Guys, How soon would you expect your Wife to bounce back after having a child?

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Would it bother you if she no longer looks how she used to pre-pregnancy?

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

This is one of the best questions  Because your in the best relationships with your best friend  And once she gets pregnant you have to live that nine  months with her and he really needs to understand. How miserable she really is Her whole body chemistry changes every nutrient. Every vitamin , every good thing in her body is being sucked up and out of her body depleted Of course, she's not gonna look the same. Her attitude's not going to be the same.
I cannot imagine.
Even though I put myself there twice , I cannot imagine what it feels like to go through what women go through when they have a baby My ex-wife had postpartum and. The things that she put on me by having this touch what she probably went through And i'm saying this from my point of view , from a guy that I don't even like her anymore , ever , i'm on the verge of hate  Because of what she put me through but I have to be honest with your question so I won't go there But if a guy cannot understand what is girlfriend. His wife just went then. He has no business having kids because because it gets even harder after this.  In some ways it depends on who the 2 people are. But no to your question I i
 Say you let her recoup and find herself again. Because what she just put herself through to have your child is just unbelievable.
 Even though I dislike my ex-wife like you would not believe I still thank her for what she went through. To have my kids

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HawkPerception · Answer

Change happens and I'd embrace whatever changes come along with my partner's pregnancy.

What I would not be okay with is her being lazy and just giving up on her appearance altogether after it, using the excuse that her body will never be the same.

As long as I see her put an effort to get in shape and get the body she wants after a reasonable amount of time after the pregnancy, I'm a happy camper in the marriage.

There are plenty of older women who have had multiple kids and look like bombshells because they maintain themselves.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

The body changes dramatically during and after childbirth. I wouldn’t expect a woman to look the same as before having a child. However, as soon as she’s able to get back to regular exercise, i would expect her to take the same care for her health, fitness and appearance as she did before the child. Having children isn’t an excuse to disrespect yourself and your partner; for men or women.

Summeroflove · Answer

Bodies naturally change during and after pregnancy as well as with age. I wouldn’t expect anything she would already have enough going on

SoccerPlayer99 · Answer

I think there are two points I'd like to make. As a disclaimer, I recognize that I am a bit jaded because i've been married for 20 years to someone who let themselves go.

1. I think it's part of marriage to expect you and your spouse will take care of themselves in a reasonable way so that attraction can be kept between you two. What does this mean? It means you strive to physically and mentally exercise yourself so that you may show up as the best version of yourself for your partner.

2. It's perfectly reasonable to assume that your body will not be the same as it was pre-kid. It's reasonable to assume it will take some time for you to heal both mentally and physically. What isn't reasonable is to just say, "If you love me you will just accept whatever I become and if you don't you're shallow and never loved me. I shouldn't have to maintain a healthy appearance for you to love me." It's not about love, because you never stopped being worthy of love. This about striving to be healthy for yourself, your husband and now your baby.

Before you come at me with whataboutisms, remember, while you might be making all the excuses in the world for your own special situation there is a woman somewhere doing exactly what I just wrote. It might not be the norm, but it probably should be.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Yes it would bother initially if she gained more weight and does nothing about it.

But she's the wife so we can get used to it as we would have emotional connect it would stop bothering eventually.

But you have to give time to guys as well to get mentally aligned with the changes you are going through as even he is going through with along your side just don't blame him for all the things.

Usually the doctor says 5 to 6 months to bounce back.

Women bounce back quicker who have normal delivery.

Anonymous · Answer

Well she’s likely not but could get pretty dam close with consistency over the course of 6 months. This is completely possible.
I guess I wouldn’t really care about the appearance but not having some health and fitness drive would be problematic I’d hate to raise a child in low activity environments. I Try to be a good example.

Alex-Snow · Answer

I'm still 20 and not married and no plans to just yet. But I know things take time to let a women's body reset after 9 months of pregnancy and a delivery. I would do all I could to help he if asked. Guys should be patient because all they did was have a good orgasm and the wife has to adjust her life for many months afterward.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

The women I have dated have been into fitness, being active. I would be more concerned if she took a 180° about-face and became a couch surfer. I just don’t see that happening. Regardless, even if she puts on weight and it becomes difficult to shed … as long as she remains active I guess I just have more to keep me warm at night.

LuciusTheOdd · Answer

I mean, I think it’s stupid to put numbers on such a thing, besides if you Consciously chose to have a baby with her, One would assume that your relationship developed to a point where you actually work together on stuff.
For example, If you’re really all that obsessed with your wife being back in shape, then don’t be a prick and go to the gym with her, encourage her, tell her she’s doing good and she’s beautiful, And everything else will just kind of work itself out.

genericname85 · Answer

i'd say a year or 2 is reasonable. obviously physically it's possible way quicker but i'll cut her some slack for having my baby xD

Drumlin2001 · Answer

She's never go to be the same after pregnancy, nor would I expect her to be.

exitseven · Answer

My wife had a C section and it took a while. Maybe a year, just in tim e to get pregnant agian.

u7u7u7u7 · Answer

Like 4 months, that's enough time for her to reshape herself back to the graceful look she used to have before pregnancy.

CaptainSmartass · Answer

Can't say it's something I've ever thought about, really. Simples...

JDLives · Answer

Within a year maybe. It’s not the worst thing in the world cause the boobs may get bigger and the butt more shapely.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Ehhh, sounds like a problem another baby's gonna fix

Celticwolf78 · Answer

It doesn't matter what she looks like it's the love that we have

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

As long as she needs i guess what do I know about having a baby

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I have no clue what the going rate is but, I'd expect a week or two.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

What!!! What kinda stupid question is that? Is she a thing?

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Every woman recovers from childbirth differently.

Anonymous · Answer

Whenever she is ready.

ABC1x1x · Answer

18 minutes. Thats how long it took my wife.

Anonymous · Answer

The freshman 15 is not a life sentence.😆

dudeinohio · Answer

Didn't bother me

Iron_Man · Answer

30 days

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