the future. Regardless of how pretty they look in social media.
But that requires emotional maturity and rational thinking.

[Asker]

I have given ugly men a chance and they still don’t want relationship.

It’s impossible find a boyfriend

[Asker]

Can’t find any in between guy that’s average that Wants be my boyfriend I have 27 years looking for a boyfriend

[NicholasRedone]

There's whole Google results of studies showing women's preferences and mens preferences vary from what they're looking for.

Same way dating apps ask the same : are you here for dates, friends, chats or are you here for dates, long term, short term, causal. That's what the apps all do now.

Just like the mirror reflection of society

[serious]

That is a really good question. I think the reason is because good looking, handsome men can easily get women but it is much harder for men who are not so good looking. Hence they are more open to long term relationships like marriage.

[Asker]

I can’t force myslef comitt to an ugly guy I don’t like, how will be having sex with him? Lol

[serious]

Yes I do understand your point. We all have the rights to our likes and dislikes. There is nothing wrong if you want a super handsome man with a good personality also.

[Anonymous]

Most hot guys want to hook up but some really do want a serious girlfriend

[Asker]

I’ve never met a guy I like that wants a relationship. No one gives me a chance I’m 27 I just want experience it once In my life 😔

[Asker]

Maybe that’s what I deserve only hookup n be alone forever that’s my destinyb

[Billlewis]

Because good looking guys can have their pick of attractive women, while ugly guys are relegated to beta bucks and paying for a woman’s romantic encounters with real men.

[HungTexan]

That’s totally false. There are attractive guys that want relationships!
And marriage.

[Asker]

I’ve never met a guy that wants a relationship. I cannot get a relationship I’m 27 neevr had a boyfriend

[VyacheslavSokolov]

Awe I feel so bad for you. I hope you find the man you want one day.

[Anonymous]

That's not always true. Some of the hottest guys I knew in high school and university are married and off the market. Yeah there are some attractive guys who are just players though.

[Anonymous]

For the same reason only attractive women want to use men. Because they can.

Why would an attractive man settle for 1 woman when he can 50? He knows he's not going to get loyalty from ANY one of them. So he's just having fun.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I guess it not being so easy gives them enough time to kinda think of what they want

[beefcakebradybatson]

That's only partially true;many handsome dudes want a wife and lots of ugly lads desire hookups.

[wkhan_87]

No , some good looking men also prefer marriage and some ugly men wants just hook ups.